Acts 4:13-22
Peter and John were in the worst possible ethical conflict, one between ruling authorities. Children ask their mother if they can go to a movie, and when the mother says no, they go ask the father instead. They attempt to set one authority against the other. It rarely works because the father usually says, “Go ask your mother.”
Consider soldiers who had participated in genocide and later went on trial for their war crimes at Nuremberg. When the court interrogated them, they all said, “I was only obeying orders.” The court refused to uphold that excuse and said the soldiers were required to disobey the magistrate rather than commit genocide.
Martin Luther King knew the law. He knew that any statute published by any state in the United States was challengeable by the Supreme Court if it violated constitutional rights, and so with passive resistance he went ahead and broke the law in order to get before the Supreme Court, a right provided to him by the higher magistrate with respect to the lesser magistrate.
The conflict of such situations at times can be unbearable. Here is how the Apostles handled it: “Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you more than to God, you judge” (v. 19). Only a few weeks had gone by since the Apostles had heard the words of Jesus that we call the Great Commission: “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit” (Matt. 28:19). Jesus gave to Peter and to John and to the entire church of the first century a mandate. It is our mandate too. If any authority under heaven comes to the Christian and tells him he may not pray, or preach, or worship, or tithe, or do any of the things God commands, that Christian not only may disobey, but he must disobey.
In the ethics class offered at our seminary, we provide a simple principle. It is simple in the sense that anybody can understand it; however, the application of it to concrete circumstances is often excruciatingly difficult. The principle is this: we are always to obey those in authority over us, unless that authority commands us to do something that God forbids, or forbids us from doing something that God commands.
If a husband says to his wife, “I want you to earn some extra income for us by turning to prostitution,” not only may she disobey him, but she must disobey him. Conversely, if a woman is married to an unbelieving man who says to her, “You may not go to church on Wednesday night and join the choir,” what should the wife do? She should stay home, because God nowhere commands women to sing in the choir. I plead for it, but I cannot command it. But if the husband says to his wife, “You are not permitted to go to church on the Sabbath and join the corporate worship of the people of God,” not only may she disobey him, but she must disobey him, because God commands her to be in the assembly of the saints.