MUST BE INTENTIONAL, EVEN SCHEDULED TO AVOID “BUSY” EXCUSES, DEDICATING AND COMMITING TO SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR SPOUSE FREE OF DISTRACTIONS AND TECHNOLOGY IS ONE OF THE BEST FORMS OF SERVING YOUR SPOUSE, IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE ROMANTIC OR FULL OF PHYSICAL INTIMACY, SPEND TIME TALKING AND LEARNING ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE AND LAUGHING TOGETHER CAN BE A GREAT WAY TO STRENGTHEN EMOTIONAL CONNECTIONS. DONT ALLOW FEAR OF BOREDOM TO LIMIT YOUR TIME TOGETHER . HAVING AN INADEQUATE AMOUNT OF TIME TOGETHER IS GENERATING THE TIME TO FAIL LATER. NOT CHOOSING TO SPEND TIME WITH YOUR SPOUSE IS PLACING EVERYTHING AS A PRIORITY ABOVE THEM AND EXPRESSES TO THEM THAT THEY ARE NO LONGER IMPORTANT OR RELEVANT. JORDAN PETERSON