Lost Love: The Ephesus Warning

Bible Passage: Revelation 2:1–7
Introduction
Jesus commends the church in Ephesus for their faithful endurance in the true faith but calls them to repent for their failure to love God and people as they once did.
I. Christ is Near and He Cares for the Church (v. 1)
II. Christ Wants both Truth and Love (v.2–4, 6)
Commended for Purity in Deeds and Teaching (Rev 2:2–3, 6)
The Nicolaitanes are the followers of that Nicolas who was one of the seven first ordained to the diaconate by the apostles.1 They lead lives of unrestrained indulgence. The character of these men is very plainly pointed out in the Apocalypse of John, [when they are represented] as teaching that it is a matter of indifference to practise adultery, and to eat things sacrificed to idols
Rebuked for abandoning love (Rev 2:4)
It is a veneer of busy outward activity without the inward motivation of sincere love in response to God’s great love for them in Christ and without the grace and love toward others that is needed
He is faithful to notice sin, and to warn against it; just as He is faithful to pardon it when confessed. His holy eye detects the sin; His loving, tender heart mourns over it. There is no anger, no fury here. All is gentleness and grace. He mourns over Ephesus for leaving her first love; over Pergamos for allowing sin; over Sardis for death; over Laodicea for lukewarmness. He feels these things profoundly. He is not indifferent to them, as if He did not care whether His lamps burned bright or not. He mourns over every sin; He longs to supply every want.
III. Christ’s Love Corrects Us (v.5)
Jesus reminds them that labor is no substitute for love, purity is no substitute for passion, and deeds are no substitute for devotion. Do not pat yourself on the back for doing good things for the wrong reason. God looks on the heart
IV. We Conquer in Christ (v.7)
Conclusion
Our being called to maintain a conflict does not render it at all the less a free gift: our conflicts can never merit it; they can only prepare us for it, even as a medicinal process may prepare the body for the enjoyment of perfect health. When our Lord said, “Labour for the meat which endureth unto everlasting life,” he added, “which the Son of man shall give unto you.” The gift will not be the less free because we labour for it; but, by the imposing of that condition, a distinction is made which to all eternity will justify God in the bestowment of his gifts.
Never, then, imagine that your conflicts, however arduous, will deserve life: they will only “render you meet for” the enjoyment of heaven; and evince, that, in the communication of his blessings, God does put a difference between the evil and the good. If it be said, that “they who do God’s commandments are said to have a right to the tree of lifee,” I grant it: but it is a right founded only on the promise of your God. Your merit, in your best estate, is found only in hell: it is the grace of God alone that exalts any soul of man to heaven