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COUPLES FOR CHRIST
UNIT LEADERS TRAINING

TALK No. 11 : UNITY AMONG BRETHREN

Expanded Outline
A. Introduction.
1. The CFC vision is global evangelization and renewal.
a) It will be demanding work, requiring mobilization of tremendous resources.
b) There is a need for unity.
* In vision, mission and culture.
* As brethren loving one another.
2. Jesus' final prayer was for unity. Jn 17:11,20‑21.
John 17:11 (NRSV)
And now I am no longer in the world, but they are in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, protect them in your name that you have given me, so that they may be one, as we are one.
STILL IN THE WORLD
We, like Jesus’ original disciples, still live in the world. What is “the world”? It is a system of values typified by Satan himself, centered on power, deceit, and self-will. While we’re in the world, Satan wants to neutralize or destroy us. In 1 John 2:16, John explains that “the world” is the cravings of sinful human beings, the lusting of the eyes, and the boasting of what one has and does. As Christ’s disciples today, we are on a collision course with the world’s values. We need God’s protection more than ever because it is so easy for us to emulate the world’s character.
The fact that we are in the world does not grant us license to become of the world. We must not betray Jesus by loving the world. We must recognize and resist the pervasive attractions presented to us through advertising, self-help psychology, public opinion polls, and charismatic public figures. We must be sure that we allow Christ—not the media and the world around us—to define who we are.
Bruce B. Barton, John, Life Application Bible Commentary (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House, 1993), 340.
John 17:20–21 NIV
“My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.
John Jesus Prays for Future Believers / 17:20–26 / 221

BECOMING ONE

Jesus’ great desire for his disciples was that they would become one. He wanted them unified as a powerful witness to the reality of God’s love. Unity between believers is not often mentioned as the catalyst for someone becoming a Christian.

However, Christian unity does provide an environment for the gospel message to make its clearest impact, and lack of unity among Christians frequently drives people away. Are you helping to unify the body of Christ, the church? You can pray for other Christians, avoid gossip, build others up, work together in humility, give your time and money, exalt Christ, and refuse to get sidetracked by arguing over divisive matters.

a) The world will believe by witnessing the unity and love for one another of Christians.
b) It is unity for mission which sill result in more be­lievers in the world.
3. If we are not united, we cannot stand. Mk 3:25. Lk 11:17.
Mark 3:25 NIV
If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.
Luke 11:17 NIV
Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them: “Any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fall.
B. Elements of unity.
1. Understand the reality of our situation.
a) We are one family. We are brothers and sisters in Christ.
* We are united not just by the blood of parents, but by the blood of Christ shed on the cross.
b) We have one vision and one mission.
* Rapid, massive and global evangelization.
* Wholistic family ministries.
* Renewal of the Church.
c) We are one army.
* Our commander‑in‑chief is Jesus.
* Our mission is to win the world for Him.
2. Have loyalty to one another.
a) We have a special relationship. We need to stand up for one another.
b) If there are problems, we can handle them in an orderly and mutually respectful manner.
* There should be no backbiting or slander.
* We should not resort to boycott, signature campaigns, and the like.
* We should always defer and be subordinate to the leadership.
c) Always remember that the enemy is not each other, but the devil!
3. Do not grumble. Jas 5:9.
James 5:9 NIV
Don’t grumble against one another, brothers and sisters, or you will be judged. The Judge is standing at the door!
a) Unlike the Israelites.

5:9. James called for the believers to stop groaning lest they be judged, because Jesus the Judge is standing at the door! In view of the hope of Christ’s soon return, believers should cease the petty conflicts to which James alluded in chapter 4. As children in a school classroom look out for their teacher’s soon return, God’s children should be on guard for Christ’s return. In so doing, good behavior and mutual harmony are essential.

James Patience in Suffering / 5:7–12

5:9 Do not grumble against one another. These believers, facing persecution from the outside and problems on the inside, may naturally find themselves grumbling and criticizing one another. James doesn’t want them to be filled with resentment and bitterness toward each other—that would only destroy the unity they so desperately need. Refraining from grumbling is part of what it means to be patient (5:7).

James combines the highest standard of expected behavior with a true understanding of how people often behave. Each time he focuses on a significant pattern of behavior, he almost immediately turns to a human reaction that will undermine the process if it is not confronted. In a similar passage (4:11), James follows his appeal about the importance of submitting to God with a warning about brothers slandering one another. Here he turns from the importance of patience to the danger of grumbling. Is it not profoundly human to avoid facing a weakness in ourselves by pointing to the same weakness in others? In this case, people who are struggling with their lack of patience can always find an example or two of someone who is even less patient than they are! But blaming others instead of facing our sins leaves us open to the judgment of God.

b) We should appreciate the good things that we have in CFC. We do not focus on the negatives.
* Certainly none of us are perfect, and many, including leaders, make mistakes.
* But the good far outweighs the bad.
c) Whenever there is difficulty, we should turn to mercy and not judgment.
* Not have a critical spirit.
d) If corrected or our preferences are not followed, we should not sulk or be onion‑ skinned.
4. We should avoid divisions in the body, in the form of:
a) Factionalism. 1 Cor 1:10‑13.
1 Corinthians 1:10–13 NIV
I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought. My brothers and sisters, some from Chloe’s household have informed me that there are quarrels among you. What I mean is this: One of you says, “I follow Paul”; another, “I follow Apollos”; another, “I follow Cephas”; still another, “I follow Christ.” Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Were you baptized in the name of Paul?
1 & 2 Corinthians (Paul Appeals for Harmony / 1:10–17)
TIME-OUT!
Like a frustrated coach watching his team bicker on the court, Paul called for a time-out. He saw the danger of divisions and arguments. The Corinthian believers’ lack of unity was obvious. They may have been playing in the same “uniform,” but they were doing as much as the opposition to bring about their own defeat. The problems weren’t so much differences of opinion as divided allegiances. They were arguing over which position on the team was most important in a way that made them ineffective as a unit. They were on the field, but out of the game.
Divisions between Christians work like brick walls and barbed-wire fences to undermine the effectiveness of the message that believers are to proclaim. Focus on your coach, Jesus Christ, and the purpose he has for you. Strive for harmony. Keep arguments about allegiances off the team.
1 & 2 Corinthians Paul Appeals for Harmony / 1:10–17

Paul simply told the Corinthian believers to stop arguing. Paul had heard about these arguments through some members in the church (1:11). The arguments were between factions or divisions that had developed in the church itself, with various believers aligning themselves behind various teachers (1:12–13). Thus, Paul here was pleading with the believers to let there be real harmony and for them to be of one mind, united in thought and purpose. To be perfectly united does not mean that Paul required everyone to be exactly the same. Instead, he wanted them to set aside their arguments and focus on what truly mattered—Jesus Christ as Lord and their mission to take the light of the gospel into a dark world. The internal divisions would only cause strife and hinder the gospel, as well as make the church look ridiculous to those outside

* Our loyalty is first to the Lord, then to CFC, then to our leaders. Of course, it should not be one as against the others; we should be loyal to all three. But in case of conflict, this is our hierarchy of loyalty.
b) Rivalry. Phil 2:3‑4.
Philippians 2:3–4 NIV
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
Philippians, Colossians & Philemon Unity Through Humility / 1:27–2:11

Members in the Philippian church were causing discord by their attitudes or actions. They desired recognition or distinction, not from pure motives, but merely from selfish ambition (see also 1:17). They were creating factions based on personal prestige, drawing away members and creating parties. Their conceit, that is, their excessively favorable opinion of themselves or their abilities, caused them to place themselves above others. They were conceited about their own opinions, without reason or basis. When a group of such people gets together, looking down on everyone else for one reason or another, factions form and divisions occur. The result is an absence of any encouragement, comfort, fellowship in the Spirit, or tenderness and compassion (2:1). Those kind of people cannot work with others in the church in like-mindedness and love (2:2). When people are conceited and selfishly ambitious, they ruin a church’s unity. We should not tolerate arrogant leaders who are willing to split a church into factions in order to gain power and followers.

Philippians, Colossians & Philemon Unity Through Humility / 1:27–2:11

LASTING IMPRESSIONS

Many people—even Christians—live only to make a good impression on others or to please themselves. But self-centered living, selfish ambition, or conceit brings discord. Paul therefore stressed spiritual unity, asking the Philippians to love one another and to be one in spirit and purpose. When we work together, caring for the problems of others as if they were our problems, we demonstrate Christ’s example of putting others first, and we experience unity. Don’t be so concerned about making a good impression or meeting your own needs that you strain relationships in God’s family. Let the Spirit of God work through you to attract others to himself.

Philippians, Colossians & Philemon Unity Through Humility / 1:27–2:11

Where there is charity and wisdom, there is neither fear nor ignorance. Where there is patience and humility, there is no greed.

St. Francis of Assisi

Philippians, Colossians & Philemon Unity Through Humility / 1:27–2:11

While selfish ambition and conceit can ruin unity, genuine humility can build it. Being humble involves having a true perspective about ourselves in relation to God (see Romans 12:3), which in turn gives us a correct perspective on our relationships with others. Being humble does not mean that we should put ourselves down, tell everyone how bad we are at everything, and refuse to acknowledge any good in ourselves. Instead, humility is a healthy respect for who God is, and then a healthy respect for ourselves because of what God did on our behalf. We are sinners, saved only by God’s grace, but we are saved and therefore have great worth in God’s kingdom. We are to lay aside selfishness and treat others with respect and common courtesy.

Regarding others as better than ourselves means that we are aware of our own failings and are thus willing to accept failings in others without looking down on them. It means that we can look for and point out the good in others, rather than just looking for and pointing out our own good qualities. It also means that we consider others’ interests as more important than our own. This selfless attitude links us with Christ, who was a true example of humility. It is the very opposite of conceit and selfish ambition, and it allows believers to work together, to have tenderness and compassion, and to have the attitude and love of Christ Jesus himself.

* We do not compete with each other (who has the bigger CLP, better music, etc.). We are all part of the same team.
c) Envy.
* We are all in this together.
* Rom 12:15.
Romans 12:15–16 NIV
Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
Romans Overcome Evil with Good / 12:9-21

BE WILLING TO ASSOCIATE

Many people use their contacts and relationships for selfish ambition. They select those people who will help them climb the social ladder. Christ demonstrated and taught that we should treat all people with respect—those of a different race, the handicapped, the poor, young and old, male and female. We must never consider others as being beneath ourselves. Are we able to do humble tasks with others? Do we welcome conversation with unattractive, nonprestigious people? Are we willing to befriend newcomers and entry-level people? Or do we relate only to those who will help us get ahead?

12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice. Believers need to be able to empathize with others—to join in with the feelings of others as if we were experiencing it ourselves. Christians should rejoice with others, with no hint of jealousy; and they should mourn with those who mourn (NIV), offering kindness, concern, compassion, and a shoulder to cry on if needed. The believers needed to have this as they dealt with the ups and downs of daily life in their surroundings.
Following Jesus will mean that believers will pass through a kaleidoscope of experiences in life. Christianity is neither denying life’s hardships, nor dulling life’s excitements. Our perspective of eternity in Christ can free us to enter into the full variety of living. Both laughter and tears are appropriate before God. Each has an important place in representing our feelings. Identifying with the joys and heartaches of others is also an important way to show them our love.
12:16 Live in harmony. In order to live in harmony with others, and especially with fellow believers, we cannot be proud (NIV). Instead, we are to be willing to associate with people of low position. In other words, do not be conceited, for then empathy and harmony are impossible. James leveled a scathing indictment on believers who were practicing favoritism and elitism in the church (James 2:1–9). People of low position are only identified as such by the world’s standards. Christ thought they were worth dying for, and so we can associate with them.
Bruce B. Barton, David Veerman, and Neil S. Wilson, Romans, Life Application Bible Commentary (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 1992), 241–242.
d) Dissension. Lk 11:17.
Luke 11:17 (NIV)
Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them: “Any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fall.
* It is important to be submitted to the leadership.
The unity for which Jesus prayed is a unity patterned on the unity of the Father and the Son. That is, it is a unity of mind, will, love, and purpose.
James Montgomery Boice
There is no contradiction between mutual submission and a relationship of leadership and response. Mutual submission doesn’t mean that both partners must submit in exactly the same ways. Christ submitted himself to the church in one way, by a kind of servant-leadership that cost him his life. And the church submits herself to Christ in another way by honoring his leadership and following him on the Calvary road.
John Piper
* We must be ready to subordinate our preferences for the sake of unity and the overall good.
* We can give inputs and suggestions, or even disagree, but all these should be done with respect and a sub­missive spirit.
Gal 5:19‑21.
Galatians 5:19–21 NIV
The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:26–6:1 (NIV)
Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.
Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.
a) The above divisive elements are works of the flesh!
* If so, we will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
b) Much less can we promote the Kingdom. Our mission would be doomed to failure.
5. Be a servant.
a) As Christ's servants, we have no rights.
* We have no right to insist on our own way, to the point of disunity and disharmony.
b) This is crucial especially for leaders.
* We do not have turfs, nor build our own kingdoms.
* We serve in whatever capacity, according to the dis­cernment of our elders.
C. Conclusion.
1. Phil 1:27.
Philippians 1:27 NIV
Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one for the faith of the gospel
Philippians 1:27–28 NIV
Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one for the faith of the gospel without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you. This is a sign to them that they will be destroyed, but that you will be saved—and that by God.
a) We need to stand united, for the internal strength of our community, and for the external power of our mis­sion.
b) We should foster this spirit with or without the direct pastoral oversight of our elders.
* As we grow into one worldwide community, each member needs to take individual responsibility for his own life in CFC. As every member does this, then we will have strength in unity.
Colossians 1:10–12 NIV
so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light.
Philippians, Colossians & Philemon Unity Through Humility / 1:27–2:11

And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and

• may please him in every way

• bearing fruit in every good work

• growing in the knowledge of God

• being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might

• so that you may have great endurance and patience

• and joyfully giving thanks to the Father

who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light (Colossians 1:10–12).

2. Let us reflect in CFC the intimate unity of the Trinity.
The unity for which Jesus prayed is a unity patterned on the unity of the Father and the Son. That is, it is a unity of mind, will, love, and purpose.
James Montgomery Boice
Paul is then not just listing gifts; he is exhorting each member of the community to use his or her own gift diligently and faithfully to strengthen the body’s unity and help it to flourish.
Douglas J. Moo
Unity and diversity must work together or one will destroy the other. Unity without diversity is uniformity, but diversity without unity is anarchy.
bio.warrenwiersbe
Unity among disciples is unity for the sake of mission.
Colin G. Kruse
10. The parallel with the Trinity: The equality, differences, and unity between men and women reflect the equality, differences, and unity in the Trinity.
bio.waynegrudem
Unity does not mean uniformity; it means cooperation in the midst of diversity.
bio.warrenwiersbe
The unity prayed for is a unity already given: Jesus does not pray that they may “become” one, but that they may “continually be” one.
Leon Lamb Morris
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