How do we deal with unpleasant, unkind, mean, deceptive, or manipulative people? What do you do with the difficult people in your life? Especially when they go to church with you and you don't want to leave your church cause you like everybody else. Or they are an in–law and you have to go to those family gatherings. Or you can't quit your job cause you need the money. What are you to do so that you do not become like the one who you are struggling with?