Darrell McFarland - August 14, 1962 - December 29, 2023

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Welcome & Gathering

Jesus said, I am the resurrection and I am life. Those who believe in me, even though they die, yet shall they live, and whoever lives and believes in me shall never die.
Friends, we have gathered here to praise God and to witness to our faith as we celebrate the life of Darrell Ray McFarland. We come together in grief, acknowledging our human loss. May God grant us grace, that in pain we may find comfort, in sorrow….hope, in death….resurrection.
Pray

Special Music - What a friend we have in Jesus

Old Testament Scripture

Psalm 23 NIV
A psalm of David. The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Pastoral Prayer

O God, who gave us birth, you are ever more ready to hear than we are to pray. You know our needs before we ask, and our ignorance in asking. Give to us now your grace, that as we shrink before the mystery of death, we may see the light of eternity. Speak to us once more your solemn message of life and of death. Help us to live as those who are prepared to die. And when our days here are accomplished, enable us to die as those who go forth to live, so that living or dying, our life may be in you, and that nothing in life or in death will be able to separate us from your great love in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Add prayer for family:
Amen.
Will you join me in the Lord’s prayer as you are able:
OUR FATHER WHO ART IN HEAVEN, HALLOWED BE THY NAME. THY KINGDOM COME. THY WILL BE DONE ON EARTH AS IT IS IN HEAVEN. GIVE US THIS DAY OUR DAILY BREAD, AND FORGIVE US OUR TRESPASSES, AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST US, AND LEAD US NOT INTO TEMPTATION, BUT DELIVER US FROM EVIL. FOR THINE IS THE KINGDOM, AND THE POWER, AND THE GLORY, FOR EVER AND EVER AMEN

Eulogy

Joe Wayne McFarland

Special Music - Five Foot Two Eyes of Blue

Celebration of Life

Meghan Holstine (Daughter)
Brad Kaplan (Friend)
Caitlin McFarland (Daughter)

New Testament and Scripture

John 14:1–4 NIV
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.”
John 14:23–27 NIV
Jesus replied, “Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. Anyone who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me. “All this I have spoken while still with you. But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
Pray.

Darrell McFarland

It has been an honor to get to know Darrell through the family over the last few weeks and I think we can all agree a blessing to hear the testimony of family and friends today.
A couple of thoughts as an outsider to reflect on:
Darrell was a “great dad and a caring son”
This may seem like something that is overly simplistic but do not sell it short the significance of these descriptions.
Darrell’s desire and effectiveness in raising, and I quote, “fiercly independent daughters” comes from intentionality and careful, loving, and supportive empowerment.
As a caring son, he was always there for his family, especially when his parents need anything.
Mr. Mac
As a middle school theatre teacher, the level and multiplication of impact is unmeasurable. Patient and caring. Middle School kids are why I left student ministry…this is a calling. He had high hopes for his kids and I am told especially for his students this year.
Darrell had more life to give, more encouragement, more empowerment, and I think he desired to really share life even more.
That is what makes today difficult. It did not fit our plans or desires. Darrells impact means we feel empty or confused at this grief.

Peace I leave with you

The text I read from John 14 would have the disciples feeling the beginning of a similar emotion. Jesus is preparing them for his death, resurrection, and departure. He is trying to teach them and prepare them for the mission that Jesus is now passing on to them. In the next few days they would see their leader die and that would be excruciating. Then Jesus knows they will have difficult days ahead as well and Jesus promises Peace….His peace.
Reminder today that God can be trusted in this space. A few observations, from the text:
1. His peace is unlike peace of this world
a. He has conquered death itself and is the resurrection. He has walked through the darkest valley so that in our dark valleys, we know we are not alone. Jesus has the last word…this is the only way that he can say....peace I give to you and it can mean anything really when our hearts are broken.
b. His peace is comprehensive. Not just a rest…but deeper than that. Biblical peace is about a setting things right that are wrong. Rebuilding and restoring. The world promises allusions of peace…but goodness we know anything resembling peace is fleeting and difficult to grasp. God’s peace, even if hard to grasp right now is comprehensive.
God is not in the business of making life all copasetic for everyone… God is in the business of turning this rotten fallen world around. Rebuilding.
C. One of the images of peace in the bible is of a rebuilding of a wall that has been broken. Pieces missing and the wall has lost its integrity. God promises peace which is the setting right and rebuilding. Family: God can and will rebuild what is broken here.
2. He is sending the advocate, the Holy Spirit, to testify to our hearts.
But God is not just an outside player in this story. He gives of his Spirit on those days when you just can’t. He promises to join them in the darkness.
3. And he is preparing a place for all of us that are in Christ Jesus. Darrell is with the Lord. To be absent from the body is to be with the Lord.
· Earlier in this text there is the guy named Thomas who begins to challenge Jesus… Wait youre leaving? Let us go with you! Jesus speaks words to Thomas so that we might hear them today… I am the way, the truth, and the life. Darrell came to that realization, so even today we can hold onto that hope.
So....Jesus offers them peace in their struggle. That peace is comprehensive, it is tied to his presence
Peace conditioned only by God’s presence with his people. Not on circumstances
“Total well being, prosperity, and security associated with God’s presence among his people.”
· It’s the peace that even when things are not all alright…we still know he is with us.
This is the steady and reliable truth today.
In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
Amen.

Piano: Amazing Grace

Benediction

The peace of God He which passes all understanding keep your hearts and minds in the knowledge and love of God, and of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord. And the blessing of God Almighty, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, be among you and remain with you always. Amen.
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