Heard It All Before Series: #4
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2 And great multitudes followed him; and he healed them there.
3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?
8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
The Biblical Definition Of Husband is MALE and the biblical definition of a Wife is a Female.
Matthew 19:5 (KJV)
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Did you ever notice, that God required the man to have to leave his mother and father and not the woman?
Lets explore that, why do you think the purpose of this?
It’s possible for a man to look at his inability to leave his mother and father as a direct indicator that perhaps he’s not ready to lead his own family and is dependent on there resources.
This word Leave: Means Leave Behind
So a Son has to leave behind the comfort, the safety, the privileges he received under the covering of his parents house.
1. If a man can’t do this, he is not ready for marriage
2. If a man is living with a women in her apartment or house and she pays the bills. He is not ready for marriage.
1# Leaving Parents means, you have reached your level of maturity and security of learning the family trade/business and is now making and creating income that you can now afford to support a spouse.
2# Do you want to know what every man God called into the Kingdom had in common?
A job.. All the disciples where employed, Moses, David, Joseph, Elsisha, NOAH EVERYONE HAD A JOB…
IT’S a tough pill to swallow especially when you are attracted to unemployed men.
20 And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her.
21 And Jacob said unto Laban, Give me my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I may go in unto her.
22 And Laban gathered together all the men of the place, and made a feast.
23 And it came to pass in the evening, that he took Leah his daughter, and brought her to him; and he went in unto her.
24 And Laban gave unto his daughter Leah Zilpah his maid for an handmaid.
25 And it came to pass, that in the morning, behold, it was Leah: and he said to Laban, What is this thou hast done unto me? did not I serve with thee for Rachel? wherefore then hast thou beguiled me?
26 And Laban said, It must not be so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn.
27 Fulfil her week, and we will give thee this also for the service which thou shalt serve with me yet seven other years.
28 And Jacob did so, and fulfilled her week: and he gave him Rachel his daughter to wife also.
29 And Laban gave to Rachel his daughter Bilhah his handmaid to be her maid.
30 And he went in also unto Rachel, and he loved also Rachel more than Leah, and served with him yet seven other years.
This man put 14 years of work in for the women he loved
I always scratch my head when hard working women take an unemployed stray cat and then marry them. As a spir itual and natural father, i am the king of dealing with the elephant in the room. baby, baby girl he has toooo many ain’t gots
he ain’t got no job
he ain’t got no drivers license
he ain’t got no life insurance
Thats way too many ain’t gots somebody hash tag #ain’tgots
Lets get to the main thing
Matthew 19:5 (KJV)
5 b factor of this text says: and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
a sharp division; a split.
Tap your neighbor and tell them he is about to talk about cleavage
to make (cause) › to cause (to happen) › to move › to separate (divide) › to tear › to cleave (separate)
to separate or cut with a tool, such as a sharp instrument.
16 It is written in the Scriptures, “The two will become one body.” So you should know that anyone who joins with a prostitute becomes one body with the prostitute.
Gen 15:
The Holy Bible: King James Version Chapter 15
6 And he believed in the LORD; and he counted it to him for righteousness.
7 And he said unto him, I am the LORD that brought thee out of Ur of the Chaldees, to give thee this land to inherit it. 8 And he said, Lord GOD, whereby shall I know that I shall inherit it? 9 And he said unto him, Take me an heifer of three years old, and a she goat of three years old, and a ram of three years old, and a turtledove, and a young pigeon. 10 And he took unto him all these, and divided them in the midst, and laid each piece one against another: but the birds divided he not. 11 And when the fowls came down upon the carcases, Abram drove them away.
cleavage: a sharp division; a split.
When you get married, The grooms Family is on one side and the brides family is on the other side.
And the bride walks down with the father between the two families and once the ceremony is over the bride and groom walk back between them.
6 Thus they are no longer two, but one. So then, no one should split apart what God has joined together.”
The Holy Bible: King James Version Chapter 19
9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Fornication is the only thing that can split apart a Marriage.
Jesus says no one should split apart what God has Joined together
The Apostle Paul writes
“The two will become one body.” So you should know that anyone who joins with a prostitute becomes one body with the prostitute.
Y’all are some smart folks so what do you really think what they mean that a man should cleave to his wife?
See Sex is the first Covenant agreement, and it requires 3 people, The Man, The Women & Their God. And The Lord makes two One. So if you lay with a looser, a stripper, an ex-murderer your one with them.
The Weeding Ring is a cymbal of the Covenant of your Union with your wife. A marriage isn’t binding until The man joins with his wife. And therefore they are one…
So when you sleep with somone thats not your husband its called adultery..and you have become one with them.
So Might I suggest that before you get married you need to get a spiritual divorce from all the people you have slept with.
Do you know how many polygamist that don’t realize it. You legally married johnny but you illegally married bill, Junebug and Craig.
And Yea you married to the Love of your life Titinna but Sharon, Tanya and Phillis sleep in the bed with y’all every night.
ThAT’S Why you don’t trust your husband or wife, because it’s not the one your legally married to thats not trust worthy, its the illegal one that got you questioning a good man or women because you still got them in your spirit. Your One with her. Actually she got a third. your baby moms got a third and your wife got a 3rd…
Bishop!! Help us single and married. What do we do?
2 We have renounced disgraceful ways (secret thoughts, feelings, desires and underhandedness, the methods and arts that men hide through shame); we refuse to deal craftily (to practice trickery and cunning) or to adulterate or handle dishonestly the Word of God, but we state the truth openly (clearly and candidly). And so we commend ourselves in the sight and presence of God to every man’s conscience.
This is the place of renouncing & repenting
