Kingdom Keys to Successful Marriage.
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3 Through skillful and godly Wisdom is a house (a life, a home, a family) built, and by understanding it is established [on a sound and good foundation],
4 And by knowledge shall its chambers [of every area] be filled with all precious and pleasant riches.
Your life is beautiful , you can be your best . Success is not for the Taken, Action , Signpost , Steps and Building .
Your life is beautiful , you can be your best . Success is not for the Taken, Action , Signpost , Steps and Building .
The Step of a good man are ordered
Success is Predictable and replicabale.
Success is Both a Journey and Destination.
Success is Acheiving Predetermine Goal.
Success can be defined as the progressive realization of a predetermined goal. This definition tells us that the discipline to prioritize and the ability to work toward a stated goal are essential to a leader’s success. In fact, I believe they are the key to leadership.
Maxwell, John C. (1993-04-21).
I lot of pple said I do , but what they really means I will try .., I will see.
Pretends
Silent Hell..
Marriage and Frustrated
The loniest pple are married pple trapped in the marriage that is not working .
marriage
The secrect to successful marriage is not LOVE . don’t married a person bec u think you love them or they say they love you. Wrong reason . love does not make mariage success .
Law of Respectiveful Dependency .. Old time
She depend on him for her lifely , cos 50 yr women do work outside the home , so no matter how he treated her she remaain.
Grand mother putting up with so much .. social economic envrieoment .
Not ready .. Law of depenedce ..
it has chnage now .. they come home both of ur tried ..
Ur grandfather meet food on the table .. days of lazy body are over
The relationship is not depend based on depency any more .. Indepency
Love is important .. Love does not make a success marriage
Jesus Discussion with Sigless, marriage and Divosrse . Jesus Wisdom on marriage
Women + Man = potential for conflict .
Nothing is has complicated than male and female ..
But Complication is from Ignorance . sth is only complicated if you are ignorant about it .
So you wife is not complicated .. the problem is Ignorance .
When we don’t know we experiment with with .. what works and what does not work.
Moses Law was not religiuos law is for a nation .. social developent , a society .
DIVORCE.. 400yrs after malachi die.
3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?”
4 And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’
5 and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?
6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
7 They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?”
8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.”
10 His disciples said to Him, “If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
During the time of malachi it was worse .. A man can divorse for any reason . Explain ..
13 And here’s a second offense: You fill the place of worship with your whining and sniveling because you don’t get what you want from God.
14 Do you know why? Simple. Because God was there as a witness when you spoke your marriage vows to your young bride, and now you’ve broken those vows, broken the faith-bond with your vowed companion, your covenant wife.
15 God, not you, made marriage. His Spirit inhabits even the smallest details of marriage. And what does he want from marriage? Children of God, that’s what. So guard the spirit of marriage within you. Don’t cheat on your spouse.
16 “I hate divorce,” says the God of Israel. God-of-the-Angel-Armies says, “I hate the violent dismembering of the ‘one flesh’ of marriage.” So watch yourselves. Don’t let your guard down. Don’t cheat.
Your prayers depend on your vows.
The person you married can have a great impact on your prayer life
7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
8 Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous;
You are marrying a potential prayer hindered...
Mal..
She your.. companion/ parther meaning equal in status , value , worth and substance .
Wife of your marriage covenant . You don’t need to send invitation to God he shows up at your weeding .
Marriage is not about you. you are married for God not for you.
God will give you a wife for what he want from you .
He was seeking Godly SEED . if God married you , it not about you and how u feel .
You children are more important to God than your feeling to your husband .
It not about you . what we have done we make it about us . Do i love him , I am happy , I am still intrested .. I I I , it not about you .
Why God loves Abrahm
19 For I have known him, in order that he may command his children and his household after him, that they keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice, that the Lord may bring to Abraham what He has spoken to him.”
20 And the Lord said, “Because the outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is great, and because their sin is very grave,
You are going to make your offespring rightoues .. The more rightous u are will affeect your children ..
A family that garanutee the potential of the rightouse seed .
Secrect of consepction .. Kingdom promise ..
I hate divorse says the LORD ..you are stopping is programme for the future .
It has to work, it not about YOU.
The only hope God has is a godly home .. He hates anything the distrubs is programme . The child will come out imbalance and damage.
.. I hates covered UP.. Give resoan
Covenant has no feelings. Signing a contract . desire and self way to be free.
Not selfship
1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.
2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
But what ever state u are in you know better . God forgive your past , but does not forgive ur future that is up to you . you must work with the light that u have.
400yrs before Jesus ..
3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?”
4 And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’
5 and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?
6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
7 They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?”
They were dealing with symptoms .. he went to the bigining .
God create MALE and FEMALE ..
RHN ..Editorial Team ..
God did not creat the race as MALE and FEMALE and Join them .
We keep thinking if we married someone thinking they would imporve nothing happend at the Altars.
Be Sober .. Obejectivly thinking..
When two pple are in Love they never tell the truth , cos is not in you rbest intrest .. check them under pressure .
See how they act under disappointment
Go back and check MALE and FEMALE FIRST .
Marriage is not a JOKE .
They become one that Incude SALARAY and Savings....
That is MINE .. When u married u are one ..
Many pple think you are married, but is just an arrangement.
You but be willing to submitted your all to the institution ..
The sacrifices.
Lawyer .. Asunder ..
A begning MAN and Women .. get them bac to the begining cos u will never get the result God wants.
Cook Book .. we want the pictures but not the rescipe .
You must always go back to the recipe . don’t blame the outcome . study the components.
SINGLE WOMAN imagination … perfect marriage , but they are not willing to study the recipe.
If he didn;t change to get you he will not chnage to keep you .
Improve your self . when u improve your self , all your relationship will improve.. study
Until you are single you are not ready for marriage.
Focus on the Individual fisrt . check the recipe .
24 Better to live alone in a tumbledown shack than share a mansion with a nagging spouse.
Marriage is like an omelet , it is only as good as the egges
Your marriage is only as good as your singleness.
Every one you are attracted to is not necessary God for u .
Until you are single you arenot ready form marriage
SINGLE - to be separate ,unique and whole
SINGLE…work on you first . the solution to singlenessis not marriage . you need someone to complete u
Loninless ..
10 His disciples said to Him, “If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
SINGLESS
50/50 marriage .. my better halve ..
so u send all ur life looking for some to complete u .
100/100
Adam.
SINGLE.. full, know ,who they der , why , where they are going , what they can do , and why dey are here
They Decided .. it is a decsion cos der is not lack .
Two power assect compbine to impact the world. if he gives her someone not bec of needs bit choice .
Is not base on what I can get , it pure agape .they don’t give bec they need soem the decisded to give .
You are an accest not a deficect .