Wedding MSG - Zingara & Joe

Love's Perfect Unity

Zingara & Joseph (Joe)

26 de August 2023

Colossians 3:12–14 NIV

12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

A Foundation for a Lasting Marriage

Introduction (2 minutes)

Good afternoon, dear friends and family.

We gather here today in the presence of God to celebrate the union of [Zingara ] and [Joe ] in holy matrimony.

The words from the book of Colossians offer us profound wisdom

on how to build a strong and lasting marriage, rooted in love and unity.

Clothe Yourselves with Virtues (4 minutes)

As God's chosen people, Zimgara and Joe, you are called to clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

These virtues serve as the foundation of a healthy marriage.

Compassion and kindness allow you to understand and support one another.

Humility keeps your hearts open and your egos in check.

Gentleness and patience ensure that you treat each other with tenderness and understanding.

Bearing with Each Other and Forgiving (4 minutes)

Marriage is a journey where two imperfect individuals come together.

It's natural to face challenges and disagreements.

The scripture reminds us to bear with each other and to forgive.

Zingara and Joe, remember that forgiveness is a gift you give to each other.

Just as the Lord forgave us, we must extend that grace to our partner.

Holding onto grudges only creates distance; forgiveness brings you closer together.

Putting on Love's Crown (4 minutes)

Above all virtues, the scripture emphasizes the significance of love.

It's the glue that binds compassion, kindness, and forgiveness in perfect unity.

Love isn't just a feeling; it's a choice — a commitment you make every day.

It's about seeking the best for your partner, even when challenges arise.

Zingara and Joe, remember that your love should mirror the sacrificial love of Christ.

Put on love like a crown, for it will be your guide through all seasons of your marriage.

Unity in God's Design (3 minutes)

The unity you're forging today is a reflection of God's design.

Just as the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit are united in perfect harmony, so too should your marriage be a harmonious union.

Strive for unity, but also cherish your individuality.

In becoming one, you don't lose yourselves — you enhance each other's strengths and support each other's weaknesses.

Conclusion: A Lasting Covenant (3 minutes)

Zingara e Joe, as you embark on this journey of marriage, remember that your love story is part of a greater love story—God's love story for His people.

By following the teachings of Colossians, you are building a foundation that can withstand the trials and triumphs of life.

May your marriage be marked by compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

May you always bear with each other, forgive, and above all, love with a love that binds you together in perfect unity.

Let us pray for God's blessings upon this union.

Closing Prayer (1 minute)

Heavenly Father, we thank you for the love that Zingara and Joe share.

We ask for your guidance and strength as they embark on this journey of marriage.

Bless their union with your grace, and may their love be a shining example of your love for us.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Thank you, and may God bless your marriage abundantly. (1 minute)

Rings and Vows

we now come to the exchanging of rings.

These rings are not just symbols of your commitment to each other;

they carry a profound meaning that connects to the very essence of love and covenant.

The wedding ring is a circle, a shape without beginning or end.

It's a symbol of eternity, just as the love you share is boundless and enduring.

But there's more to it.

It reminds me of the covenant God has with us through Jesus.

Just as these rings have no break or seam, God's covenant with us is unbreakable.

In the Bible, God promises to love us unconditionally,

to always be by our side, and to never forsake us.

Through Jesus, God made the ultimate sacrifice to bind us to Him forever.

When you exchange these rings, you're making a promise to each other

a promise of love, support, and partnership.

But you're also creating a covenant.

A covenant that signifies your unwavering commitment,

just as God's covenant with us is unwavering.

In wearing these rings, you're reminded of the vows you're about to make.

And these vows echo the promises God has made to us.

They reflect the selflessness, care, and devotion that characterize the divine love we receive from God.

Zingara and Joe, as you wear these rings, remember that they are not just beautiful adornments;

they are symbols of a sacred covenant you're entering into.

A covenant that reflects God's covenant with us

a promise to love, to honor, and to cherish, through all the days of your lives.

Bible gift

I want to give you the Bible i used tonight.

The Bible is more than just a book;

it's a source of wisdom, guidance, and strength.

Within its pages lie stories of love, faith, and the journey of the human spirit.

Joe, as you receive this precious gift today,

remember that it's not just a physical object, but a spiritual compass that can help navigate the beautiful yet complex path of marriage.

Just as the Bible has guided countless generations, it can be a steadfast guide in your marriage.

Take time to read its verses together, to explore its lessons, and to reflect on its teachings.

Allow it to inspire you to be a partner who supports and uplifts, who walks hand in hand with Zingara through every season of life.