he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it

(Matthew 10:39

Matthew 10:39 KJV 1900

39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.

speak to the paradox of self-preservation versus true fulfillment. People who try to control their lives without faith and reliance on God ultimately rob themselves of the very things they seek: security, purpose, and eternal life. Here’s how:

1. False Security Leads to True Loss

When people rely solely on their own strength, wealth, or intelligence, they feel in control. However, life’s uncertainties—illness, economic downturns, death—eventually expose how fragile human control really is.

By clinging to their own plans, they miss out on the peace that comes from trusting God’s perfect wisdom and provision.

2. Trading Eternal Riches for Temporary Gain

Some prioritize material wealth, power, or comfort over spiritual growth. Jesus warns in Mark 8:36 (KJV), “For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?”

Those who make earthly security their ultimate goal may end up losing everything in eternity, forfeiting the true wealth of God’s kingdom.

3. Fear-Based Living Stifles Growth

Trying to "save" one’s life by avoiding risks, hardships, or suffering often results in missing out on God’s purpose.

Faith requires stepping into the unknown, trusting God to provide. Playing it safe out of fear leads to a stagnant, unfulfilled life.

4. Self-Sufficiency Blinds Us to Grace

Those who refuse to surrender to God’s will believe they must "earn" or "control" their destiny. Yet, the greatest blessings—salvation, peace, joy—are received through surrender, not striving.

By rejecting faith, they rob themselves of the grace that would have truly set them free.

5. Short-Term Thinking Sabotages Eternal Rewards

People who prioritize their comfort and desires over God's calling often make decisions that sabotage their long-term good.

For example, a person who hoards wealth instead of being generous might feel secure now but will miss out on the eternal rewards promised in Matthew 6:19-20 (KJV), “Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt… But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven.”

Conclusion: True Life Is Found in Letting Go

Jesus’ teaching reminds us that the only way to truly "save" our lives is to surrender them to Him. Those who try to secure their future without God end up stealing from themselves—losing peace, joy, and eternal life. But those who trust in Christ, even at the cost of personal sacrifice, will gain a life that cannot be lost.

Would you say this applies to your own experiences, or have you seen it in others around you?