Life in Christ (10)
Every day Christianity...
The Family
Women had little value in the brutal Roman system. In fact, they were treated as if they were not really people at all. “This was shown by the way they named their children. ‘Roman citizens had three names … Women, however, had only the [clan] name and the family name. They had no individual name.’ Instead of being given her own name, a Roman female was referred to by the feminine form of her father’s family name.”
Genocide or “gendercide” was as common in ancient Rome as the practice of abortion is today. When a mother gave birth to a girl, the newborn often was cast off in the woods or on a hillside and left to die by starvation or to be eaten by wild animals. The practice, called “exposing” an infant, was illegal for boys but permitted for girls. “The very fact that Romulus had to make a law guaranteeing that a family keep at least one daughter alive shows how widespread the practice of killing female babies was. How many female babies were killed is evidenced by such things as burial records that show twice as many male adult burials as female.”
Roman society placed very little value on wives, and husbands were not encouraged to treat wives well. Roman husbands demanded that their wives be submissive and pure, and the heavy hand of Roman law stood behind them to enforce their “rights.” If a wife did not obey her husband and submit to his rule, she broke the laws of the Roman state and could expect severe treatment, even death.