Growing Where You’re Planted

Overcoming Jealousy

For something to grow there has to be prime ingredients/ factors for optimal growth.

A plant needs a few things:

air

light

warmth

nutrients

for us to grow where we are planted there are a few things we must do as well.

The first one is to overcome jealousy.

Jealousy ultimately stems from comparison.

Comparison is poison for the soul.

Comparison, led to the death of the great mufasa.

As we look at the story of Joseph, it starts out with jealousy. His brother’s were jealous of him.

Genesis 37:11–35 NIV

His brothers were jealous of him, but his father kept the matter in mind. Now his brothers had gone to graze their father’s flocks near Shechem, and Israel said to Joseph, “As you know, your brothers are grazing the flocks near Shechem. Come, I am going to send you to them.” “Very well,” he replied. So he said to him, “Go and see if all is well with your brothers and with the flocks, and bring word back to me.” Then he sent him off from the Valley of Hebron. When Joseph arrived at Shechem, a man found him wandering around in the fields and asked him, “What are you looking for?” He replied, “I’m looking for my brothers. Can you tell me where they are grazing their flocks?” “They have moved on from here,” the man answered. “I heard them say, ‘Let’s go to Dothan.’ ” So Joseph went after his brothers and found them near Dothan. But they saw him in the distance, and before he reached them, they plotted to kill him. “Here comes that dreamer!” they said to each other. “Come now, let’s kill him and throw him into one of these cisterns and say that a ferocious animal devoured him. Then we’ll see what comes of his dreams.” When Reuben heard this, he tried to rescue him from their hands. “Let’s not take his life,” he said. “Don’t shed any blood. Throw him into this cistern here in the wilderness, but don’t lay a hand on him.” Reuben said this to rescue him from them and take him back to his father. So when Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped him of his robe—the ornate robe he was wearing—and they took him and threw him into the cistern. The cistern was empty; there was no water in it. As they sat down to eat their meal, they looked up and saw a caravan of Ishmaelites coming from Gilead. Their camels were loaded with spices, balm and myrrh, and they were on their way to take them down to Egypt. Judah said to his brothers, “What will we gain if we kill our brother and cover up his blood? Come, let’s sell him to the Ishmaelites and not lay our hands on him; after all, he is our brother, our own flesh and blood.” His brothers agreed. So when the Midianite merchants came by, his brothers pulled Joseph up out of the cistern and sold him for twenty shekels of silver to the Ishmaelites, who took him to Egypt. When Reuben returned to the cistern and saw that Joseph was not there, he tore his clothes. He went back to his brothers and said, “The boy isn’t there! Where can I turn now?” Then they got Joseph’s robe, slaughtered a goat and dipped the robe in the blood. They took the ornate robe back to their father and said, “We found this. Examine it to see whether it is your son’s robe.” He recognized it and said, “It is my son’s robe! Some ferocious animal has devoured him. Joseph has surely been torn to pieces.” Then Jacob tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and mourned for his son many days. All his sons and daughters came to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. “No,” he said, “I will continue to mourn until I join my son in the grave.” So his father wept for him.

A few things we learn about jealous is this:

Destructiveness of jealousy

The destruction of jealousy led to his brother’s throwing Joseph in the pit.

Our jealousy leads us to throw our friend’s into the pit.

How do we throw our friends into the “pit”?

not celebrating their success

spreading false information about them

talking bad about them behind their backs

kicking them when they’re down

2. Consequences of jealousy

The consequences were Jospeh went into slavery.

For his brother’s they lived with guilt and shame

What are the consequences for our jealousy?

bitterness

friendships lost

Don’t allow the small things to interrupt the important things

3. Delay due to jealousy

The delay…

they didn’t reconcile with their brother until later on in life.