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| "Have you ever felt lonely?"
We were built for community!
But whether you have tons of friends or just one or two close friends, we all know what it's like to feel lonely.
There are so many reasons someone might feel lonely, and some of us feel lonely more often than others.
Sometimes people feel lonely it's because they're . . .
Fighting with their friends.
New and haven't made many friends yet.
Not getting noticed or invited to things.
Feeling misunderstood by others.
Feeling like everyone is laughing at or excluding them.
Experiencing anxiety or depression.
Dealing with the consequences of a damaged reputation.
Struggling with a loss or challenge no one knows about or can relate to.
Sometimes people feel lonely and they're not really sure why!
There might even be people in this room right now, surrounded by people and friends, who still feel lonely.
So how about you?
Have you ever felt lonely?
Even if it was just for a moment?
INSTRUCTIONS: Ask students to respond by raising their hands.
If you'd like, ask a few students to share more about when and why they felt that way.
Last week we started this conversation about putting ourselves in the shoes of other people so we can better understand what they're going through.
Why?
Because as followers of Jesus, when someone is having a hard time, we need to figure out how to be there for them — and loneliness is something a lot of people are feeling.
SO WHAT?
Why does it matter to God and to us?
STORY | Talk about a time you felt lonely.
INSTRUCTIONS: Tell a story from your own life (or ask a volunteer or student to tell a story) about a time when you felt lonely, using the list of scenarios in the "Poll" module just above this as inspiration.
Share in detail how you felt, what led you to feeling that way, and what would have made you feel less lonely.
I remember a few months before I gave my life to Christ I began to feel really lonely.
I hung out with a lot of people at work, the mall, and all kinds of places.
But all my friendships and relationships were really shallow, based on partying, talking about sports and stuff.
And I had no relationship with God, which is the ultimate form of loneliness.
I can’t explain it, but every night I would go to be with this extreme sense of hopelessness.
I made great money working in a factory, had a nice car and could get pretty much what I wanted, but there was a complete lack of purpose in my life and lack of any meaningful relationships.
Maybe you’ve felt like this before or know someone who has...
As we talk today, think about the people in your school, your neighborhood, or our church.
Because if we want to be people who love God by loving others well, we've got to figure out how to love others when they're feeling alone.
Who might be feeling lonely?
Who needs someone to reach out to them in friendship?
Even if you're feeling a little lonely too, who could you reach out to?
OBJECT LESSON | The Story of Ruth & Naomi (Ruth 1:1-16)
*Naomi and Ruth Pic*
In the Bible, there's a book about two women named Ruth and Naomi who knew some things about loneliness.
INSTRUCTIONS: As you tell the story of Ruth and Naomi, get your students involved as silent actors.
You'll need students to portray Elimelek, Naomi, Mahlon, Kilion, Orpah, and Ruth.
If you'd like, provide props and costumes like robes, beards, and suitcases.
As you read or summarize the Scripture, have your actors act out what they're hearing — dramatic death scenes are highly encouraged.
Long ago, in the nation of Judah, in the city of Bethlehem, there was a famine.
To survive the famine, a man named Elimelek, his wife, Naomi, and their two sons, Mahlon and Kilion, went to live for a while in the country of Moab.
After a long journey, they finally arrived in Moab.
But when they arrived in Moab, Elimelek died, leaving Naomi a widow.
In time, Naomi's two sons married Moabite women named Orpah and Ruth.
But then Mahlon and Kilion also died.
Naomi, Ruth, and Orpah were left without their husbands and Naomi was left without her sons.
With no family of her own left in Moab, Naomi decided to pack her bags and go home to Bethlehem.
Naomi told Ruth and Orpah to go home to their families — she would go back to Bethlehem alone.
Ruth and Orpah said they'd go with Naomi, but Naomi refused.
Naomi wasn't in a good place.
She was grieving the loss of her family, but her grief was greater than just sadness.
Naomi felt like God had abandoned her.
She was so lonely that she pushed away the only family she had left.
Orpah went home to her family, but Ruth refused to leave Naomi.
Although Naomi tried to push Ruth away, Ruth said . . .
SCRIPTURE | Ruth 1:16-18
INSTRUCTIONS: Read Ruth 1:16-18 Can you imagine how difficult this must have been?
Naomi must have felt so alone after losing her husband, then losing her children, all while living in a foreign country separated from her people.
Losing a family member is always difficult, but there is another layer to Naomi and Ruth's trouble.
In this time and culture, women didn't have the same opportunities they do today.
Back then, they needed the men in their families to survive.
Their fathers, sons, husbands, or brothers were the only way women could secure things like homes, food, and land.
So Ruth and Naomi weren't only sad.
They were feeling alone, powerless, and abandoned.
Like Orpah, Ruth probably still had family in Moab, but she also had a mother-in-law who was desperately lonely.
Instead of staying in Moab, she decided to make a sacrifice and go with Noami back to Bethlehem.
If you want to know what happens next you can always read the four chapters of the Book of Ruth, but I'll summarize it for you.
Naomi and Ruth go to Bethlehem and Ruth finds a new husband named Boaz.
Ruth and Boaz have a son named Obed.
Generations later, their descendants would give birth to a baby named Jesus.
(Yes, that Jesus.)
In the process, Naomi discovers that she wasn't as alone as she once feared.
Ruth never left her and God didn't either.
Ruth's decision to stick with Naomi probably wasn't an easy one, but it was a choice she made out of love.
She saw Naomi's loneliness and knew she couldn't leave her alone.
SCRIPTURE | I John 4:11-13
Many generations after Ruth and Naomi lived, letters were written about Ruth's descendant, Jesus.
One of these letters later became the book of I John in the Bible.
In it, followers of Jesus are given this instruction . . .
INSTRUCTIONS: Read I John 4:11-13 God has a lot to say about loneliness.
*Title Slide*
Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to live in us so we would never be alone.
But I think this passage shows us God knew we'd sometimes need each other too.
That's why we're told to love each other, show up for each other, and be with each other.
When we love each other, it's evidence of God's love for us.
Whether you're the one who's lonely or you notice someone else experiencing loneliness, don't try to make it alone.
Reach out to God, who never leaves you alone.
If you're like Naomi, feeling abandoned and frustrated, don't push everyone away.
You were made to be in relationships with others.
Let the people around you help you feel less alone.
And if you're like Ruth and you notice someone is wrestling with loneliness, don't let them wrestle alone.
Reach out and decide to stick with them, even when it's difficult to do.
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