Teach us to Communicate
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A boundary is a “dividing line.” In geography, a boundary is that which marks the end of one property or jurisdiction and the beginning of another. In interpersonal relationships, a boundary is what divides one person from another, so that each can have separate identities, responsibilities, and privileges. A boundary creates necessary “space” between individuals. Healthy boundaries define expectations and show respect for others.
24 But Jesus on his part did not entrust himself to them, because he knew all people
Establishing healthy boundaries is essential in any relationship, whether it's a Marriage , friendship, or family bond. Here are five examples of healthy boundaries that can apply to various relationships:
1. Respectful communication boundaries: Encourage open and honest communication while respecting each other's opinions, feelings, and boundaries. Set guidelines for expressing emotions and resolving conflicts constructively. Avoid name-calling, insults, or belittling language.
2. Personal autonomy boundaries: Recognize and honor each person's need for personal space, individuality, and independence. Allow time and activities for self-care, personal growth, and pursuing individual interests. Avoid excessive control or possessiveness.
3. Emotional boundaries: Take responsibility for your own emotions and avoid expecting the other person to solely meet your emotional needs. Maintain a healthy balance between supporting and relying on each other, while also nurturing your own emotional well-being.
Proverbs 25:17 (ESV)
17 Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house,
lest he have his fill of you and hate you.
4. Time and energy boundaries: Establish clear boundaries around how you spend your time and energy. Prioritize your commitments, including work, personal goals, and relationships, and ensure a healthy balance. Avoid overextending yourself or neglecting your own needs.
5. Trust and privacy boundaries: Build a foundation of trust and respect by honoring each other's privacy. Recognize the importance of personal boundaries, such as maintaining confidentiality or not invading each other's personal belongings or online accounts. Trust and be trustworthy.
Proverbs 25:17 (ESV)
17 Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house,
lest he have his fill of you and hate you.
4 Answer not a fool according to his folly,
lest you be like him yourself.
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