Peace Possibilities: Romans 12:18

What makes this verse challenging in today's world?

When have you seen this principle lived out well?

The Peace Bridge Metaphor

Just as a bridge requires foundations on both sides:

We can only build our side

Cannot force others to participate

Discussion: How does this metaphor help you understand your responsibility?

Question: Where might you be trying to build someone else's side?

Understanding "If Possible"

What does "if possible" mean in your life?

When might peace be impossible despite our best efforts?

"Strive for peace with everyone" (Hebrews 12:14)

"Blessed are the peacemakers" (Matthew 5:9)

Understanding "So Far As It Depends On You"

How do you define the limits of your responsibility?

Questions to consider:

Am I doing everything within my power?

Where am I overstepping my boundaries?

What does faithful obedience look like here?

Abraham & Lot

"Let there be no strife between you and me...If you take the left hand, then I will go to the right" (Genesis 13:8-9)

Discussion:

What did Abraham sacrifice for peace?

When have you needed to sacrifice to maintain peace?

Paul & Mark

"Barnabas wanted to take Mark...But Paul thought best not to" (Acts 15:37-38)

"Get Mark and bring him...for he is very useful to me" (2 Timothy 4:11)

Question: How do these passages give you hope for difficult relationships?

Discussion: When is temporary separation sometimes necessary?

Internal Barriers We Control

What internal barriers make peacemaking difficult for you?

Pride? Fear? Misunderstanding of biblical peace?

"Everyone who is arrogant in heart is an abomination to the LORD" (Proverbs 16:5)

"There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear" (1 John 4:18)

External Factors Beyond Our Control

Discussion: Which factors beyond your control frustrate your peace efforts?

"How often would I have gathered your children together...and you were not willing!" (Luke 13:34)

Question: How do we maintain hope when others refuse reconciliation?

Building Your Side of the Peace Bridge

"If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink" (Romans 12:20)

Personal Assessment:

Where do I need to take the first step?

What relationship needs my initiative?

What specific action can I take this week?

Remember

"So then let us pursue what makes for peace" (Romans 14:19)

Reflection Questions:

With whom do you need to "live peaceably" right now?

What's your next step in building your side of the bridge?

How will you trust God with what's beyond your control?