Men of Integrity

Session 1: Identity in Christ

· Introduction: ‘Identity in Christ.’ I want us to begin by reflecting on a powerful truth that can transform how we live our lives every single day—our identity in Christ. Who are we? Not just in the eyes of the world, but in the eyes of the One who created us."

· Scriptural Foundation: "Let’s start with Ephesians 2:10, where the Apostle Paul reminds us,

Ephesians 2:10 ESV

10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

Brothers, this verse tells us that we are not accidents, not products of chance, but intentional creations of a loving God who has a purpose for each of our lives."

Similarly, in 1 Peter 2:9, we read,

1 Peter 2:9 ESV

9 But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

We are chosen, set apart, and given a mission to declare the goodness of God."

· Illustration: "Think of a master craftsman. When he designs something, it’s not random. Every detail is considered, every tool is carefully selected. Just as a potter molds clay with purpose and vision, so God has shaped each of us with a specific purpose in mind."

· Application: "So, what does this mean for us practically? It means we should walk with the confidence that comes from knowing we are deeply loved and intricately designed by God. I want to encourage each of you to develop daily affirmations based on these truths. For example, you might say, 'I am God’s masterpiece, created with purpose,' or 'I am chosen and beloved by God.' These affirmations are not just positive thinking; they are rooted in the unchanging truth of Scripture."

Interactive Discussion: "Now, let’s take a few moments to discuss. How does understanding your identity in Christ impact the way you approach your daily life? How does it influence your decisions, your interactions with others, and your sense of purpose? I’d love to hear some thoughts." (Allow time for responses.)

· "Thank you for sharing, brothers. Let’s remember, our identity in Christ isn’t just something we understand intellectually—it’s something we live out every day. It changes how we see ourselves and how we engage with the world around us."

· Conclusion: "Let’s close this session by asking God to help us fully embrace our identity in Him and to live out the purpose He has for us. (Lead in a short prayer.)"

Session 2: Integrity in Action

· Introduction: "Welcome back, brothers. In this session, we’re going to talk about ‘Integrity in Action.’ Integrity is one of those words that we all know is important, but what does it really look like when we live it out day by day?"

· Scriptural Foundation: "Let’s look at Proverbs 11:3,

Proverbs 11:3 ESV

3 The integrity of the upright guides them, but the crookedness of the treacherous destroys them.

Integrity is like a compass that guides us, keeping us on the right path even when it’s difficult. It’s what keeps us aligned with God’s will, regardless of the circumstances."

· "And in Titus 2:7-8, Paul writes,

Titus 2:7–8 ESV

7 Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8 and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us.

Here, integrity is connected to our example—how we live before others, especially those who are watching us."

· Illustration: "Imagine a compass. No matter where you are or how lost you might feel, a compass will always point you to true north. That’s what integrity does for us—it points us to God’s truth and keeps us grounded, no matter what pressures we face."

· Application: "So, how do we maintain integrity in our everyday lives? It starts with being honest with ourselves and others. It means making the right choice, even when it’s hard or when no one else is watching. But let’s be real—it’s not always easy. We all face situations where our integrity is tested."

· "Think about a recent time when your integrity was challenged. Maybe it was at work, at home, or even in your private thoughts. How did you respond? What could you have done differently if faced with the same situation again?"

· Interactive Activity: "I want us to break into small groups and share a scenario where our integrity was tested. After sharing, let’s discuss how we could apply God’s wisdom to that situation. Remember, this is a safe space—what’s shared here stays here. Let’s learn from each other." (Allow time for group discussion and then bring everyone back together.)

· Conclusion: "As we wrap up, I want to challenge each of you to identify two areas in your life where you want to strengthen your integrity. Write down one practical step you can take in each area and commit to that action this week. Let’s pray for the courage and strength to live lives of integrity. (Lead in a short prayer.)"

Session 3: Leadership in the Home and Community

· Introduction: "Brothers, we’re now moving into a crucial topic—‘Leadership in the Home and Community.’ As men, God has placed us in positions of leadership, whether we realize it or not. Whether it’s in our homes, our workplaces, or our communities, we are called to lead."

· Scriptural Foundation: "Let’s begin with Joshua 24:15,

Joshua 24:15 ESV

15 And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Leadership starts at home. It’s about making a commitment to serve the Lord and to lead our families in doing the same."

· "Paul also gives us a blueprint for leadership in 1 Timothy 3:1-7, where he outlines the qualities of an overseer. These qualities include being above reproach, faithful, self-controlled, and hospitable. This isn’t just for church leaders—it’s a model for all of us who are called to lead."

1 Timothy 3:1–7 ESV

1 The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2 Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. 7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.

· Illustration: "Think of leadership like being the captain of a ship. The captain is responsible for the direction and safety of the ship and its crew. Similarly, as leaders, we are responsible for guiding our families and communities toward God’s purposes."

· Application: "I want to ask you, how would you describe your leadership style in the home? Are you leading with love, humility, and strength? What areas do you feel need improvement? Take a moment to reflect on this."

· "Now, think about your role in the community. How are you influencing those around you? What can you do to be a more effective godly leader?"

· Interactive Activity: "Let’s take some time to develop a personal leadership plan. Write down one goal for improving your leadership at home and one for your community involvement. After you’ve done that, pair up with someone and share your goals.

Let’s hold each other accountable to these commitments."

(Allow time for reflection and discussion.)

· Conclusion: "As we close this session, let’s remember that leadership is not about having all the answers—it’s about being faithful to God’s call and serving those He has placed under our care. Let’s pray for the wisdom and courage to lead well. (Lead in a short prayer.)"

Session 4: Building Lasting Relationships

· Introduction: "Brothers, as we enter our final session, ‘Building Lasting Relationships,’ I want to focus on something that is essential for our growth as men of God—brotherhood and mentorship. We’re not meant to walk this journey alone."

· Scriptural Foundation: "Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 tells us,

Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 ESV

9 Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. 10 For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! 11 Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? 12 And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

This passage reminds us of the power of community and the importance of having others to support us."

· "Proverbs 27:17 says,

Proverbs 27:17 ESV

17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.

This is what true friendship and mentorship look like—helping each other grow stronger in the Lord."

· Illustration: "Imagine a blacksmith working with iron. To sharpen a tool, he needs both heat and friction. In the same way, our relationships with other men involve challenges and accountability that help us grow and become more effective in our walk with God."

· Application: "Who are the key people in your life who help you grow spiritually? How can you deepen those relationships? Take a moment to reflect on this."

· "Now, think about mentorship. Who could you mentor, and who could you seek out as a mentor? These relationships are crucial for our spiritual growth and for building a strong community of men who support each other."

· Interactive Activity: "Let’s take some time to identify one person you can mentor and one person you can seek out for mentorship. Write down how you will initiate these relationships.

Then, let’s share in small groups how we plan to build and maintain these connections." (Allow time for reflection and group sharing.)

Conclusion: "As we conclude this session, I want to challenge you to be intentional about building and nurturing these relationships. It’s through these connections that we will grow stronger and more resilient in our faith. Let’s close in prayer, asking God to guide us in our relationships with one another. (Lead in a short prayer.)"