Grace for Relationship and Marriage
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9 And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Introduction :
I have this expectations , that christian marriage and relationship should be better than people who are not christian . what do u think? .
Been a christian should make the different in once marriage / relationship , it should be more peaceful , more joyful, what do u think ,
however i think that are christian who will content with me , that may not be excally be the case . what excelly is suppose to make the different .
The holy says is pouring our grace , that this season pouring out Grace on RHN to enable the fulfillment of our marital destiny .
In Jesus name you will enjoy supernatural empowerment from God , so thing that are not possible in your marriage will being to happen . Amazing testimony of turn around , i see people getting married in this house by Grace . People conceving by Grace , diffuclt marrital issue resolved by grace . Say amen
14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.
The Holy Spirit is the spirit of Grace when we give him the rightful place . the we enjoy divine enablement .
The transforming power of the holy spirit should be a plus in our relationship.
12 People shall mourn upon their breasts For the pleasant fields, for the fruitful vine. 13 On the land of my people will come up thorns and briers, Yes, on all the happy homes in the joyous city; 14 Because the palaces will be forsaken, The bustling city will be deserted. The forts and towers will become lairs forever, A joy of wild donkeys, a pasture of flocks— 15 Until the Spirit is poured upon us from on high, And the wilderness becomes a fruitful field, And the fruitful field is counted as a forest.
Everything is going wrong until the holy spirit is pour, the problem with us as christian is that we have not levergae on the power of the spirit to help us .
In the name of Jesus , is pray every process of detoration in marital relationship terminated now in Jesus name . I received the outpouring on homes, relationship .
Issue that break home or relationship should not be enough to do so beause devils is also intreated in relationship.. but until the spirit is pour.. the spirit is coming on US to make relationship easy for us .
The two dimension of the work of the holy spirit in the life of a beliver should make relationship easy . the fruit of the spirit / Gift of the spirit should be your leverage . every christian marriage and relationship should function and leveragde on those dimension .
When the holy is absent and present
19 Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21 envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. 24 And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.
You check this list out and you see the list that destroy people’s home and relationship . When the holy is absent and we confront life and relationship with our human ability , am afraid that is the best our human nature can produce . see the list .. adulatory … etc . The spirit of God is absent man has been design to malfunction , because we are not design to function outside the help and enablement that the holy spirit gives . It does matter if u speak in tongues or not if u are not under the influence of the spirit this are likely hood the trace you will produce.
Let us check when the Holy Spirit is present ..
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.
List .. the list above .. How many people agree with me that this will produce a peaceful and great relationship and marriage . if we have that in our life . That is what you want in a marriage / relationship.
Longsuffering : the capacity to bear with each other weakness … Every marriage need that bec. their is no one who have a perfect husband or wife . You don’t have capacity to put up with other people weakness is a prove that you are not aware of your yet . .. Instead of acting around like miss / bro perfect...
kindness.
goodness..
The holy spirit does those things in us , outside of the spirit we are going to malfunction. but see different if we allow him. The holy Spirit is the spirit of grace( divine empowement ) so when grace is available , this is what we have .
Some people need the fruit of the spirit to find someone to married / or find someone to agree to married us .
The holy spirit solves all the problem . The Good news their is a pouring our this morning and where we have failed before , we beging to succesed in Jesus name.
9 And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Infact is that the place where He prefers to show up is the place where you are weak .
That makes our life a miracle . the place where we are weak and have potential to repeat issue .
for examples some people grow in an environment full of hatred , strive , skimming , grew up not trusting anybody , grew up with a lot hurts and pain . and now we are christian , what do you expect satan will do he we come and work that weakness in our life , fuel our insecurity , detrust of people and even when we get married we find it diffcult to trust anybody including the person we are married to , or in relationship with , the holy spirit steps in … We are a new creature .. the most hated person can be the most loving person if we allow the holy spirit .
Insecure become a person of faith ..
Involved in abuse person a loving person.
Gift of the Spirit .. Does have a role to play in relationship and marriage YES.. am sure many people we say why are u spiritualizing it .. Listen that is OUR Standard . To make our relationship work with the dictate of the spirit .
Bec of the gift of spirit does it gives us supernatural capacity for solving problem ( we have thought this principle away from life reality ) . The problem that rock other marriages should not does to a christian Home .
As a sister : what is your picture of your ideal christian husband .
The best christian husband need to be drunk to behave the way you are expecting it will take a drunk man for you to tell him his stupid , and all sort . it will have to be drunk to look at you and smile and says i love you irrespective . You need to be drunk to be a perfect man / woman .
am seen breakthrough in the season over this house .
18 And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord,
They produce same result ..
Act 2 .
Ideal christian husband and wife you need to be drunk .. large quantity ..
Bless them .. that curse you ..
13 And since we have the same spirit of faith, according to what is written, “I believed and therefore I spoke,” we also believe and therefore speak,
faith is not a mechanical things ..
You need the spirit to do what Jesus said .
TO LOVE genuilay , love them even when they don’t desrve it you got to be filled .
We need pray all the time . Satan can frustrate anything ..You need to be very prayerful.
Am not going to deny that i have tendency to be angry , go to extreme, weakness, but am going to depend on GOD and ask for strenght .
Prayer is an important linking to GRACE ..WHEN YOU ARE RUNNING OUT OF GRACE YOU WILL KNOW COS YOUR RESPONSE WILL BE DIFFERENT .
15 For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. 16 Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Sing Hyms , Psalms and spiritual song
15 But now bring me a musician.” Then it happened, when the musician played, that the hand of the Lord came upon him.
if you are not inspired you will soon expired , that is why you need to constantly draw on him .