Divorce
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stephan challen
The Four Gospels • Sermon • Submitted • Presented • 37:18
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“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
And Pharisees came up to him and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful to divorce one’s wife for any cause?” He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” They said to him, “Why then did Moses command one to give a certificate of divorce and to send her away?” He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
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“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Pharisees & Scribes: Debated endlessly, resulting in a Certificate of Divorce
They had become flipant over divorce, not seeing it in light of Scripture
Problem in the modern professing church
Self-righteous attitude amonst professing believers
Many are affected and hurt by sin
Sin is against God
Sin is against the victim
Jesus equates it to infidelity and adultery
Marriage Ordinance
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
7th Commandment
“You shall not commit adultery.
Faithless to each other & to God (Losing touch with God)
But you say, “Why does he not?” Because the Lord was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. Did he not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And what was the one God seeking? Godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and let none of you be faithless to the wife of your youth. “For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”
Paul highlights that Marriage is symbolic of the relationship between Christ and the Church
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
A faithless attitude towards marriage (each other) reflects a faithless attitude towards God
Pharisees Questioned Jesus
And Pharisees came up to him and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful to divorce one’s wife for any cause?” He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” They said to him, “Why then did Moses command one to give a certificate of divorce and to send her away?” He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
NB: Same account in Mark 10:1-12
from the beginning
One man & one woman
Implication that death alone is able to part them
For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage.
A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
Exception: Infidelity permits divorce
But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Allowance, not expectation or a rule
sexual immorality: extramarital, unlawful or unnatural
Marital unfaithfulness rises in rebellion against the very essence of the marriage bond
Paul affirms that even an unbelieving husband/wife is not grounds for divorce
If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him.
Forgivness
Now if anyone has caused pain, he has caused it not to me, but in some measure—not to put it too severely—to all of you. For such a one, this punishment by the majority is enough, so you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. So I beg you to reaffirm your love for him. For this is why I wrote, that I might test you and know whether you are obedient in everything. Anyone whom you forgive, I also forgive. Indeed, what I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, has been for your sake in the presence of Christ, so that we would not be outwitted by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his designs.
Certificate of Divorce:
“When a man takes a wife and marries her, if then she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some indecency in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, and she departs out of his house, and if she goes and becomes another man’s wife, and the latter man hates her and writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, or if the latter man dies, who took her to be his wife, then her former husband, who sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after she has been defiled, for that is an abomination before the Lord. And you shall not bring sin upon the land that the Lord your God is giving you for an inheritance.
Moses while not forbidding it, had greatly discouraged it
Husband, think twice as you cannot have her back once she remarries even if that marriage ends
Scribes & Pharisees: greatly exaggerated the importance of “the exception”
Indecency implied catching her with another man, being in a state of undress
“Makes her commit adultery”
“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Do not misintepret !
She has been wronged, and it is the Husband who does the wrong
He is responsible for the offence
Both are responsible for commitment to the marriage
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Jesus & Moses teaching inferes...
The erring husband should be given an opportunity to correct his error and go back to his wife
Also, warning to others rushing in to take the deserted wife as they face committing adultery
Jesus...
discourages divorce
Refutes the misinterpretation of the law
reaffirms the law’s true meaning
censures the guilty party
defends the innocent
throughout upholds the sacredness and inviolability (not to be broken) of marriage
Hymn - GREAT LORD AND GOD, WE GREET THE DAY (1223)
Hymn - GREAT LORD AND GOD, WE GREET THE DAY (1223)
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