INTRO: Los Dos Constructores

Imagina a dos constructores, Tom y Jake, que decidieron construir casas en el mismo hermoso terreno. Ambos tenían los mismos recursos, pero sus enfoques hacia el trabajo eran diferentes.

Jose estaba ansioso por comenzar y rápidamente empezó a construir su casa. Elegió usar materiales más baratos y se apresuró en la construcción, queriendo terminar lo antes posible. Pensó: “Disfrutaré de mi nuevo hogar antes, y siempre puedo hacer mejoras después.”

Juan, por otro lado, se tomó su tiempo. Planeó cuidadosamente cada detalle, seleccionando materiales de alta calidad y asegurándose de que la fundación fuera sólida. Pasó tiempo investigando las mejores técnicas de construcción y no apresuró el proceso, incluso si eso significaba vivir en un refugio temporal mientras trabajaba.

Pasaron los años y un día una tormenta severa golpeó el pueblo. Los vientos aullaban y la lluvia caía a torrentes. Después de que la tormenta pasó, los habitantes del pueblo salieron para evaluar los daños.

La casa de Jose, construida apresuradamente, sufrió daños significativos. Las paredes se habían agrietado y el agua se filtraba. Se dio cuenta de que su elección de tomar atajos había regresado para atormentarlo.

La casa de Juan, sin embargo, se mantuvo firme. La calidad de su trabajo y el tiempo que invirtió dieron sus frutos. Su hogar estaba seguro y protegido, resistiendo la tormenta con facilidad.

**Reflexión:**

La historia de Jose y Juan nos enseña una lección profunda sobre la vida: cada día enfrentamos elecciones que moldean nuestro futuro. Al igual que los constructores, podemos elegir tomar atajos para una gratificación inmediata o tomar decisiones reflexivas que requieren paciencia y esfuerzo.

En la vida, las elecciones fundamentales que hacemos—ya sea en relaciones, carreras o crecimiento personal—determinan nuestra fortaleza para soportar las tormentas de la vida. En última instancia, se trata de las decisiones que tomamos hoy, las que definirán la seguridad y la satisfacción que experimentaremos mañana.

“ELIGE TU DIFICIL”

Story of my Grandpa and Grandma

Key Verse:

Genesis 25:27–34 RVR60

27Y crecieron los niños, y Esaú fue diestro en la caza, hombre del campo; pero Jacob era varón quieto, que habitaba en tiendas. 28Y amó Isaac a Esaú, porque comía de su caza; mas Rebeca amaba a Jacob. 29Y guisó Jacob un potaje; y volviendo Esaú del campo, cansado, 30dijo a Jacob: Te ruego que me des a comer de ese guiso rojo, pues estoy muy cansado. Por tanto fue llamado su nombre Edom. 31Y Jacob respondió: Véndeme en este día tu primogenitura. 32Entonces dijo Esaú: He aquí yo me voy a morir; ¿para qué, pues, me servirá la primogenitura? 33Y dijo Jacob: Júramelo en este día. Y él le juró, y vendió a Jacob su primogenitura. 34Entonces Jacob dio a Esaú pan y del guisado de las lentejas; y él comió y bebió, y se levantó y se fue. Así menospreció Esaú la primogenitura.

Genesis 32:24–28 RVR60

Así se quedó Jacob solo; y luchó con él un varón hasta que rayaba el alba.Y cuando el varón vio que no podía con él, tocó en el sitio del encaje de su muslo, y se descoyuntó el muslo de Jacob mientras con él luchaba.Y dijo: Déjame, porque raya el alba. Y Jacob le respondió: No te dejaré, si no me bendices.Y el varón le dijo: ¿Cuál es tu nombre? Y él respondió: Jacob.Y el varón le dijo: No se dirá más tu nombre Jacob, sino Israel; porque has luchado con Dios y con los hombres, y has vencido.

Las bendiciones de un derecho de nacimiento:

Inheritance: The firstborn son traditionally received a double portion of his father's inheritance, including land, livestock, and other possessions. 

Leadership:The birthright often entailed leadership within the family, including the role of priest and judge. 

Spiritual Significance:In some interpretations, the birthright also carries a spiritual dimension, representing a position of favor and covenantal blessing. 

The Story of Esau and Jacob:The story of Esau and Jacob in Genesis illustrates the concept of the birthright, where Esau, the elder son, sells his birthright to Jacob for a bowl of stew, highlighting the potential for misuse or loss of this privilege. 

Loss of Birthright:The narrative suggests that the birthright can be lost or transferred, as seen in the case of Esau and Jacob, where Jacob ultimately receives the blessing intended for Esau. 

God's Blessing:The concept of the birthright is often intertwined with the idea of God's blessing, suggesting that God's favor can extend beyond birth order or social status. 

The Covenant:The birthright is seen as a part of the covenantal relationship between God and his people, with the firstborn son playing a key role in carrying forward the covenantal promises. 

What a tragedy!

In a dramatic turn of events, Esau sold his birthright to his younger twin brother, Jacob, for a simple bowl of stew. This transaction was devastating for Esau, as the birthright held immense importance in their culture. It was not just a matter of inheritance; it symbolized honor, leadership, and the blessings of their father, Isaac.

Esau, exhausted and desperate from hunger, acted impulsively, trading away his future for immediate gratification. The weight of this decision haunted him later, as he realized the profound impact it had on his identity and legacy. (Your actions today determine your legacy tomorrow) This moment marked a pivotal point in their relationship, deepening the rift between the brothers and illustrating the grave consequences of valuing short-term desires over long-term significance, especially in the context of heritage and familial bonds. Esau's loss of his birthright became a lasting lesson on the value of what we possess and the irreparable nature of certain choices.

What led Esau to make this impulsive decision?

in this christian journey have two choices.

To be like Jacob - leave a Legacy which comes with delayed gratification and discipline and sacrifice.

To be Like Esau - to be carnal and cave in to instant desires and immediate gratification.

What lead Esau down this path that we can learn from and not fall into this same trap! The bible is for our learning. Lets learn through the wisdom of other.

Mantén viva la llama (No te dejes morir de hambre)

Faint: pertaining to being a weakened physical condition, requiring food, drink and rest to recuperate.

Edom -

The Lexham Bible Dictionary Edom

A geographical region south of the Dead Sea; a kingdom depicted as a constant enemy of Israel.

Esau let himself starve! He didn’t keep the fire alive!

Matthew 13:10–12 KJV 1900

10 And the disciples came, and said unto him, Why speakest thou unto them in parables? 11 He answered and said unto them, Because it is given unto you to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it is not given. 12 For whosoever hath, to him shall be given, and he shall have more abundance: but whosoever hath not, from him shall be taken away even that he hath.

Here are ways to lose the fire in your life and fall into quickly because they you are spiritually week your are most vulnerable. And be careful who you allowed to speak to you when you are most vulnerable. That is when the enemy attacks your mind, at your weakest moment!

Use example of difficult emotions when a stimulus occurs!

Be aware of temptations to give up what you want. Most for what you want now.

1. **Neglecting Prayer and Worship**

When we stop communicating with God through prayer and worship, we lose intimacy with Him. This void can make us more susceptible to worldly temptations, leading to behaviors that gratify our flesh rather than align with God's will.

2. **Isolating from Community**

Avoiding fellowship with other believers can lead to spiritual desolation. In isolation, we may give in to doubts and desires without accountability, making it easier to indulge in sinful behaviors.

3. **Ignoring Biblical Teachings**:

When we choose not to read or engage with the Bible, we can become misled by the world’s values. Without scripture guiding us, it becomes easier to justify immoral actions or succumb to temptations.

4. **Compromising Values**:

Gradually abandoning our core beliefs or ethical standards can lead to rationalizing sinful choices. This erosion of our spiritual foundation can cause us to prioritize desires of the flesh over our spiritual wellbeing.

5. **Chasing Materialism**:

not defining needs verses wants the desire to chase of wealth over the expense your your spiritual life. Leading to 2-3 jobs.

Focusing heavily on wealth or possessions can distract us from our relationship with God. As we chase material gains, we can easily succumb to greed, lust, or pride, leading us further away from spiritual nourishment.

6. **Engaging in Habitual Sin**:

Allowing ourselves to entertain small sins can lead to greater transgressions. Justifying actions like gossip or dishonesty can create a slippery slope toward more serious indulgences, further distancing us from God.

7. **Unhealthy Relationships**

Surrounding ourselves with individuals who promote negative behaviors or influence us to engage in worldly activities can pull us away from God. Peer pressure and temptation can lead us to compromise our faith.

8. **Pursuing Instant Gratification**:

In a culture that promotes immediate pleasure, seeking fulfillment through fleeting desires (like substance abuse, lust, or entertainment) can divert us from deeper spiritual satisfaction found in God.

9. **Neglecting Differences Between Good and Evil**:

As we draw away from God, our moral compass can become blurred, leading us to embrace behaviors that seem acceptable in society but contradict God's teachings.

End with your story of Noemi praying over me in my moment of struggle and that God for Godly woman.

flip it with:

You can either let yourself starve and fall into sin or keep the fire alive for generations to come.

El costo del legado.

Jacob se queda solo por la noche, un momento a menudo asociado con la vulnerabilidad.

We see Jacob face a similar situation as Esau where he is alone and vulnerable to temptation and giving Jacob is about to face the biggest trial of his life where he is going to confront his brother and Jacob is expecting his brother to kill him for revenge, but the difference here is that Esau let himself starve physically, which can represent the flesh the carnel and Jacob was feeding his spiritual soul as he was isolated to pray and to the difference here is that when you are alone in the secret place with God and seeking him God is the one that initiates the conflict. We see here that it says that God wrestled with Jacob not the other way around.

The benefits of wrestling with god

After Jacob wrestled with God, he experienced several significant benefits that transformed his life:

New Identity:

Jacob received a new name, Israel, meaning “he who struggles with God.” This change signified a transformation in his identity, reflecting his personal growth and spiritual maturity.

2. Blessing:

Jacob was blessed by God after the struggle. This blessing affirmed his worth and destiny, marking a pivotal moment in his life where he moved from fear to assurance.

3. Strengthened Faith:

The encounter deepened Jacob’s faith. He emerged with a greater understanding of God’s presence and promises, which would guide him in future challenges.

4. Overcoming Fear:

After wrestling with God, Jacob faced his brother Esau with newfound courage. Instead of fearing retribution, he approached Esau with humility and confidence, showcasing his transformation.

5. Physical Mark:

Jacob walked away with a limp, a physical reminder of his encounter with God. This mark served as a constant reminder of his struggle and the strength gained through it.

6. Spiritual Insight:

The wrestling match provided Jacob with profound spiritual insights. He learned about the nature of God, the importance of perseverance, and the value of seeking divine guidance.

7. Restored Relationship:

The encounter helped Jacob reconcile with Esau. Instead of animosity, their meeting led to a heartfelt reunion, illustrating how personal transformation can pave the way for restored relationships.

8. Legacy of Faith:

Jacob’s experience became part of the larger narrative of faith for future generations. His story is often cited as an example of wrestling with God, encouraging others in their spiritual journeys.

Conclusion

Jacob’s wrestling with God was a transformative experience that brought about a new identity, blessings, and deeper faith. It equipped him to face future challenges with courage and paved the way for reconciliation and restoration in his relationships. Ultimately, it solidified his legacy as a key figure in the biblical narrative of faith.

I think God for my father and my grandparents who were men of prayer and Gaither likes to God. I back at my life and see what God has kept me from the first thing that comes to my a reflect is the prayers is their prayers. I think of the blessings, that he has kept has kept and sustained me he has not allowed me to fall into temptation.

Conclusion

It’s intriguing to see how Jacob and Esau were confronted with their greatest weaknesses in the most unexpected ways. For Esau, a robust and muscular man of the field, his vulnerability came through something as simple as food. Despite his physical prowess and skills as a hunter, he found himself tempted by hunger, which ultimately led to his impulsive decision to sell his birthright for a mere bowl of stew.

On the other hand, Jacob, often viewed as the “mama’s boy,” spent his time among the tents, where he may not have developed the same physical skills as his brother. He lacked the ability to wrestle or hunt, yet it was in this very area of confrontation—wrestling with God—that he was challenged to grow. This divine encounter forced Jacob to confront his insecurities and ultimately led to his transformation.

Through their opposing strengths and weaknesses, God orchestrated a profound lesson for both brothers, illustrating that our vulnerabilities can become the very means through which God challenges and refines us.

Elige Tu Dificil

Marriage vs. Divorce

Marriage is hard: Building a strong, lasting relationship requires effort, communication, and compromise.

Divorce is hard: Ending a marriage can lead to emotional pain, financial strain, and the complexities of co-parenting.

2. Parenting vs. Childlessness

Parenting is hard: Raising children involves sleepless nights, sacrifices, and the challenge of guiding them through life’s ups and downs.

Childlessness can be hard: Living without children may lead to feelings of loneliness or missing out on the joys and rewards of parenthood.

3. Pursuing a Career vs. Job Security

Pursuing a career is hard: Following your passion often requires hard work, risk, and the potential for failure.

Staying in a secure job is hard: A stable job may feel unfulfilling or stifling, leading to dissatisfaction and regret over unfulfilled potential.

4. Health and Fitness vs. Comfort

Maintaining health is hard: Committing to a healthy lifestyle involves regular exercise, meal planning, and discipline.

Neglecting health is hard: Ignoring health can lead to serious medical issues, chronic pain, and a lower quality of life.

6. Forgiveness vs. Bitterness

Forgiveness is hard: Letting go of past hurts can be emotionally challenging and requires vulnerability.

Holding onto bitterness is hard: Resentment can lead to ongoing pain, broken relationships, and emotional turmoil.

7. Living Authentically vs. Conformity

Living authentically is hard: Being true to oneself can lead to criticism and rejection from others.

Conforming is hard: Suppressing one’s true self can result in feelings of emptiness and a lack of fulfillment.

Hebrews 12:16–17 RVR60

no sea que haya algún fornicario, o profano, como Esaú, que por una sola comida vendió su primogenitura.Porque ya sabéis que aun después, deseando heredar la bendición, fue desechado, y no hubo oportunidad para el arrepentimiento, aunque la procuró con lágrimas.

No matter your past experiences or the failures and setbacks you’ve faced, there is always an opportunity for you to receive the blessings and inheritance that God has in store for you. Choose to open your heart and commit to Him, deciding to serve Him wholeheartedly. Regardless of the obstacles that may come your way, trust that His grace and guidance will lead you to a future filled with hope and purpose. Embrace this journey, knowing that God’s promises are unwavering and His love is boundless.

Exodus 3:6 RVR60

Y dijo: Yo soy el Dios de tu padre, Dios de Abraham, Dios de Isaac, y Dios de Jacob. Entonces Moisés cubrió su rostro, porque tuvo miedo de mirar a Dios.