Struggle can be a REAL pain
I don’t envy those who have never known any pain, physical or spiritual, because I strongly suspect that the capacity for pain and the capacity for joy are equal. Only those who have suffered great pain are able to know equally great joy.
—Madeleine L’Engle in A Stone for a Pillow. Christianity Today, Vol. 31, no. 3.
Jesus knew PAIN and also offers to take our PAIN on himself.
The Old Testament is filled with people in pain
Then comes the New Testament
Sometimes it is spiritual pain which makes us aware that we need a transfusion. Just as physical pain is a marvel for the human body, an early warning system, so is spiritual pain … We are all part of this battered, bleeding bride, struggling to regain beauty and purity. And there is nothing, nothing but a transfusing love, which will make any difference at all.
We need our pain warnings before we can turn to love. Yet if we watch television or read magazines, we often come across a different attitude toward pain: avoid it, deaden it. But when we take a pill, when we kill the pain, we don’t heed its warning.