The Fool and the Wise
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Good morning, Mount Moriah Church Family. It is a great pleasure
and honor to be behind this pulpit this morning to be able to preach
the Word of God this morning. If you have your copy of God’s Word I
would ask that you would turn to Proverbs chapter 18, and I will be
reading starting in verse 1 and reading the first 9 verses. I will be
reading from the English Standard Version this morning. As you are
finding your place in the Scriptures, I want to read this article I found as
I was preparing this article. This passage, as much of the book of
Proverbs is, has to do with foolishness and wisdom. The stark contrast
between the two.
So let me read this article with that in mind.
OHIO COUNTY, IN (WCMH) — A man is facing multiple felony charges
after he was caught trying to steal from the Ohio County Sheriff’s Office.
Deputies say surveillance video shows Jack Steele Jr., 38, breaking into
the building around 6:40am. He rummaged around the officer for nine
minutes, stealing a jump pack starter for vehicle batteries, a digital
camera, a flashlight, and several other items.
Steele had been brought to another area of the Sheriff’s Office building
after an DWI investigation. He had been told to wait in the foyer for a ride.
When his ride arrived, Steele was seen trying to wipe his fingerprints off of
the counters before leaving.
“This has to rank up there as one of the world’s dumbest criminals,” Sheriff
Glen Potts stated. “If anyone from the show ‘World’s Dumbest…’ is
watching and needs a video for the criminals episode, I would be more
than happy to provide one for them.”
2This would fall under the category of the fool, or someone who possesses
no wisdom, let alone common sense to begin with.
With that in mind, let’s read our passage of Scripture.
Read Proverbs 18:1-9
Let’s Pray.
So as we have read here, we can gather an overarching theme about this
passage. That theme would be that one who is a fool is one who lacks
godly wisdom. Now, that isn’t to say they lack wisdom in general, but
there is a difference between worldly wisdom and godly wisdom. Worldly
wisdom is the type of wisdom that the world would adhere to and usually
is looking out for only one person’s interests. Your own. You have heard
the phrases more than a few times, “do whatever makes you happy,” or
“just follow your heart and it will guide you.” The only place the heart will
guide you is to hell if you follow it.
But godly wisdom is wisdom that comes from here. It is wisdom that
seeks to serve your brother or sister and honor your God as Lord and
Master. It doesn’t seek to serve self, but rather to Serve God. So with that I
would like to walk through these verses and make some points that I most
likely got from older and wiser men than I.
Point number 1 I want to make is that A Fool Lacks Wisdom. Looking at
verse 1, we see that a food isolates himself. Now, before we go too far, to
spend some time alone is not foolish. To have some alone time to spend
with the Lord, to do personal tasks or errands, and even to just get away
and gather yourself, is not foolish. In fact, I would say it’s important. It is
healthy to have a little alone time. But that is not what this verse is saying.
This verse is talking about the person who intentionally isolates
themselves for the cause of not being around others ever. This is foolish.
This is the route to lack of accountability. If you are never around others
who can sharpen you or hold you accountable will allow you to slip down
the slope of sin without any help back up.
Now, I will be the first one to tell you, confessing sin and being corrected,
rebuked even, isn’t fun. But it isn’t supposed to be fun, it is supposed to
be for the cause of edification. For correction. As Christians, we have two
responsibilities in this sense. One is to correct our brothers or sisters who
are practicing sin, whether intentional or not, and to do so in love, but also
we must be open to correction as well. When a fellow believer calls us out
in our sin, rather than putting the defense up and fighting back, we must
welcome the correction and understand that the person who is correcting
us wants to see us striving after Christ and the Cross, not the wind and
worldly gain.
But alone with this first point, we can also carry on into verse two and see
that the fool is opinionated. A fool takes no pleasure in understanding. We
see this a lot in our so called modern day Christianity, don’t we?
If I hear the phrase, “I don’t need the church, I just need Jesus,” one more
time I am going to pull my hair out! This is the perfect example of the willful
ignorance we see in todays culture. We see a lack of urgency to know who
God really is. Instead, the culture wants to create God in their own image
rather than recognizing Him as the one who created them!
It is a sad reality. It really is because we want to claim that we love God yet
we often don’t even know who He is. Show of hands, who in here is
married? Have children? And how many of you would say you love your
spouse or children? If your hand isn’t up I’ll direct you to Brother Joel after
this is over. But you would say you love them because you have spent the
last however many years getting to know them, sacrificing for them,
serving them, learning about them, right?
It is no different with our love for God. Once He comes into our lives
through salvation, we must then spend the rest of our days getting to
know Him, serving Him, dying to self for His glory. And How do we get to
know Him better? Through His revealed Word that He has so graciously
given us. This is God’s Word. He has given us what He has given us so
that we may know Him. So that we may love Him. But the fool says, “I
don’t need that. I am saved, and its between me and Jesus.”
For any of you country music fans, I call that Tom T Hall theology. Me and
Jesus got our own thing going on. Or Frank Sinatra theology. I want it my
way. Is it well intended? Maybe, but the road to hell is paved with good
intentions.
This leads to humiliation as we can see in verse 3. Looking back at the first
two verses, this is the result you see in verse 3. If you seek out isolation,
seek out to hear your own voice, this is eventually going to lead to
wickedness because you do not want any correction, but you are the
judge. Your ways become the final authority. You neglect to see the gift of
grace that humbles the spirit and tames the tongue.
Thomas Watson has a quote in his book, “The Godly Man’s Picture,” and it reads as such,
“How you should admire free grace, that God has not only brought the
light to you — but given you eyes to see it; that he has enabled you to
know the truth as it is in Jesus; that he has opened, not only the eye of
your understanding—but the eye of your conscience! It is a mercy you can
never be thankful enough for—that God has so enlightened you that you
should not sleep the sleep of death.”
The fool who isolated himself, doesn’t receive instruction, nor seek truth in
understanding, will sleep the sleep of death.
My second point this morning is that The Fool is Loose with His Words.
When you go to the doctor for a regular check up, you can almost always
guarantee they are going to say, “open your mouth and say ahh.” What
they are dong is examining your tongue. The tongue is a great indicator of
your physical health. If it is a normal pink color, then you are doing alright.
If it is more red, it could be a sign of inflamed blood vessels leading to
some harmful diseases. A very smooth tongue, smoother than normal, can
be an indication of celiac disease. Mind you, I found all of this on WebMD
which also indicated that my stomach ache could be a root sign of the
plague so who knows, but the point is that the tongue is a giant indicator
of your overall health.
In the same way, your tongue is also a giant indicator of your spiritual
health too. The way you speak, what you speak about, and who you speak
it to will tell many of those around you what is in your heart. As they say,
what goes in the well, comes up in the bucket. That is what we are seeing
in these next few verses. And even as we look forward at James chapter 3,
we see in verse 8 that apart fro Jesus, it is impossible to tame the tongue.
“But no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of
deadly poison.”
Moving on through these verses, we see that the fall does not see the
delight of his words. In verse 4, the words of the fool are being contrasted
to the words of the wise. The idea here is that the words of a wise man are
a continuous supply of blessing and wise counsel. The deep waters
mentioned, are cool. How many of us here have swam in a pond? In July,
it may be warm on the surface, but as soon as you jump in from that rope
swing you realize just how cold it really is.
The words of the wise are a blessing, not a curse. They build up and do
not tear down. They are like a flowing river. It is appealing, attractive,
helpful. But the words of the fool are quite the opposite. They are stale,
bitter, and poisonous. I am sure we have all had situations where we have
been around someone who is constantly negative and bitter. Maybe just
flat out mean. Its tough, right? It makes for a dreadful time because of
what is coming out of their mouth. It’s like poison to the soul. That is who
Solomon is talking about.
These words cater to the wicked, verse 5, they stir up controversy unjustly,
verse 6 there, they ruin lives verse 7, and they find their home with others
who gossip like them. Gossip is, in my opinion, a very overlooked, and
even normalized sin within the church. I have found myself guilty at times
even of gossip. And it is one of the most dangerous things that can take
place inside the church.
I can assume most of you have heard the phrase, “Loose lips sink ships,”
right? That is because the gossip of one about another can have a very
harmful impact on that persons life. Solomon tells us here the dangers of
someone who is loose with their speech. We take every thought captive,
yes, but we also do not shoot with the most deadly weapon we have, the
tongue.
It is a dangerous game, because you don’t think it’s gossip if I just tell my
brother, or my sister, or my close friend, because they won’t tell anyone.
But then the fuse is lit and will eventually reach the dynamite before we
can blow it out. We’re all familiar with what dynamite does right? It causes
destruction. We must instead push for building up, not tearing down.
Cutting off gossip before it even reaches our ears, and taking captive our
desire to gossip before it ever passes our lips.
I read this from Robert G. Lee, who was not a general, but rather a pastor
in Memphis Tennessee from 1927-1960, and he came up with the 10
Commandments of Human Relations. And I would like to read them to
you.
1. Speak to people. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of
greeting.
2. Smile at people. It takes seventy two muscles to frown, only four to
smile.
3. Call people by name. The sweetest music to anyones ear is the sound
of ones own name.
4. Be friendly and helpful. If you would have friends, be friendly.
5. Be genuinely interested in people. You can like almost everybody, if you
try. (If you cannot like them, you can still love them through Jesus)
6. Be generous with praise— and cautions with criticism.
7. Be considerate with feelings of others. There are usually three sides to
a controversy: yours, the other person’, and the right one.
8. Be alert to give service. What counts most in life is what we do for
others.
9. Learn to trust people. That trust builds relationships.
10.Have a sense of humor. If you add to the above a good sense of humor,
a big dose of patience, and a dash of humility, you will be rewarded
manifold.
Amen? The hurtful words of another can be a disease within the church.
Hurtful words of a loved one can be a crushing weight for the one who it
was said about, but love and grace, and an I’m sorry can go a long way.
My third and final point is this: A Fool is Lazy concerning Work. Examine
verse 9 with me again. Theodore Roosevelt said, “Far and away the best
prize that life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth doing.”
If you don’t work, you don’t eat is a very common phrase. The reason
being is because that was the reality in many years past. If you didn’t
work, you didn’t have money, which means you did not eat food because
you simply could not buy food.
9Take it back even before then, if you didn’t work, you didn’t eat because
the work was the food. Be it hunting, fishing, planting, or raising cattle, if
you didn’t work at these things, you would starve.
But I want to make some other points here too. The fool is poor in his
performance. A fool being slack in his work means that he is lazy at his
job. He is perfectly fine with doing the bare minimum of what is required of
him. As long as he can maintain the job, then he will do just that to keep it.
Nobody regards this fool as an honest worker, doesn’t care, and will never
be caught giving 110%. Once again, he is just that; a fool. But Colossians
3:23 tells us something quite contrary to the heart of the fool.
“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,”
When this verse is understood and applied, it changes the heart and the
mind about work. Let’s face it, we all dread work at some point or another.
And Genesis 3 told us that we would face the pains of labor, but that
doesn’t mean we must do the bare minimum because of it.
The fool also keeps company with destructive partners. The second part
of verse 9 says that he is a brother to him who destroys. Laziness and
slothfulness are destructive. You wind up selling yourself short when you
try to cut corners at every turn. This is foolish and you are selling yourself
short. Again, to rest is good. That is what today is all about, but when you
are working, work will all you have because it is pleasing to the Lord when
you do it for His glory and His alone. He sees you. He knows your name.
And He sees your hard and diligent work and says, “well done.”
I want to make a few points of application before I close this out, and the
first one is to Seek Wisdom. This entire passage is about the fool and his
behavior. For those of you who have watched the office, think of Dwight
when he says, What would an idiot do, and then I do the opposite of that.
This is that! A poor application analogy, but still it rings true.
These verses are warnings for our life here as followers of Jesus Christ. We remove
gossip from our hearts, we remove slander from our lips, and we remove
laziness from our lives. But that begs the question, how do we seek
wisdom? Well my first encouragement would be to read the rest of this
book of Proverbs, as the word “proverb” translates to “a short pithy saying
in general use, stating a general truth or piece of advice.”
Read the rest of this book, and read the rest of the Bible too. You will never regret reading
the Bible. Even in times where you do not want to read it, the best thing
you can do in that moment is sit down, pray to your Heavenly Father and
ask Him to give you understanding for the Words He has given you in the
Bible. The fool waltzes through this life standing in the middle of the road
with his eyes covered like this. His thought is that since he hasn’t been hit
there must be no cars, but the wise person knows that there is a car
coming because his eyes have been opened to see the car coming. Keep
your eyes on Jesus if He has so graciously opened them up to you.
The Second point of application would be to Serve Others. My father-in-
law is one of the wisest men I know, and it is because he has spent the
last 3 decades or more waking up, seeking the wisdom of the Lord, and
letting it flow from his mind down into his heart. He told me something that
has stuck with me for the last 5 years. Relationships are not about you.
Now let me explain that. Relationships, of any kind, are a gift from the
Lord. Be it a marriage, your family, your children, your friends, or a church
family, seek to serve and make it about the other person. Because if both
parties do this, then it makes for a beautiful unity.
My third point would be Avoid Destruction, Seek Construction. We both
know what these words mean, and I mean them in such a way too. Do not
seek to tear others down for your own gain, nor for the gain of anything.
Speak truth in love, but do not be a gossip just because you don’t like
someone and want others to share that same feeling with you. That is
destructive behavior and leads to a long and lonely life. Rather, seek
construction. Seek to build others up with words that build up. Ephesians
4:29 says, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such
as its good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to
those who hear.”
Pray with me.