Love & Respect
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Cost of Assumptions- The Love She most Desire and The Respect He desperately Needs.
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All you need is love is Myth… five out of ten marriages today are ending in divorce becuase love alone is not enough .Yes love is vital , especially for the wife , but what we have missed is the husbdand need for respect.
Do you want peace, better marriage etc try ..LOVE & RESPECT LESS of Assumptions
The Crazy Cycle
HE REACTS
Without LOVE
SHE REACTS
Without Respect.
The Major complaint i heard from wives is always - He Doesn’t love me, wifes are made for love , want to love and expect love. .. The other side of the story but many men are not saying it much , but thinking it and bottling up .. She doesn’t respect me . Husband are made to be respected , want respect and expect respect.
So this is the cycle ..
Without love from him , she reacts without respect ; without respect from her , he reacts without love — The Crazy Cycle .
How We get on the Cycle .
The Simple Secret to a Better Marriage .
Women — How can i get my husdand to love me as much a i do,
Parent trummer -
Making Family and Fanciancal Decision , mordern world problem. the marriage dynamic as change from our fathers.
Men as Hunters and Women as Keepers - Olowo orimi .
Family getting into argument practically over nothing .. Feeling Judge cost of assumptions .
28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
Lol …
28 But there’s certainly no sin in getting married, whether you’re a virgin or not. All I am saying is that when you marry, you take on additional stress in an already stressful time, and I want to spare you if possible.
So Marriage is WORK , load of things to overcome.
Reaction to life situation.
Communication difference - You can be right but wrong at the TOP of your Voice.
Life & Situation Expression — You are complete different pple.
15 Catch us the foxes,
The little foxes that spoil the vines,
For our vines have tender grapes.
The problem with life is that its daily and you can decided to deal with it or irritatate each other .
Tension has a way of tearing down your self-image.
The God Cycle ..
33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Love & Respect connection is the key to any problem in marriage.
When a husband feels disrespected , it is especially hard to love his wife , when a wife feels unloved , it is espcially hard to respect her husband .
25 I applied my heart to know,
To search and seek out wisdom and the reason of things,
To know the wickedness of folly,
Even of foolishness and madness.
Important
1 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.
You must acted upon by FAITH !!!.
To Communicate Decipher THE CODE!!!
People communicate in codes, and you must learn to dispher this code to mainteined the cycle of Love and Respect . !!!
Angry Exchanges are caused when husband appears careless, depriving his wife of Love and when the wife reacts with critiscim and complaints that are vehement , depriving the husband of respect.
ALL YOU WANT ME FOR IS SEX !!
Conflict of Expectation and Issue. Women are from MARs , MEN from Pluto.
CRAZINESS - JUST KEEP FLIPPING THE LIGHT SWITCH ..
3 This is an evil in all that is done under the sun: that one thing happens to all. Truly the hearts of the sons of men are full of evil; madness is in their hearts while they live, and after that they go to the dead.
Craziness happens when we keep doing the same thing over and over with the same ill effects.
WHY DO COUPLES COMMUNICATE IN CODE.
WHEN THE ISSUE ISN”T THE ISSUE.
WE’RE as different as pin and Blue.
4 And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’
7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
13 At the beginning their words are folly;
at the end they are wicked madness—
2 Fools care nothing for thoughtful discourse;
all they do is run off at the mouth.