Bring Your House into Goverment !!!.. Series
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6 For unto us a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; And the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Goverment :
System used for controlling a country, city, or group of people.
The group of people who officially control.
Power of Agreement
3 Can two walk together, unless they are agreed? 4 Will a lion roar in the forest, when he has no prey? Will a young lion cry out of his den, if he has caught nothing? 5 Will a bird fall into a snare on the earth, where there is no trap for it? Will a snare spring up from the earth, if it has caught nothing at all?
19 “Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.
you need to bring you expirence with God to your home.
Family is gym God Gave love to work out it .
You are in escable love sitiution in your familiy but u want to run away.
You must plan for challeges , excpt challenges. Many pple to get ready for challenges . It is normal to be challenge.
*You respect me … cos I am your father .. work out is part of it
The power of Agreement .
Agreement does means that I have to be life you, We can be different .. 50% 50% .
The 50% that is alike represent our CORE VALUE, but apart from that we are totall different.
Their always must be time of compromise —Co promise .
That means we need to mature and maturity is not indicated by Birthday .
It will take maturity to let go of your will and allow agreement.
In other to copromise u will need be mature .
Also you have to be feel safe enough to be valurable .
Submission . The reason while many women to submit is they dont feel safe enough, and not sure if you will use the act to take advantages
Submission is .. I put my mission under yours
It is you that the wind hit first .. if you got a real man
I am covering .. It hit uyou for .. MAN . You are covering . headship is about covering not about dominace . what ever will face us must hit me fisrt .
Submission …
The man also have to submit to
Submit to the mission .
21 submitting to one another in the fear of God. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. 30 For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. 31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
We do it all day .. work , church , someone make clear what the mission his and we aligned to it , cos without a mission and purpose then problem become the mission . you must have a clear mission statement . for you family life , children .
Cause the power of agreement is centre on the clearity of the mission .
The Mission Remian the same . and the mission is build around your core value .. Our core value is till DEATH DO US APART. we are in for a long hall. that is core value for us ..
Note dont stay in abusy relationship , safety is above everythings.
Submitted to the mission .. Never Use the D - Word , to intemidate , cause fear.
D-word all the time . Divorse. Dont use D - word as an options
Similary bet the marriage and wedding .. In sickness
In Poor
Till Death Do us part .
The vows: "In the name of God, I, ___, take you, ___, to be my wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death. This is my solemn vow."
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Through your marriage you have to repeat those steps.
You need time to miss each other .
You need to have a vision and uniquiess of your home.
Marriage is also a minisrtry.
Changes !!!
Problem !!!
Sickness !!!
Many People attack each other than the problem . you are attacking the issue rather that people . it can issue in you life and stress are personally changes . You cannot only love me when i am happy . you have to love anyway..
Pressure !!!!
Most of things i am mad abotu you with before I AM WRONG
Most of things you have been mad about you I am wrong . I have assumed your behavour meant sth that he didn’t , jumping into conclusions and prosssing the other person if we are you
Male Anger !!!- Silent angry ..
Agreement means that i cannot come into the conversion as a professor , as if I now it all and my point is only valid .
Your wife is not man is skirt !!!
Your hunsdabn is not a girl in a pant !!!
When we talk we have to understand , is not easy to talk about about things that are personal to us . we like to talk about sth ..
How we feel .. Not more able to comuniate how dey feel...
.. We say the same word but we dont mean the same things.
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We rest differenttly
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For men intmacy with you without the distration of children . share u with kids , work , church , When we say vacation we need to catch up ...
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Bills , Kids , parent .
We say the same word but they don’t means the same things ..
So the most new or favroable word in home..
‘’WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT ‘’..
Becuase I dont want to assumed , cos I can assuemed and make descsions .
Cos when you get verber we make decsion . we don’t have to leave to disconnect .
I dont care how spiritual u are issuse will come up in your marriage
Marraige natural not spiritual . We will not be married in heaven . marriage is institution on earth govern by God principle . marriage is not church and church is not marriage .
Getting more God does not give him more companision .. I will be your God not your wife ..
You cannot spiritualit marirage and become my pastor , judges withness and accoutnabllity .
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Your work with God is your work with God ..Just becuase we married as christian .. You have your own work with God
Agreement / Unit
we must have saniness, unit around core value.
And having a ture dintincition .
You don’t swollowed up your goal or your dreams , in place of agreement .
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You can have distinstion and still have unity if you have a mission .
Do u have a clear mission of what you are trying to go . Do u have a brand . do u know who who u are . You have no mission , so no body have submission which leads us to divisions . .
Every person need to have Missions !!!. You age quickly without a missions. Wasting your effort doing nothing . You feel your mind with nothing .
Excuess are tools of incompetenct they build monument of nothing , and thoses that speciallise in using them , rearer to anything easy but do excuses.
Move away from Excuesus .. Sth care about , sth that drives you , sth that .. Build around sth that build you , your purpose should not drain you . What give u power is your mission … We have a great commiosion . but is not the only mission .
We are family on a mission .. You have agreemeent to the mission . the man man and family submit to the missions.
This who we are .. This is our core VALUE .
--- What do u need from now !!!
What ever i was after she was suport of .. she was in my corner , what ever she after is am support it .
— What do u need from me Noww!!!
We are in Agreement .
The power of Agreement
If any two of You agree , as touching anything .!!!. on earth it should be done to YOU
We we touch and agree we are better toghter . I got your back .
The power of agreement release anoining that u cannot get any where.
The reason the devil is at war against your home is not that He does not like you .. He does not like agreement ..
If you touch and Agree , you can release the power of God than anything you can see in your life .
If two are gather in my name … I am in the midst of you .. I dwell in your agreement .
I dont leave in your church .. He leaves in our unity and agreement .
Enemies will try anything to divide you
behold , how Good it is for brethen to dwell toghter in unit . for their ...
Let get together ..
If we get together … Do I have your support … Agreement !!!
You have what ypu need to do what you can do .. no limit !!! I am good with cos we are in agreement.
Can you follow up me even when u don’t understand !!!… How supportive are YOU !! I AM WITH YOU .
Power of Agreement !!!
You will never be in your full potential your home without agreement !!!.
CORE VALUE !!!!. we must have agreement . . Keep the main the main things .
To touch and agree !!!
When you are total disagreement .. the signal is seen all around you
Whatever your model your children measures from it defines the tempo in your relationship .
if you created problem , ur chuildren are born in your uncertainty , duplicate , you define your normal. Don’t get agree at your children fro not been what you have not been model .
You dont’ have to everything .. you can learn and aligned your self . You need a model , stop using excusses as a failure way out .
I dont’ want to fignt in the hosue .. I got a fight out side !!!
Sth bigger than ourselfs..make us focus on our agreement .
Your need changes as your life change . don’t build your life on things that will chnage . u need agreement in a constantly chnaging enviroment !!!.
How do u maintain agreement duing CHANGE !!!!
You must received updates !!!. I cannot assumed i need updates in other to be relevant in your plan and purpose .
What updates do u need to dowload , to change the way your function. The anointing is God sending your a dowload and updates .
You need to keep updates with your wife , children to maintain agreement . Download updates , and agreement.
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If you try to build your agreement on everything you never get anythings.. We must have some core principle when everywhere one is moving . we must be able to function in cause .
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The CORE / THE Main things .. You must agreed on that .!!! You will always have unstable everniment but your Anchor must hold .
‘’Will your anchor hold in the storms of life,
when the clouds unfold their wings of strife?
When the strong tides lift, and the cables strain,
will your anchor drift, or firm remain?’’
The people who funstion instability … STORM. In order to win instability has to be your normal . you must able to ride the wave and balance your selfs
—BALANCE … IF YOU COULD HOLD YOUR BALANCE ..YOU CANNOT CONTROL THE TERAIN , YOU COULD HOLD YOUR BALANCE . STEADYOURSELF. IF GOD GIVE YOUR A CHANCE TO REST TAKE IT
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MY SOUL MUST BE ANCHOR !!!. everything may change but my soul must be achor . !!!. I will make it through this . I got to balance my selfs.
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Let me do me and we still have an agreement !!!
Pregant with the MISSION !!!
Your are submit into mission coming into agreement !!!
Alignment .. THE HOLY IS COMING .. The OIL WILL COME WHEN YOU ALIGNED .
1 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is For brethren to dwell together in unity! 2 It is like the precious oil upon the head, Running down on the beard, The beard of Aaron, Running down on the edge of his garments. 3 It is like the dew of Hermon, Descending upon the mountains of Zion; For there the Lord commanded the blessing— Life forevermore.
Once you established the pattern the behavour will lined up .
Aligment./ Sorting Out Difference 1-7.
Purpose drives the intent of a thing .
1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan. 2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there. 3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?” 4 And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” 7 They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?” 8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
1 “When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, 2 when she has departed from his house, and goes and becomes another man’s wife,
The word is the manual to guide us through turbulent situstions, not your emtions or feelings.
No Quetion is too greater for his word not to handle .
ideal of marriage based on convenant …
Jesus address the hearth
12 And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold.
31 undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful;
8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” 10 His disciples said to Him, “If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
Purpose … your have to discover the purpose for your marriage ...
Purpose dictates design .
13 for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure. 14 Do all things without complaining and disputing,
5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you; I ordained you a prophet to the nations.”
The greatest gift u can have is to put your family under purpose ..
David & Michal
21 So David said to Michal, “It was before the Lord, who chose me instead of your father and all his house, to appoint me ruler over the people of the Lord, over Israel. Therefore I will play music before the Lord.
10 For a day in Your courts is better than a thousand. I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God Than dwell in the tents of wickedness.
A disfuntional front .
1sam 6:1-end bring the ark
1 Again David gathered all the choice men of Israel, thirty thousand. 2 And David arose and went with all the people who were with him from Baale Judah to bring up from there the ark of God, whose name is called by the Name, the Lord of Hosts, who dwells between the cherubim. 3 So they set the ark of God on a new cart, and brought it out of the house of Abinadab, which was on the hill; and Uzzah and Ahio, the sons of Abinadab, drove the new cart. 4 And they brought it out of the house of Abinadab, which was on the hill, accompanying the ark of God; and Ahio went before the ark. 5 Then David and all the house of Israel played music before the Lord on all kinds of instruments of fir wood, on harps, on stringed instruments, on tambourines, on sistrums, and on cymbals. 6 And when they came to Nachon’s threshing floor, Uzzah put out his hand to the ark of God and took hold of it, for the oxen stumbled. 7 Then the anger of the Lord was aroused against Uzzah, and God struck him there for his error; and he died there by the ark of God. 8 And David became angry because of the Lord’s outbreak against Uzzah; and he called the name of the place Perez Uzzah to this day. 9 David was afraid of the Lord that day; and he said, “How can the ark of the Lord come to me?” 10 So David would not move the ark of the Lord with him into the City of David; but David took it aside into the house of Obed-Edom the Gittite. 11 The ark of the Lord remained in the house of Obed-Edom the Gittite three months. And the Lord blessed Obed-Edom and all his household. 12 Now it was told King David, saying, “The Lord has blessed the house of Obed-Edom and all that belongs to him, because of the ark of God.” So David went and brought up the ark of God from the house of Obed-Edom to the City of David with gladness. 13 And so it was, when those bearing the ark of the Lord had gone six paces, that he sacrificed oxen and fatted sheep. 14 Then David danced before the Lord with all his might; and David was wearing a linen ephod. 15 So David and all the house of Israel brought up the ark of the Lord with shouting and with the sound of the trumpet. 16 Now as the ark of the Lord came into the City of David, Michal, Saul’s daughter, looked through a window and saw King David leaping and whirling before the Lord; and she despised him in her heart. 17 So they brought the ark of the Lord, and set it in its place in the midst of the tabernacle that David had erected for it. Then David offered burnt offerings and peace offerings before the Lord. 18 And when David had finished offering burnt offerings and peace offerings, he blessed the people in the name of the Lord of hosts. 19 Then he distributed among all the people, among the whole multitude of Israel, both the women and the men, to everyone a loaf of bread, a piece of meat, and a cake of raisins. So all the people departed, everyone to his house. 20 Then David returned to bless his household. And Michal the daughter of Saul came out to meet David, and said, “How glorious was the king of Israel today, uncovering himself today in the eyes of the maids of his servants, as one of the base fellows shamelessly uncovers himself!” 21 So David said to Michal, “It was before the Lord, who chose me instead of your father and all his house, to appoint me ruler over the people of the Lord, over Israel. Therefore I will play music before the Lord.
Alignement
She married a king like her father and she expected him to act like one . kings are dignified , they don’t dance withour reserve .
Discover the purpose of your spouse to be, don’t try to chnage their design, seek to understand thier gifts , talents , skills and personality and celebrate all God has made them to be.
—. The Disease of discontenment comes from not understanding that God has a purpose in your designed .
He made them MALE and FEMALE ..
Your spouse is your counterpart which means you are both different .
4 And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’
He did it cos he has different purpose for each of them .
The Leader and The Helper ..
7 And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being. 8 The Lord God planted a garden eastward in Eden, and there He put the man whom He had formed. 9 And out of the ground the Lord God made every tree grow that is pleasant to the sight and good for food. The tree of life was also in the midst of the garden, and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. 10 Now a river went out of Eden to water the garden, and from there it parted and became four riverheads. 11 The name of the first is Pishon; it is the one which skirts the whole land of Havilah, where there is gold. 12 And the gold of that land is good. Bdellium and the onyx stone are there. 13 The name of the second river is Gihon; it is the one which goes around the whole land of Cush. 14 The name of the third river is Hiddekel; it is the one which goes toward the east of Assyria. The fourth river is the Euphrates. 15 Then the Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and keep it.
18 And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.”
21 And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. 22 Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.
So God formed a man and then formed woman to help the man . two separate purpose .
This purpose is clearly stated in
9 Nor was man created for the woman, but woman for the man. 10 For this reason the woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels. 11 Nevertheless, neither is man independent of woman, nor woman independent of man, in the Lord. 12 For as woman came from man, even so man also comes through woman; but all things are from God.
Simply put she hold the key to make him all that GOD has destined him to be .. Women arise and build .
That is why women are relationship oreineted .
Men Designed is to lead , domiion , take charges
1 The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands.
11 The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. 12 She does him good and not evil All the days of her life.
Real Needs ver Acquired Needs
Whenever we focus on what’s NOT important, the result is that we abandon what is .
Weed are develop in an intentional garden
25 but while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares among the wheat and went his way. 26 But when the grain had sprouted and produced a crop, then the tares also appeared.
27 So the servants of the owner came and said to him, ‘Sir, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have tares?’ 28 He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ The servants said to him, ‘Do you want us then to go and gather them up?’
False Expectation.
Clinging
Trust
Over -reacting
Subciopions
Acquired NEEDS
Control - Unnecessary desire to control situation and circumtance , even pple around them .
Insecurity - when aperson need approval or acceptance of others to feel worthy and complete .
Domination - When a person needs to put people under by instilling fera in them
Fantasies - unrealistic expectations
30 Let both grow together until the harvest, and at the time of harvest I will say to the reapers, “First gather together the tares and bind them in bundles to burn them, but gather the wheat into my barn.” ’ ”
REAL NEEDS
Let us look at what was planted in the begining.
HIS NEEDS / HER NEEDS
He needs Sexual Expression / She needs Affections
He needs Reverence / She needs Indentification
4 one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence
Indentification
1 Blessed is every one who fears the Lord, Who walks in His ways. 2 When you eat the labor of your hands, You shall be happy, and it shall be well with you. 3 Your wife shall be like a fruitful vine In the very heart of your house, Your children like olive plants All around your table.
Nothing else can make a woman flourish in her home than to know that she is loved , received and accepted by the one she was created for .
Fulfilled her need for Identification.
Keep her by your side, get her involved in your affairs , let everyone know that she belong to you .
He needs Affirmation / She needs Communications
Affirmation - God designed men to lead, to initiate , to be project orintented, sth this come with pressure .
1 After the death of Moses the servant of the Lord, it came to pass that the Lord spoke to Joshua the son of Nun, Moses’ assistant, saying: 2 “Moses My servant is dead. Now therefore, arise, go over this Jordan, you and all this people, to the land which I am giving to them—the children of Israel. 3 Every place that the sole of your foot will tread upon I have given you, as I said to Moses. 4 From the wilderness and this Lebanon as far as the great river, the River Euphrates, all the land of the Hittites, and to the Great Sea toward the going down of the sun, shall be your territory. 5 No man shall be able to stand before you all the days of your life; as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you nor forsake you. 6 Be strong and of good courage, for to this people you shall divide as an inheritance the land which I swore to their fathers to give them. 7 Only be strong and very courageous, that you may observe to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right hand or to the left, that you may prosper wherever you go.
Jos you can do this ..
A man needs affirmation and encouragement from his wife ., he need to know that his woman belives in him . Men are addiscted to praise and they will go where they are celebrated .
24 It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.
Communication
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The miseduction of EVE.
2 And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; 3 but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’ ”
He needs an attractive wife / She need responsible husband
He need a Domestic support / She needs Family Commitment
‘’We are made different yet complementary , everything you are he isn’t everything he is you are not , but everything she need, you have and everything you need she has . It is time for us to wake up and appreciate that these needs are legitimate .. they need to be estemmed , they need to be valued’’