Gary Sturgeon Funeral

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Opening Prayer
Dear heavenly father,
We ask that you would bring comfort to the family as they mourn. Lord we ask that the legacy that Gary leaves behind and this service would bring honor to your name.
Amen
The Minister’s Manual for Funerals M. The Real Measure of Success (for the Saintly Man)

Why is it that when we hear of the death of someone, we frequently ask about their age? If we hear of a friend’s parent passing away, our first question will frequently be, “How old was he?” When a friend’s work associate dies, sooner or later we get around to asking, “How old was he?” or, “How old was she?”

Perhaps one reason we ask is that it seems to be easier to justify in our minds the death of someone more advanced in years. If one has accumulated enough years we can more easily accept one’s death and assume it to be a natural event. Death seems less tragic when we can say they had a “full life.”

But I would suggest to you this afternoon that a long life is not a guarantee of a full life. I would even suggest to you that a better way to measure a man’s life is not by how long he lived but rather how he lived.
As you just heard Stephanie recount Gary lived by many standards not a long life but he did live a full life.
I am reminded of a quote I say often from Jack London
The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time.”
Jack London
Gary used his time.
He didn’t sit on the sidelines and let life pass him by but rather he took life as it came and found love, joy, and peace in the midst of it.
Although Gary had some hard seasons in life with the loss of His son and battling Leukemia. Gary found the strength to go on. While many others who went through the same circumstances would have become bitter and fearful. Gary found Love, joy, strength and peace.
One might ask how is this possible?
2 Corinthians 1:3–5 CSB
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort. He comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any kind of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ overflow to us, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.
It was possible because Gary knew the supplier of Love, Joy, strength and peace. He had a relationship with the God of all comfort, who created heaven and earth. Through his faith and trust in Jesus Christ he had both the strength to continue on and the joy to share with those he loved.
It is because of this faith in Jesus Christ that those who are sitting in the room, who loved and will miss Gary greatly, can have assurance that they will see him again.
1 Thessalonians 4:13–14 CSB
We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, concerning those who are asleep, so that you will not grieve like the rest, who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, in the same way, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep.
Scripture is clear that all those who have repented and put their faith in Jesus Christ have the full assurance of seeing their loved ones again.
So in your moments of grief , and many of you will have many in the coming days, Hold onto to this precious promise that for all of us eternity is nearer than we think . But eternity in Christ promises that we never have to be separated again. It Promises that forever we will dwell in a perfect paradise with our God and those whom he has saved.
Maybe your here today, and inside you know that your eternal home is uncertain. Maybe the words, that I spoke from the Bible offer you no comfort but rather discomfort because these promises outside of Christ do not yet apply to you.
As I was privileged to know Gary over the last 5 years, I know that he would want you to consider these following verses.
2 Peter 3:9 CSB
The Lord does not delay his promise, as some understand delay, but is patient with you, not wanting any to perish but all to come to repentance.
John 3:17 CSB
For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Romans 5:7–10 CSB
For rarely will someone die for a just person—though for a good person perhaps someone might even dare to die. But God proves his own love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. How much more then, since we have now been justified by his blood, will we be saved through him from wrath. For if, while we were enemies, we were reconciled to God through the death of his Son, then how much more, having been reconciled, will we be saved by his life.
Ephesians 2:8–9 CSB
For you are saved by grace through faith, and this is not from yourselves; it is God’s gift— not from works, so that no one can boast.
Romans 10:10 CSB
One believes with the heart, resulting in righteousness, and one confesses with the mouth, resulting in salvation.
Romans 10:13 CSB
For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.
I will close with a poem by an unknown author entitled “The mansions above”

We strain every nerve, we strive for the prize

Of our calling in Christ: a home in the skies:

The battles all fought, the victory won,

We have the reward—“Good servant, well done:”

“Come, enter thy home, these mansions above,

Rest in the haven of infinite love;

From sorrow and sin forever released,

Come sit with the guests at the heavenly feast.”

All stains washed away, in robes of pure white

We bask in His rays, we shine in His light;

The crown of rejoicing we evermore wear,

The glory of Christ eternally share.

Make me, O Father, more grateful for life,

More willing to bear the turmoil and strife,

More anxious to serve, more like Him to be

Who gave His own life a ransom for me.

That, bearing Christ’s image, e’en here below,

My word done in Him, His glory may show,

Till the summons I hear, in accents of love,

“Daughter, come higher, and serve Me above.”

What glories await the spirit set free

From fetters of earth, untrammelled to be!

The work begun here is continued above,

And all that blest life is service and love.

—Parish Visitor

Stop
***Say please listen to this next song***
Closing Prayer (after a beautiful life and sorority presentation,
Beta Sigma Phi has a rose presentation in honor Gary and Linda.
If able, please stand for the rendering of military honors.
Taps-
you may be seated..

Dear Father in heaven, we thank You for giving us the privilege of knowing this dear man. We knew him as a Christian, a leader, a son, a husband, a father, and a friend. His love for You, dear God, was witnessed by each one of us, and that love was given to us by him. We miss him, but the warm memories we cherish remind us that he is now in Your tender care. Dear Shepherd, be with us in this valley. May your peace and comfort be felt by this good family. You are with us now, dear Lord, and as the psalmist said, “[We] will fear no evil” because You are here with us. In Christ’s name we pray. Amen.

This concludes today's service....
Thank you for being here to support the family.
At this time, I will dismiss the family to the welcome center area to my right where they will receive Guests. As soon as they exit you may be dismissed.
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