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Help I’m Married to Some ones Babies daddy
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20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
Can Some Of You In your own Words Define What is a Wife
Can Some of you in your Own words define a babies mother/ children’s Mother Etc.
What could possibly be the conflict if a Husband Mistakenly finds a babies mother and not a Wife?
22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
22 When a man finds a wife, he has found a treasure! For she is the gift of God to bring him joy and pleasure. But the one who divorces a good woman loses what is good from his house. To choose an adulteress is both stupid and ungodly.
22 Find a wife and you find a good thing; it shows that the Lord is good to you.
The Original Order Of God:
Male/Boy
Male/Man-Worker
Male/Husband-Covering, Protector, Provider, Disciplinary
Male/Father: the head of the household, name giver, head intercessor, Priest & Prophet
Female/Girl
Female/Women-worker
Female/Wife-With Helpmate
Female/Mother - Nurturer, Comforter, Teacher, leader, Intercessor, enforcer
Got Questions? Bible Questions Answered (Why Did God Use Adam’s Rib to Create Eve?)
Why Did God Use Adam’s Rib to Create Eve?
Genesis 2:18–24 tells the well-known account of how God created the first woman, Eve, by removing part of Adam’s body and fashioning it into the woman. Many Bible scholars have translated the passages to indicate that God used Adam’s rib to create woman instead of making her from the dirt of the land, as He did for Adam. The question also arises as to why God created woman out of Adam’s rib as He did, when He apparently had formed male and female animals individually.
God used part of the male to form the female to show that they were actually the same created being, two halves of a whole. The female was not created as a separate being, second to the male. She was formed as part of the initial man, in order to be a “helpmate” for the male. Eve was brought into being to strengthen and powerfully help the male, but she was made from the same “stuff,” and she was every bit as perfect a creation as man and every bit as patterned after God’s image and likeness.
The word translated “helpmate” is not synonymous with assistant, servant, minion or subordinate. The Hebrew phrase, azer k’negdo in all other instances in the Bible refers to powerful and extensive aid and support. In most cases, the phrase was used to depict dominant military forces or armed men. Other Scriptures, including Deuteronomy 33:7, 29 and Exodus 18:4, use the same phrase to discuss the potent interventions and deliverances of God Himself. Woman, therefore, was created as a complement to man, as an integral part of man, and as a powerful and influential companion for man, on an equal footing with him.
azer k’negdo
7 And this is the blessing of Judah: and he said, Hear, LORD, the voice of Judah, and bring him unto his people: let his hands be sufficient for him; and be thou an help to him from his enemies.
29 Happy art thou, O Israel: who is like unto thee, O people saved by the LORD, the shield of thy help, and who is the sword of thy excellency! and thine enemies shall be found liars unto thee; and thou shalt tread upon their high places.
4 And the name of the other was Eliezer; for the God of my father, said he, was mine help, and delivered me from the sword of Pharaoh:
Furthermore, the Hebrew word translated “suitable,” K’negdo, carries much more meaning than simply “suitable” or “appropriate.” This word also means “opposite or contrasting.” This implies that the two beings were designed to work and fit together perfectly, not just physically but in all ways. The strengths of each compensated for the weaknesses of the other. Together, they became something far stronger and more magnificent than either of them was alone.
Why did God use a rib? A closer examination of the Hebrew also reveals another surprising element of the story.
The Hebrew word translated “rib” in Genesis 2 is tsela.
The only other instance of the English word rib in the Bible occurs in Daniel 7:5
5 And behold another beast, a second, like to a bear, and it raised up itself on one side, and it had three ribs in the mouth of it between the teeth of it: and they said thus unto it, Arise, devour much flesh.
but the Hebrew word used there is different. In other passages where tsela or its variants are used, the word has been translated “side.”
For example, in Exodus 25, 27 and Exodus 35
the words tselo (variant) and tselot (plural) are used to refer to the sides of the Ark of the Covenant or the sides of the altar. Jeremiah 20:10 refers to “fear on every side.” In 2 Samuel 16:13, David encounters a cursing Shimei moving along the side of a hill.
In all of these contexts, translating the word tsela as “rib” would not fit.
This raises the possibility that, in the Genesis 2 passage, tsela should actually be translated as Adam’s “side,” rather than his “rib.”
If the appropriate translation is that God removed Adam’s side, how much of his side did God remove? It is quite possible that Eve was constructed literally from half of Adam. This brings new meaning to Adam’s declaration that Eve was “bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.” She was more than just his bone. She was out of his flesh and bone.
God created Eve in the way that He did to show that woman has equal status in creation to man and was created to complement and in some ways complete man in the integral union of marriage. Woman was created to be “beside” man, not beneath or above him. This does not speak to the roles of male and female in the home or church, however, but to equality of status in the kingdom of God. Man is no more “worthy” of salvation, and woman is no less a citizen of God’s kingdom. They stand side-by-side in the eyes of God.
But Here Comes The Confusion And The Problem: Gods intent was for man to be with One Women and a Women to be with One Man.
16 Aren’t you aware of the fact that when anyone sleeps with a prostitute he becomes a part of her, and she becomes a part of him? For it has been declared: The two become a single body.
whATS YOUR INTERPATATION TO THIS TEXT?
So this means, we possibly have people married to one person legally and married to another legally in the Spirit/flesh realm.
Is it possible to have taken the keys to your house from your baby momma but you couldn’t take the key to your hart from your baby moms?
Hint/Clue: any person that can cause your emotional thermostat to change has a key…
I wonder how many sisters should have waited to say I do, and made sure they got a spiritual divorce from there babies daddy..✌
last Question 2 questions: Do you struggle with Putting your Husband before your Kids or you Your Mom & dad or Siblings?
Who Has the Last Word In Your Home?