ပှၤခံဂၤအတၢ်လိၣ်ဘၣ်
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ကလီးစဲ ၃း၁၈-၁၉
ပိာ်မုၣ်သ့ၣ်ဧၢ, ပာ်သုသးလၢသု၀ၤအဖီလာ်, ဒ်အဂ့ၤအၣ်ဘၣ်လၢကစၢ်အပူၤတက့ၢ်.
ပိာ်ခွါသ့ၣ်ဧၢ, အဲၣ်သုမါတက့ၢ်. ဒီးသုတပာ်ဒူသုသးလၢအလိၤတဂ့ၤ
ပှၤကညီန့ၣ် ဖဲ အအိၣ်တဂၤအခါ န့ၣ် တၢ်သဘျ့သ့ၣ် တဖၣ်အိၣ် ဒီး အ ၀ဲသ့ၣ် အလၢ အ ပှဲၤလီၤ. ကဘၣ်သးမၤမနုၤလဲၣ်? ကဘၣ်သးလဲၤဖဲလဲၣ်? ကဘၣ်သးဟးလၢအဆၢကတီၢ်ဖဲလဲၣ် န့ၣ် တၢ်သဘျ့သ့ၣ်တဖၣ်အိၣ်ဒီးအီၤအလၢအပှဲၤလီၤ, ဘၣ်ဆၣ် တကတီၢ်ခါဖဲ အ၀ဲသ့ၣ် ထီၣ်ပှၢ်အကတီၢ်လံန့ၣ် တၢ်ခွဲးတၢ်ယာ် တၢ်သဘျ့တနီၤနီၤကလီၤမၢ်ကွံာ်၀ဲဒၣ်လီၤ.
ပှၤအိၣ်၀ဲတဂၤ ဖဲအနီၢ်ဆံးဒံး ဒီးတုၤလီၤလၢသးစၢ်အဆၢကတီၢ်န့ၣ် မ့ၢ်ပှၤတဂၤလၢအလိၣ်ကွဲဆူၣ် မး, မ့ၢ် ဂဲၤလိၣ်ကွဲန့ၣ် တကွၢ်မုၢ်ကွၢ်လါဘၣ်. မ့ၢ်ဘၣ်ဃးလၢ တၢ်လိၣ်ခိၣ်လိၣ်ကွဲန့ၣ် အ မ့ၢ် ပှၤတဂၤလၢအဟ့ၣ်လီၤသးလၢလၢာ်ဆ့ဆ့လီၤ. ဖဲအသးဖိန့ၢ်ထီၣ် အဆၢအတီၢ် ဒီး အ၀ဲဖျီအသး ဒီး ပှၤလၢအအဲၣ် ၀ဲ တဂၤလီၤ.
အဖျီသး၀ံၤသနာ်က့ အ၀ဲအိၣ်မူ၀ဲဒ်သိးအဖိၣ်သၣ်ခွါ အဆၢကတီၢ်လီၤ. အမါ တဲအီၤ ယ၀ၤဧၢ မၤစှၤလီၤ န တၢ်ဂဲၤလိၣ်ခိၣ်လိၣ်ကွဲတစဲးမီၤ. အ၀ဲတကနၣ်ဘၣ်. တုၤလၢအမါတဲအီၤအဘျီအါ ထီၣ်ဒီး အ၀ဲပှံၢ်ထီၣ်တၢ်ဒီး တဲ၀ဲ… လၢယဖိၣ်သၣ်ခွါအကတီၢ် ယအိၣ် ဒ်အံၤလီၤ. နသ့ၣ် ညါလၢယမ့ၢ်ပှၤ ဒ်အံၤ လီၤ. တလိၣ် နဟဲတြီယၤဒီးဆီတလဲယတၢ်အိၣ်မူဘၣ်. မၤဒ်အံၤ အဘျီအါ, အမါတတဲအီၤတၢ်လၢၤဘၣ်… အ၀ဲမၤ၀ဲဒၣ်ယံာ် ဒၢး အဖိသ့ၣ် တဖၣ် မုၢ်ကနီၤဖိၣ်သၣ် ခွါထီၣ် လီၤ.
တုၤလီၤလၢအသးပှၢ်ထီၣ် တစု အ တဲတၢ်ဒီး အဖိ တကနၣ်ဃုာ် ဒီး အမါဧီၢ် ဒီး တကနၣ်ဃုာ် အီၤလၢၤဘၣ်. အ၀ဲဆိကမိၣ် တယးတၢ်တဘၣ်လၢၤဘၣ်.
တၢ်တဲမုာ်နၢ်အ၀ဲအံၤ အါစုအါဘျီပနၢ်ဟူဒီးထံၣ် ဘၣ် လၢ အအိၣ် ထီၣ်လၢဟံၣ်ဒူၣ်ဃီထၢအကျါလီၤ.
နသ့ၣ်ညါလီၤ ယမ့ၢ်ပှၤဒ်အံၤ တချုးလၢပထီၣ်ပှၢ်ဒံးအခါ, တဘၣ် ဟဲဆီတလဲယၤတဂ့ၤ.
However, we should consider that once we are marriage, we are not one person. We are two in one. And of course our live should be a little bit different from our single life.
ဒ်သိးပှၤခံဂၤကမၤလၢပှဲၤအတၢ်လိၣ် ဘၣ် ကသ့ၣ် အဂီၢ် လံာ်စီဆှံသိၣ်လိပှၤဒ်လဲၣ်?
မါကဘၣ်ပာ်လီၤသးလၢ၀ၤအဖီလာ်
ပှၤကညီအလံာ်စီဆှံတဲ၀ဲလၢပိာ်မုၣ်, ဘၣ်ဆၣ်အတမ့ၢ်ထဲပိာ်မုၣ် ဘၣ်. တၢ်ကတိၤလၢအလီၤတံၢ်လီၤဆဲးန့ၣ် မ့ၢ်၀ဲမါ.
wives are to sumitted to her husband. Not just any man but her husband.
Right here when it says (Eph 5:22
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord,
it says submit to your husband. YOUR--- is about possesive. Because he is yours that’s why you are submitting to him.
Distinction function was introduced in Genesis 3:16------------- I once asked my professor (lets say a person is cheated on his wife, and the other girl is pregnant---- if the wife forgive him and want him to stay with him, shall he move or stay with his mistress… he said to stay.. why becaus he is hers… (God doesn’t like divorce)
sumit introduce in Genesis
He said to the woman: I will intensify your labor pains; you will bear children with painful effort. Your desire will be for your husband, yet he will rule over you.
Submit is a call to recognize and respond to the God- ordained authority of the husband. Submission deso not diminish the equality or destroy the dignity of the wife. Christ himself is the model for equality with GOd and submission to the one with whom he is equal (1 Cor. 11:3
But I want you to know that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of the woman, and God is the head of Christ.
နကသန့ၤနသးလၢန၀ၤဒီး အ၀ဲဒၣ်ကပၢနၤလီၤ.
and in Genesis 2:24 it says, တၢ်လၢပှၤခံဂၤန့ၣ်ကကဲထီၣ်တသွံၣ်ဃီတညၣ်ဃီလီၤ.
Because they are one, a wife is to submit to the headship not as slave but as one who is provide for, cared for, and secured by husband.
The wife submits not because she has found a master, but because her heart has found its rest.
How is she is supposed to be sumitting to her husband?
as fitting , ဒ်အဂ့ၤအဘၣ်လၢကစၢ်အပူၤ.
In the same way, wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, even if some disobey the word, they may be won over without a word by the way their wives live
hupatasso- (submit)- under rank. Right here it says, even when he disobey the word, submit to him anyways.
Some might ask, what if he is not christian, what is he doesn’t listen, what if he does not repent?
the Bible says, submit anyways, instead of scoling him and telling him to repent. Show them respect without a word, but by how you live.
when they observe your pure, reverent lives.
Doing this the husband will be able to observe. And see the eternal beauty.
Ephesians 5:24 also sayd to sumit in everything. However, as we see in 1 Col 3:18, should submit in everythign that is fit in the Lord.
If the husband is telling his wife to do something disobedince to GOd, she can say what Peter say, “we must obey GOd rather than men (Acts 5:29
Peter and the apostles replied, “We must obey God rather than people.
Submission doesn’t devalue the women.
What does the Bible says about the women?
Proverbs 31:10-31 dji
1. Her value (Jewel), her trust worthiness, her supportive (v12), her sacrifice--- more concern on her family more than her comfort. Her primary concern is to live for her family.
Although women submit to her husband, it does not mean her spiritual cannot be more mature than her husband. For Galatians 3:28 (ပှၤယူဒၤဖိအိၣ်, ပှၤဟ့ၤလ့ၤဖိတအိၣ်, ပှၤပိာ်မုၣ်တအိၣ်, ပှၤပိာ်ခွါတအိၣဘၣ်, အဂ့ၢ်ဒ်အံၤ, သုမ့ၢ်တၢ်တမံၤဃီခဲလၢာ်, လၢယ့ၣ်ရူးခရံာ်အပူၤလီၤ.
အမ့ၢ်ပာ်လီၤအသးလၢအ၀ၤဖီလာ်ဘၣ်ဆၣ်, အမ့ၢ်ဘၣ်ဃးဒီးနီသးအတၢ်သ့ၣ်ညါန့ၣ်, အ မ့ၢ်ဒၣ်တၢ်တမံၤဃီလီၤ.
Romans 13:1-2, မ်ပှၤပာ်အသးလၢတၢ်စိတၢ်ကမီၤ အဒိၣ်တဖၣ်အဖီလာ်ကိးအဂၤဒဲးတက့ၢ်. အဂ့ၢ်ဒ်အံၤ, တၢ်စိတၢ်ကမီၤတအိၣ်ဘၣ်, အိၣ်ထဲတၢ်ဟဲလၢယွၤန့ၣ်ဧိၤလီၤ. ဒီးတၢ်စိတၢ်ကမီၤလၢယွၤပာ်လီၤအီၤတဖၣ်န့ၣ် မ့ၢ်ယွၤပာ်လီၤအီၤလီၤ.
မၤသးဒ်န့ၣ် ဒီးပှၤလၢအတြီတၢ်စိတၢ်ကမီၤ, မ့ၢ်အတြီ တၢ်လၢယွၤပာ်၀ဲန့ၣ်လီၤ. ဒီးပှၤလၢအတြီတၢ်တဖၣ်န့ၣ် ကဘၣ်တၢ်စံၣ်ညီၣ်ဃၣ်လၢအကစၢ်ဒၣ်၀ဲလီၤ.
“I can do nothing on my own. I judge only as I hear, and my judgment is just, because I do not seek my own will, but the will of him who sent me.
ယမၤဒၣ်တၢ်တသ့ဘၣ်နီတမံၤဘၣ်, ဒ်ယနၢ်ဟူတၢ်အသိးန့ၣ်, ယစံၣ်ညီၣ်တၢ်, ဒီးယတၢ်စံၣ်ညီၣ်န့ၣ်, မ့ၢ်အတီအလိၤလီၤ. အဂ့ၢ်ဒ်အံၤ, ယဃုမၤဖဲဒၣ်ယသးဒၣ်ယဲ တမ့ၢ်ဘၣ်, မ့ဖဲဒၣ်ပှၤလၢအမၤလီၤယၤတဂၤအသးလီၤ.
Submition is not about human structure or invention. It is God’s ordain.
But I want you to know that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of the woman, and God is the head of Christ.
Example of unsubmitted women. (we are talking about the husband that is doing fine as a husband)--- we live in a country where freedom is offer to everyone. And the devil is working in every area of lives to torn family apart, women have the right to work and that is a beautiful thing. However, the danger follow that is that when women goes to work, they can support themselves so they do not need the husband for their fiical support. So they do not want to sumit to their husband. Moreover, everytime when that take place and can’t control their role as a wife, they view their relatioship as toxic and fine someone else at their work places. They do not concern about their children. Once they can’t submit to their husband, everything crumble.
A kid or someone said, I don’t want you to bring နတၢ်အဲၣ်တီတဂၤ၀ံၤတဂၤလၢယဟ့ၣ်ပူၤဘၣ်, I want you to bring back my dad. THat’s why as a wife, submit to your husband.
ဒ်သိးပှၤခံဂၤကမၤလၢပှဲၤအတၢ်လိၣ် ဘၣ် ကသ့ၣ် အဂီၢ် လံာ်စီဆှံသိၣ်လိပှၤဒ်လဲၣ်?
၂. ၀ၤကဘၣ်အဲၣ်မါ
This could also happen to men. (Go to work, find a new partner, leave the family behind).
တၢ်အဲၣ်မ့ၢ်တၢ်လၢအကီ ဒီးတၢ်လူၤဘၣ်သးမ့ၢ်တၢ်လၢအညီ. (အိၣ်လၢအစၢၢ်ခိၣ်ကီ , ၀့ၢ်ညီ)
၂ တံၤမသ့း ၃း၁-၂
ဘၣ်ဆၣ်ဒီးသ့ၣ်ညါတၢ်အံၤတက့ၢ်. လၢမုၢ်နံၤအခံကတၢၢ်တဖၣ်အပူၤန့ၣ်, အဆၢအတီၢ်လၢအကီအခဲကဘၣ်လီၤ. အဂ့ၢ်ဒ်အံၤ, ပှၤကညီကမ့ၢ်ပှၤအဲၣ်လီၤအသး...
ပှၤကညီသ့ၣ်တဖၣ်အန့ဆၢၣ်ကအိၣ် အါထီၣ်ဒ်န့ၣ်.
ဘၣ်ဆၣ်… တၢ်လၢ၀ၤကဘၣ်မၤန့ၣ် မ့ၢ်တၢ် ထီဘိအကဘၣ်အဲၣ်အမါ (always love his wife).
Husband’s call is to sacrifical love
Love is meeting the needs of others regardless of the cost to self. Ephesians 5:2-23, husband called to love his wife “just as CHrist loved the church and gave himself up for her.
How does Christ love the church?
He gave himself up
Thorn, nail, mock, drill--------- to that extend he shall love his wife that way.
God doesn’t focus on the subject--- his nature is to love. He gives his love, if the other party does not want to recieve his love then it is up to the other party.
When Paul says love her… he does not mean you love her because she deserve it. We are command to love.
What you choose to love will become greatly attractive to you.
Christ says, “you may not deserve anything, but I give you everything. I would even die for you.”
The World Says, “When the feeling stops, you love is over, and walk away.” That’s not what the Bible teaches us.
Although she might not meet your expectation, you still love her anyways because she is your wife.
When was the last time you sacrifice for your wife?
busy, follow heart desire, live as when you are single....
Caring Love--- loving is caring
In the same way, husbands are to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hates his own flesh but provides and cares for it, just as Christ does for the church, since we are members of his body.
— Love Your wife as your own body.
as your hair is getting longer and trying to cut it to make it look good, take care of your wife and renew your love and make it beautiful as your hair.
as we love our hobby, taking care of ourselves, we are also ough to do the same with our body (our wife).
If you don’t love your wife like this, someone other might come and take over. we don’t want that. People now a day they don’t care about weather a person is married or not.
When husband lead with love, submission will follow more.
Not to be harsh with his wife
Becasue he loves he is not to be harsh. He is to be patient and self- sacrificing as Chirst
As Christ is patient, we are ought to be patient.
WIFE: Will you love me when I’m old and gray and wrinkled?
HUSBAND: I do.
Anonymous
Whatever a person maybe like, we must still love them because we love God.
John Calvin (French Reformer)
Instruction:
Deny Your Self
Follow the Pattern of Christ
Christ Sumit to the Father
Die for his Church
Respect and Love (Crazy Love Cycle)
