ABI Biblical Counseling Session 1
second one
We're good. We're going to be learning about the definition of biblical counseling and guidance.
Definition of the Olympic counseling. What's that mean? What you think it means what you think it means?
You're using the word of God. Jim counts, right? I'm going to go a different route and I'm going to talk about what Biblical counseling is. Not before talking about what Biblical counseling is biblical counseling is not a separate counseling Ministry detach from the local industry. Is not a separate counseling Ministry that is attached from local Ministry.
There's a difference between the two.
It's not like a counseling is not a separate counseling Ministry tax from the local Ministry. So what do I mean about that? Biblical counseling should be gone within the parameters of local Ministry if you're a pastor your counseling.
Through the local Ministry through the church.
There's a lot of counseling centers that don't operate under the umbrella of the church ministry biblical counseling. Usually Falls within the parameters of the local Ministry in Canaan so you can go online and counseling centers and you'll find their friend said Thursday that offer marital counseling that offer Addiction Counseling they'll offer depression counseling very seldom. Do you see that someone will offer gas? It's because it's not done through those areas. This is done within the local Ministry that are not part of the local Ministry. I'll usually have two people they have two people on two main people within those shutters and they have a psychiatrist and they have a psychologist. Do you know what the differences between those two? What's the difference between a psychiatrist and a psychologist?
Therapeutic Thai face on the balance. Yes. Psychiatrist. They usually have an MD there that wants that are administering, you know, the medication Saturday and will partner up with the psychologist who also has a PHD or an emphasis on research and concentrating primarily in talk therapy, right? But usually is done right in in a team environment, okay?
You don't do that in local Ministry.
a member of your church not going to come to you so that you can prescribe meds to do that is not done away from local Ministry
All right.
number to biblical counseling Is not something you do without scripture. Biblical counseling is not something you do without scripture.
I've seen a lot of pastors Council.
Under the sea. water quotes biblical counseling mode where they don't use the Bible curreri biblical counseling
is not having your Bible in front of someone and saying oh, let me read a passage from the Bible to get start. That's not typical cast older. You can use the word of God that way but that's not the approach the fact that someone has Michael doesn't mean that they're applying it directly with pastors that are counseling just a lizard just too because they want me to observe them and and and post them and they're using their Bible. but their interpretation of the word is just
I think the whole thing. So there's there's a certain way that we do it and will learn that throughout the course of counseling is not something you do without scripture. It is called biblical counseling because your foundation and your resource. Your go-to is the word of God.
When you're in counseling you'd have to do a lot of research. And when you're in counseling with the word of God, guess what you're going to do your research from you're going to go to the word of God to do the research. And obviously you need to also understand what's happening in the Physical Realm. You need to understand what's happening in their emotions and you need to understand what's happening with their connection with God.
All right. So what is biblical counseling biblical counseling is the process where the Bible for process where the Bible?
God's word
is related individually to a person or persons is related individually to a person or persons.
Who are struggling under the weight of personal safe who are struggling with the waves of personal sin?
These people can also be struggling with difficulties with suffering does not necessarily mean that they have said although a lot of the issues that we fine during our counseling sessions is the underlying issues. Sometimes said most posted by but people also suffer. They also go to the difficulties. They are you know, they did just lost a family member hot. How do you how do you get past that? If some people are having a hard time does the Bible say about that area? Okay. So how do we process the word of God how we relate individually to those people and how do we apply that to their knees? Okay. Very important. All right.
Biblical counseling is not something you do without scripture write that down. This is very very important.
What's the definition of a straight so you can write it down to take a picture of it?
underline the word process underline the word process
we'll talk about that second. What is the process I can send them to you? If you want to just send me a quick email and I'll I'll send those to you underline the word. weight of personal sin wait for personal sin.
underline genuinely change in the inner person
very important question for you. Are we all good with that? What's happened? underline the word process process process
You under your underlining weight of personal sin? And your underlining genuinely change in the inner person.
I am I also record the session set for doing so with with the Slice your own spaghetti the luncheon.
Is the problem always sent?
This the problem always said you said yes when you said yes, what do you think?
I think because they're pregnant. You're angry about something that's going to be so I feel like sometimes but it can be based off of something that they need to be having an effect mess. And it's always in the way of anything that could get you a place where you're better or be. So it's so you're always sitting here. Here's a here's a scenario for you.
sickness
always certain
How to solve Level okay, so I wanted to write this question down. I want you to Circle always for you. I want you to Circle always and we'll get back to that. What do you like?
So I guess because Secrets within Secrets answer to both of you sent throughout upstairs, so I would not send the world would be a rating the review like any evil so I can finish the root of the problem, but it's not always there. If you hit your roots it like something they did like generation a government leader that under that that's in there under that person so I can other people see it affects them, but it's not always on them as something they personally did but the problem with everything you said. Okay, so you use the word everything. That's right. I want you to put on the side of everything and I want you to come for you. I want you to circle the word everything. All right.
You're right. Sick like you're sick, but sometimes something happens you so they'll send against them and try to get some rest, but I suspect I can say it right but now it's always been so so you're saying no.
You sure about that? based on your theology based on your belief
It's going to retire.
You're saying.
FaceTime how we think? How we interpret how we re? We form conclusions. And our part in the nevermind. And now we have someone in front of us. That is a stoppie. a word and guidance from us guess what our believe our interpretation is going to guy that conversation
Melanie spelling between what she said and what you said, there's some all the way. and now you're coming between But you're also saying we do that it's always said.
So you see where I'm going with that but that's okay. Let's look at scripture with John 9 to says John 92 says and disciples asked him saying Rabbi who said this man or his parents talk about generational sin.
Felony murder forgetica. She talked about personal send me a video that he should feed a newborn fly. What was the what's the problem? What's the problem with this guy? Okay.
You got a blind man coming to you and he sang. I feel stressed. I feel angry I feel. I feel I all these different emotions because I don't belong. I think I Was Born Blonde.
Naples because there was this belief that everything that happened because you said
what is that?
What does John 9 3?
Work of God might be displayed in either the medicine. It wasn't his fault that your parents generational right, but why was he born blind read that again?
God might explain it to you to your office blind frustrated and you using the word. Can you tell him to just be happy that you were going to fly? So the glory of God you were chosen, is that good interpretation of the work?
How do you explain it?
How do you find the sad what just happened after right? Ethan said his parents been said, but this happened just so that God can receive Lord. So there's a process that you're going to have to take. In order for him to understand the beginning where he has to be.
Someone told me that right now. I don't I don't like brother if I told me I cannot lie.
And I told her I wouldn't say that I would say that.
Cuz he feels like something's wrong because those like I'm flying, this is Bob and something bad about this. I don't believe in God hasn't being bad for giving someone I gave it to me so I can talk to him in like North like there is something wrong cuz he's just feel that deep inside himself, but there's something wrong. What is wrong all the time like you live in a fallen world be like Since I mixed and it's not his center-right, maybe not expensive. But if I don't ever see it, it's in every aspect of the walkie with a y.
so I like comfort in a little bit. Do I get out your feelings on Valley and like there's something wrong like something did happen and nothing to do with you with the bottom also like I do not deposit.
Starving his feelings or if he's going to feel just feel like I'll never be able to make a bat and expense down.
Put a pot of water. We got to take the chance to leave during the process of understanding and I guess it may be focused on YouTube.
Car Wash spray at 3 I'm out of here before I can give you.
That's reasonable child when you're in a counseling session avoid using words like always. never
especially in the beginning because the Bible says that a person needs to be there my test if your eyes have to be open up. In the spiritual for them to understand that's the key word understand if the man understands what just happened to him in this life is Hove. You just take if you understand. So you need to take him to the process and that's what we're going to learn in the Second Harvest will go through a series of exercises.
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