The Essence of Love
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For the third time, we are considering the subject of love!
This does not mean John has run out of ideas and has to repeat himself. It means that the Holy Spirit, who inspired John, presents the subject once more, from a deeper point of view.
First, love for the brethren has been shown as proof of fellowship with God (2:7-11);
then it has been presented as proof of sonship (3:10-14).
In the earlier passage, love for the brethren is a matter of light or darkness; in the second, it is a matter of life or death.
But in 4:7-16, we get down to the very foundation of the matter. Here we discover why love is such an essential part of the life that is real. Love is a valid lest of our fellowship and our sonship because "God is love." Love is part of the very being and nature of God. We share His nature if we are united to God through faith in Christ. And since His nature is love, love is the test of the reality of our spiritual life.
A navigator depends on a compass to help him determine his course. But why a compass? Because it shows him his directions. And why does the compass point north? Because it is so constituted that it responds to the magnetic field that is part of the earth's makeup. The compass is responsive to the nature of the earth.
So, with Christian love. The nature of God is love.
And a person who knows God and has been born of God will respond to God's nature. As a compass naturally points north, a believer will naturally practice love because love is the nature of God. This love will not be a forced response but a natural response. A believer's love for the brethren will be proof of his sonship and fellowship.
Three times, in this section, John encourages us to love one another (vv. 7, 11, 12). He supports these admonitions by giving us three foundational facts about God.
1. Love’s Identity - What God Is: "God Is Love" (1 John 4:7
7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
This is the third of three expressions in John's writings that help us understand the nature of God:
"God is spirit" (John 4:24
24 God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.
"God is light" (1 John 1:5
5 This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all.
and "God is love." None of these is a complete revelation of God, and it is wrong to separate them.
God is spirit as to His essence; He is not flesh and blood. To be sure, Jesus Christ now has a glorified body in heaven, and one day we shall have bodies like His body. But being by nature spirit, God is not limited by time and space like His creatures are.
God is light. This refers to His holy nature. In the Bible, light is a symbol of holiness and darkness is a symbol of sin (1:5-10; John 3:18-21). God cannot sin because He is holy. Because we have been born into His family, we have received His holy nature. (2 Peter 1:4
4 Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.
14 As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance:
15 But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;
16 Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.
God is love. This does not mean that "love is God." And the fact that two people "love each other" does not mean their love is necessarily holy. It has accurately been said that "love does not define God, but God defines love." God is love and light; therefore, His love is holy, and His holiness is expressed in love. All that God does expresses all that God is. Even His judgments are measured out in love and mercy (Lam. 3:22
22 It is of the Lord’s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.
23 They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.
Much that is called "love" in modern society bears no resemblance or relationship to the holy, spiritual love of God. Yet we see banners saying "God is love!" displayed at many festivals, mainly where young people are "doing their own thing"—as if one could dignify immorality by calling it "love." Christian love is a special kind of love. First John 4:10 may be translated: "In this way is seen the true love." There is false love, and God must reject this kind of love. Love that is born out of the very essence of God must be spiritual and holy because
"God is spirit" is "poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us" (Rom. 5:5).
Love, therefore, is a valid test of true Christian faith. Since God is love, and we have claimed a personal relationship with God, we must reveal His love in how we live. A child of God has been "born of God," and therefore, he shares God's divine nature. Since "God is love," Christians ought to love one another. The logic is unanswerable!
Not only have we been "born of God," but we also "know God." The word know has a much deeper meaning than simply intellectual acquaintance or understanding in the Bible. For example, the verb know describes the intimate union of husband and wife (Gen. 4:1). To know God means to be in a deep relationship to Him-to share His life and enjoy His love. This knowing is not simply a matter of understanding facts but of perceiving truth (cf. 1 John 2:3-5).
In this light, we must understand “he that liveth not knoweth not God” (48). Indeed, many unsaved people love their families and even sacrifice for them.
And no doubt many of these same people have an intellectual understanding of God. What, then, do they lack? They lack a personal experience of God. To paraphrase verse 8, "The person who does not have this divine kind of love has never entered into a personal, experiential knowledge of God. What he knows is in his head, but it has never gotten into his heart."
What God is determines what we ought to be. "As He is, so are we in this world" (v. 17). The fact that Christians love one another is evidence of their fellowship with God and their sonship from God, and it is also evidence that they know God. Their experience with God is not simply a once-for-all crisis; il is a daily experience of getting to know Him better and better. True theology (the study of God) is not a dry, impractical course in doctrine- it is an exciting day-by-day experience that makes us Christlike!
A large quantity of radioactive material was stolen from a hospital. When the hospital administrator notified the police, he said: "Please warn the thief that he is carrying death with him and that the radioactive material cannot be successfully hidden.
As long as he has it, it affects him disastrously!"
A person who claims he knows God and is in union with Him must be personally affected by this relationship. A Christian ought to become what God is, and "God is love." To argue otherwise is to prove that one does not know God!
2. Love’s Intervention - What God Did: "He Sent His Son" (1 John 4:9-11)
Because God is love, He must communicate in words and deeds. True love is never static or inactive. God reveals His love to mankind in many ways; he has geared all of creation to meet men’s needs; until man’s sin brought creation under bondage, man had on earth a perfect home in which to love and serve God.
God's love was revealed in the way He dealt with the nation of Israel. "The Lord did not set His love upon you, nor choose you, because ye were more in number than any people; for ye were the fewest of all people. But because the Lord loved you ..: hath the Lord brought you out with a mighty hand" (Deut. 7:1, 8).
God’s most significant expression of love is in His Son’s death.
8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
"manifested" means "to come out in the open, to be made public." It is the opposite of "to hide, to make secret." Under the Old Covenant, God was hidden behind the shadows of ritual and ceremony (Heb. 10:1); but in Jesus Christ "the life was manifested" (1 John 1:2). "He that hath seen Me," said Jesus, "hath seen the Father" (John 14:9).
Why was Jesus Christ manifested? "And you know that He was manifested to take away our sins" (I John 3:5). "For this purpose, the Son of God was manifested, that He might destroy the works of the devil" (v. 8). Where did Jesus take away our sins and destroy (render inoperative) the works of the devil? At the Cross! God manifested His love at the Cross when He gave His Son as a sacrifice there for our sins.
This is the only place in the epistle where Jesus is called God's only-begotten Son. The title is used in John's Gospel (1:14). It means "unique, the only one of its kind." The fact that God sent His Son into the world is one evidence of the deity of Jesus Christ. Babies are not sent into the world from some other place; they are born into the world. As the perfect man, Jesus was born into the world, but as the eternal Son, He was sent into the world.
But the sending of Christ into the world, and His death on the cross, were not prompted by man's love for God. His love for man prompted them.
The world's attitude toward God is anything but love!
Two purposes are given for Christ's death on the cross: that we might live through Him (1 John 4:9) and that He might be the propitiation for our sins (v. 10). His death was not an accident; it was an appointment. He did not die as a weak martyr, but as a mighty conqueror.
Jesus Christ died that we might live "through Him"
(v. 9), "for Him" (2 Cor. 5:15), and "with Him" (1 Thes. 5:9, 10). A sinner's desperate need is for life, because he is "dead in trespasses and sins" (Eph.
2:1). It is a paradox that Christ had to die so that we may live! We can never probe the mystery of His death, but this we know: He died for us (Gal. 2:20).
The death of Christ is described as a "propitiation."
John has used this word before (1 John 2:2), so there is no need to study it in detail again. We should remember that propitiation does not mean that men must do something to appease God or to placate His anger. The action of Propitiation makes it possible for men to be forgiven. "God is light," and therefore, He must uphold His holy law. "God is love," and therefore He wants to forgive and save sinners. How can God forgive sinners and still be consistent with His holy nature? The answer is the Cross. There Jesus Christ bore the punishment for sin and met the just demands of the holy Law. But there, also, God reveals His love and makes it possible for men to be saved by faith.
It is important to note that the emphasis is on the death of Christ, not on His birth. The fact that Jesus was "made flesh" (John 1: 14) is undoubtedly an evidence of God's grace and love, but the fact that He was "made sin" (2 Cor. 5:21) is underscored for us. The example of Christ, the teachings of Christ, and the whole earthly life of Christ find their true meaning and fulfillment in the Cross.
For the second time, believers are exhorted to "love one another" (1 John 4:11). This exhortation is a commandment to be obeyed (v. 7), and its basis is the nature of God. "God is love; we know God; therefore, we should love one another." But the exhortation to love one another is presented as a privilege as well as a responsibility: "If God so loved us, we ought also to love one another" (v. 11). We are not saved by loving Christ; we are saved by believing on Christ (John 3:16). But after we realize what He did for us on the cross, our normal response ought to be to love Him and to love one another.
Christians must progress in their understanding of love. To love one another simply out of a sense of duty is good, but to love out of appreciation (rather than obligation) is even better.
This may be one reason why Jesus established the Lord's Supper, the Communion service. We remember His death when we break the bread and share the cup. Few men, if any, want their deaths remembered! We remember the life of a loved one and try to forget the sadness of his death. Not so with Christ. He commands us to remember His death:
"This do in remembrance of Me!"
We should remember our Lord's death in a spiritual way, not merely sentimentally. Someone has defined sentiment as "feeling without responsibility." It is easy to experience solemn emotions at a church service and yet go out to live the same defeated life. The authentic spiritual experience involves the whole man. The mind must understand spiritual truth; the heart must love and appreciate it; and the will must act upon it. The deeper we go into the meaning of the Cross, the greater our love for Christ will be and our active concern for one another.
We have discovered what God is and what God has done; but a third foundation fact takes us even deeper into the meaning and implications of Christian love.
3 Love’s Indwelling - What God Is Doing: "God Abides in Us" (1 John 4:12-16)
At this point it would be good for us to review what John has been saying about the basic truth that "God is love."
This truth is revealed to us in the Word, but it was also revealed on the cross, where Christ died for us. "God is love" is not simply a doctrine in the Bible; it is an eternal fact clearly demonstrated at Calvary. God has said something to us and done something for us.
But all this is preparation for the third remarkable fact:
God does something in us! We are not merely students reading a book or spectators watching a deeply moving event. We are participants in the great drama of God's love!
To save money, a college drama class purchased only a few scripts of a play and cut them up into separate parts. The director gave each player his part in order and then rehearsed the play. But nothing went right. The cast gave up after an hour of missed cues and mangled sequences.
At that point, the director sat the actors all on the stage and said: "Look, I'm going to read the entire play to you, so don't any of you say a word." He read the entire script aloud, and when he was finished, one of the actors said:
"So that's what it was all about!"
And when they understood the entire story, they could fit their parts together and have a successful rehearsal.
When you read verses 12-16, you feel like saying,
"So that's what it's all about!" Here, we discover what God had in mind when He devised His great plan of salvation.
To begin with, God desires to live in us. He is not satisfied to tell or even show us that He loves us.
It is interesting to trace God's dwelling places as recorded in the Bible. In the beginning, God had fellowship with man in a personal, direct way (Gen. 3:8), but sin broke that fellowship. God needed to shed the blood of animals to cover the sins of Adam and Eve so that they might come back into His fellowship.
One of the keywords in the Book of Genesis is walked. God walked with men, and men walked with God. Enoch (Gen. 5:22), Noah (6:9), and Abraham walked with God (17:1; 24:40).
But by the time of the events recorded in Exodus, a change had occurred: God did not simply walk with men; he lived, or dwelt, with them. God's commandment to Israel was, "And let them make Me a sanctuary; that I may dwell among them" (Ex. 25:8).
The first of those sanctuaries was the Tabernacle.
When Moses dedicated it, the glory of God came down and moved into the tent (40:33-35).
God dwelt in the camp, but He did not dwell in the bodies of the individual Israelites.
Unfortunately, the nation sinned and God's glory departed (1 Sam. 4:21). But God used Samuel and David to restore the nation; and Solomon built God a magnificent temple. When the Temple was dedicated, once again, the glory of God came to dwell in the land (1 Kings 8:1-11).
But history repeated itself, and Israel disobeyed God and was taken into captivity. The gorgeous Temple was destroyed. One of the prophets of the captivity, Ezekiel, saw the glory of God depart from it (Ezek. 8:4; 9:3; 10:4; 11:22, 23).
Did the glory ever return? Yes, the person of God's Son, Jesus Christ! "And the Word became flesh, and tabernacled among us, and we beheld His glory" (John 1:14, lit.). The glory of God dwelt on earth in the body of Jesus Christ, for His body was the temple of God (John 2:18-22). But wicked men nailed His body to a cross. They crucified "the Lord of glory" (1 Cor. 2:8). All this was part of God's thrilling plan, and Christ arose from the dead, returned to heaven, and sent His Holy Spirit to dwell in men.
The glory of God now lives in the bodies of God's children. "Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?"
(6:19, NAS). The glory of God departed from the Tabernacle and the Temple when Israel disobeyed God, but Jesus has promised that the Spirit will abide in us forever (John 14:16).
With this background, we can better understand what 1 John 4: 12-16 is saying to us. God is invisible
(1 Tim. 1: 17), and no man can see Him in His essence.
Jesus is "the image of the invisible God" (Col. 1: 15).
By taking upon Himself a human body, Jesus revealed God to us. But Jesus is no longer here on earth. How, then, does God reveal Himself to the world?
He reveals Himself through the lives of His children. Men cannot see God, but they can see us. If we abide in Christ, we will love one another, and our love will reveal God's love to a needy world. God's love will be experienced in us and then will be expressed through us.
That important little word abides (or dwell AV) is used six times in 1 John 4:12-16. It refers to our fellowship with Jesus Christ. To abide in Christ means to remain in spiritual oneness with Him, so that no sin comes between us. Because we are "born of God," we have union with Christ, but we have communion with Him only as we trust Him and obey His commandments. Much as a faithful husband and wife "abide in love" though they may be separated by miles, so a believer abides in God's love. This abiding is made possible by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit (4:13).
Imagine the wonder and the privilege of having God abide in you! The Old Testament Israelites would look wonderfully at the Tabernacle or Temple because the presence of God was in that building. No man would dare to enter the holy of holies, where God was enthroned in glory! But we have God's Spirit living in us! We abide in this love, and we experience the abiding of God in us. "If a man love Me, he will keep My words; and My Father will love him, and We will come unto him, and make Our abode with him" (John 14:23).
God's love is proclaimed in the Word ("God is love") and proved at the Cross. But here we have something deeper: God's love is perfected in the believer. Fantastic as it may seem, God's love is not made perfect in angels, but in sinners saved by His grace. We Christians are now the tabernacles and temples in which God dwells. He reveals His love through us.
Some will never preach a sermon in a church, but her life was a constant sermon on the love of God.
The life of a Christian who abides in God's love is a potent witness for God in the world. Men cannot see God, But they can see His love moving us to deeds of helpfulness and kindness.
Three different witnesses are suggested in these verses:
1 The witness of the believer that Jesus Christ is God's Son (1 John 4:15);
2 the witness in the believer by the Spirit (v. 13);
and 3 the witness through the believer that God is love and that He sent His Son to die for the world (v. 14).
These witnesses cannot be separated. The world will not believe that God loves sinners until they see His love at work in His children's lives.
A Salvation Army worker found a derelict woman alone on the street and invited her to the chapel for help, but the woman refused to move. The worker assured her: "We love you and want to help you. God loves you. Jesus died for you." But the woman did not budge.
As if on divine impulse, the Army lassie leaned over and kissed the woman on the cheek, taking her into her arms. The woman began to sob, and like a child was led into the chapel, where she ultimately trusted Christ.
"You told me that God loved me." she said later, "but it wasn't till you showed me that God loved me that I wanted to be saved."
Jesus did not simply preach the love of God; He proved it by giving His life on the cross. He expects His followers to do likewise. If we abide in Christ, we will abide in His love. If we abide in His love, we must share this love with others. Whenever we share this love, it is proof in our own hearts that we are abiding in Christ. In other words, there is no separation between a Christian's inner and outer life.
Abiding in God's love produces two tremendous spiritual benefits in the life of a believer:
1 He grows in knowledge, and
2 He grows in faith (v. 16). The more we love God, the more we understand the love of God. And the more we understand His love, the easier it is for us to trust Him. After all, when you know someone intimately and love him sincerely, you have no problem putting your confidence in him.
A man standing in the greeting card section of a store was having trouble picking out a card. The clerk asked if she could help, and he said:
"Well, it's our fortieth wedding anniversary, but I can't find a card that says what I want to say. You know, 40 years ago it wouldn't have been any problem picking out a card, because back then I thought I knew what love was. But we love each other so much more today, I can't find a card that says it!" This is a growing Christian's experience with God.
As he abides in Christ and spends time in fellowship with Him, he comes to love God more and more.
He also grows in his love for other Christians, for the lost, and even for his enemies. As he shares the Father's love with others, he experiences more of the Father's love himself. He understands the Father's love better and better.
"God is love," then, is not simply a profound biblical statement. It is the basis for a believer's relationship with God and with his fellow man. Because God is love, we can love. His love is not past history; it is present reality. "Love one another" begins as a commandment (v. 7), then it becomes a privilege (v. 11). But it is more than a commandment or a privilege. It is also the thrilling consequence and evidence of our abiding in Christ (v. 12). Loving one another is not something we simply ought to do; it is something we want to do.
Some practical applications grow out of this essential truth:
First, the better we know God's love, the easier it will be to live as a Christian. Bible knowledge alone does not replace personal experience of God's love. It can be a dangerous substitute if we are not careful.
Illustration:
Whether we are singing, witnessing, teaching, or studying, these accomplish little if they do not help us love God and one another. The Bible is a revelation of God's love; and the better we understand His love, the easier it should be for us to obey Him and love others.
A second consideration is that unless we love the lost, our verbal witness to them will be useless. The Gospel message is a message of love. This love was both declared and demonstrated by Jesus Christ. The only way we can win others is to declare the Gospel and demonstrate it in our lives. Too much "witnessing" today is a mere mouthing of words. People need an expression of love.
One reason why God permits the world to hate Christians is so that Christians may return love for the world's hatred. "Blessed are you when men revile you, and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely, on account of Me. ... But I say to you, love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you (Matt. 5:11, 44, NAS).
Illustration:
" I’ve tried to be nice to them, but it doesn't work.
"Perhaps 'being nice to them' isn't the real answer,"
"You know, it's possible to be nice to people with the wrong motive."
"You mean as though you're trying to buy them of!?"
"Something like that. I think you and I had better pray that God will give you true spiritual love for your neighbors. If you love them in a Christian way, you'll be unable to do them any damage," the pastor pointed out.
It took some weeks, but Mrs. Barton grew in her love for her neighbors; and grew in her own spiritual life.
"My neighbors haven't changed much,”
"but my attitude toward them has changed. I used to do things for them to try to win their approval. But now I do things for Jesus' sake because He died for them. It makes all the difference in the world!"
John has taken us to the foundation of Christian love in this paragraph of his letter. But he still has more to teach us. In the next section, he deals with our love for God and how God perfects that love in us.
These two aspects of Christian love cannot be separated from one another: if we love God, we will love one another, and if we love one another, we will grow in our love for God.
And both statements are true because "God is love."