The Proverbs 31 Mom: More Than Just a Motorcycle Mechanic

Proverbs 31

Proverbs 31:10–31 NLT

10 Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. 11 Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. 12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 13 She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. 14 She is like a merchant’s ship, bringing her food from afar. 15 She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plan the day’s work for her servant girls. 16 She goes to inspect a field and buys it; with her earnings she plants a vineyard. 17 She is energetic and strong, a hard worker. 18 She makes sure her dealings are profitable; her lamp burns late into the night. 19 Her hands are busy spinning thread, her fingers twisting fiber. 20 She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. 21 She has no fear of winter for her household, for everyone has warm clothes. 22 She makes her own bedspreads. She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns. 23 Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with the other civic leaders. 24 She makes belted linen garments and sashes to sell to the merchants. 25 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. 26 When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. 27 She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness. 28 Her children stand and bless her. Her husband praises her: 29 “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!” 30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised. 31 Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.

Intro

Good evening, Bikers Church!

It’s so good to see you all here tonight. There’s a sense of energy and unity in this space that only comes when we gather with hearts wide open. We’re not just here to talk about bikes or even just about moms—we’re here to celebrate strength. Grit. Grace. The kind of fierce love that holds families together and presses on when the road gets rough.

This isn’t just another Saturday night message. We’re on the eve of Mother’s Day, and I’ve got to say this right off the bat: Gentlemen, if you forgot about tomorrow… God help you! Might wanna stop by that gas station on the way home and grab a flower—or a Snickers. Something. Preferably both.

But seriously, I know Mother’s Day can be a mixed bag. Some of us had incredible moms. Some of us didn't. Some are grieving moms we lost. Some of you are running on fumes as moms yourselves. Some are spiritual moms—nurturing folks in the faith. Some of you stepped in where others stepped out. There’s no one-size-fits-all story here tonight. But the good news? God sees every single one of those stories. And He honors them.

We're going to dig into Proverbs 31. And I know what you might be thinking—That chapter? That’s the impossible woman, right? The one who wakes up at 4 a.m., runs a business, cooks organic meals, homeschools ten kids, volunteers at church, and still looks like she walked off the cover of a Christian fashion magazine? When I told Krystal that this message was going to be based in Proverbs 31, you should have seen the look on her face. She was like, “for real? That’s kinda been done way too much!” That may not be a direct quote, but that’s the way I remember it.

But let me tell you: this passage isn’t a guilt trip. It’s a celebration. It’s not a “perfect woman” checklist—it’s a portrait of strength, grit, wisdom, and God-fueled purpose.

So tonight, we’re reclaiming Proverbs 31. Not for Pinterest moms, but for warrior women—for women who are tough enough to ride through storms, bold enough to fight for their families, and tender enough to heal a hurting heart. And yeah, for the moms who can throw down at a PTA meeting and throw a wrench under a chopper.

Verses 10–11: The Value of a Virtuous Woman

Proverbs 31:10–11 NLT

10 Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. 11 Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life.

Let’s talk about that word: virtuous. It doesn’t mean “perfect.” The original Hebrew word used here is “chayil”—and it literally means “valor.” It’s a word used to describe soldiers in battle. This woman? She’s not quiet, timid, or shrinking back—she’s a warrior.

She’s the one who keeps going when the gas light is on—figuratively and literally. She’s the one who carries the weight of her family on her back, and still makes time to show up for others. This isn’t about having it all together; it’s about standing firm when everything’s trying to fall apart.

This is not a dainty image. This is a picture of a woman who wakes up every day ready to do battle—not with swords, but with faith. She fights for her marriage. She fights for her kids. She fights for her peace. And when life gets loud and overwhelming, she doesn’t flinch—she fires up her faith and rides straight through it.

Biker moms, you know this life. You’ve learned to read the road—when to lean into the curve, when to slow your roll, and when to crack the throttle wide open. A virtuous woman lives with that same instinct—discerning the moment, knowing when to speak life, when to hold steady, and when to ride through the storm with faith as her compass.

She’s not waiting on the sidelines, hoping things work out. She’s in the thick of it—fighting for her family, standing in the gap, leading with courage and conviction. And it’s that kind of character—tested, proven, unshakable—that Scripture calls more precious than rubies.

Strength like that doesn’t happen by accident. It’s forged in the fire—through trials, through trust, through time. You can’t fake it, and you certainly can’t manufacture it.

And here’s the result: her husband can trust her. Her presence brings peace. Her strength doesn't just hold her together—it holds up those around her. Her life is a blessing to her household and beyond. That, my friends, is the beginning of a legacy that lasts.

Let me ask you: Who do you trust when your back's against the wall? Who’s still standing when the smoke clears? That’s what this passage is about. That woman? She’s a ride-or-die kind of faithful.

Verses 12–19: The Provider & Entrepreneur

Proverbs 31:12–16 NLT

12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 13 She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. 14 She is like a merchant’s ship, bringing her food from afar. 15 She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plan the day’s work for her servant girls. 16 She goes to inspect a field and buys it; with her earnings she plants a vineyard.

This woman is hustling—but not in the modern “burn yourself out for the grind” kind of way. She’s focused, intentional, and fueled by purpose.

She’s like that biker mom who knows how to stretch a gallon of milk, fix a carburetor, and keep a calendar all while loving deeply and leading well. She’s the mom who never stops building—building a life, building faith, building up the ones around her.

It says she gets up while it is still night. Moms, that means before the Keurig even wakes up, you’re already thinking, planning, preparing. That moment when you sneak into the kitchen for five seconds of silence before the chaos? God sees that.

And it says she brings her food from afar. That sounds like she’s not just scraping together the bare minimum. She’s creating something beautiful from what she has. That’s what moms do—turn scraps into sanctuaries.

And don’t miss this—she inspects a field and buys it. This woman is business savvy. She’s got vision. She’s investing. Planting. Expanding. That’s not just homemaking. That’s home-building. That’s kingdom economics.

Maybe she’s got a side hustle. Maybe she bakes, fixes bikes, sews patches on jackets, makes quilts and other craft fair wares, or helps her kids with math homework she didn’t even learn in school. But she does it all with love. With intent. With grace.

But listen—maybe you're not running a business or buying property. That’s okay. The heart of this passage isn’t about spreadsheets and strategy—it’s about stewardship. It’s about taking what God has placed in your hands—your time, your love, your gifts—and multiplying it. Whether you’re flipping houses or flipping pancakes, homeschooling or healing hearts—God sees it. And it all counts in the kingdom.

You ever restored a bike from the frame up? Took something rusty and worthless-looking and turned it into something roadworthy and loud? That’s what moms do with their kids, their homes, their dreams.

They take what others overlook, and they see potential. They don’t just react—they create. They don’t just survive—they thrive.

And you better believe God sees that sacred hustle.

Verses 20–24: The Giver & Advocate

Proverbs 31:20–23 NLT

20 She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. 21 She has no fear of winter for her household, for everyone has warm clothes. 22 She makes her own bedspreads. She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns. 23 Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with the other civic leaders.

Now we shift gears a little. She’s not just hard-working—she’s open-hearted. Her strength doesn't make her stingy; it makes her generous. This woman isn’t just focused on getting things done; she’s focused on giving things away. Her generosity is legendary. She’s not so focused on her own success that she forgets others. Her hands are open—not clenched. Her arms are wide—not withdrawn.

It says she opens her hands to the poor. She doesn’t have a scarcity mindset. She knows the Source of her provision—so she’s not afraid to give. She opens her arms. Think about that posture: open arms, not crossed arms. That’s welcoming. Inviting. Loving.

You ever meet someone who has almost nothing but gives like they own the world? That’s this woman. She’s not afraid to share because she knows the God who supplies.

And this is key: her generosity isn’t just financial. It’s emotional. It’s spiritual. It’s relational. She opens her home, her heart, her time. She lifts others when they’re down. She listens when the world’s too loud. She holds space for people to heal.

This is what I love about the biker community. We’re known for our brotherhood, our sisterhood, for looking out for each other. Yeah, we may look intimidating to some—but when one of our own goes down? We show up. We organize rides for kids with cancer. We rally for veterans. We pass the hat when someone’s hurting. That spirit of generosity, that desire to help others, is woven into the fabric of who we are. And that’s a reflection of the heart of this Proverbs 31 woman. She’s not just building a comfortable life for herself; she’s building a better world for everyone.

That’s not just charity. That’s community. That’s kingdom work.

And let’s not skip over verse 23—“Her husband is known in the city gates.” That doesn’t mean she’s in the shadows—it means her influence lifts everyone around her. Her strength makes space for others to shine. Her influence makes her husband better. Her leadership blesses her family. She’s not just serving behind the scenes—she’s elevating the entire household.

Verses 25–31: The Strength & Wisdom

Proverbs 31:25–30 NLT

25 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. 26 When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. 27 She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness. 28 Her children stand and bless her. Her husband praises her: 29 “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!” 30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.

I want you to picture this woman. She is not stressed. She is not anxious. She is not losing sleep over things she can’t control. Why? Because she trusts God.

This is the kind of confidence that turns heads—not with looks, but with presence. She’s clothed in strength and dignity. She doesn't crumble under pressure. She doesn't let fear take the handlebars. That’s confidence. That’s someone who’s seen enough storms to know that God never fails.

She laughs at the days to come. Not because life is easy—but because she knows who’s riding with her.

She is clothed in strength and dignity. She’s not just strong—she’s gracious. And when she speaks? It’s not to tear down, but to build up. She’s got a sharp mind and a soft heart. She knows when to challenge and when to comfort.

She speaks with wisdom and kindness. Can we just admit—kindness in this world is rare. Especially in moments of stress or fatigue. But this woman lets her mouth be a fountain of life.

She’s not loud for attention. She’s loud for impact. She speaks life. She builds bridges. She gives guidance. And she does it without needing the spotlight.

And the foundation of all this? “A woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.” That’s the root system. Her worship fuels her work. Her faith fuels her fire.

It’s not charm. It’s not outward beauty. It’s not applause from others. It’s her relationship with the Lord that makes her a force to be reckoned with.

We live in a world obsessed with filters and followers, but Scripture reminds us: Charm is deceptive. Beauty fades. But a woman who fears the Lord? That’s timeless. That’s eternal. That’s worth celebrating.

Conclusion

So what do we do with this?

We stop idolizing perfection and start walking in purpose. This chapter isn't here to make you feel like you're not enough. It’s here to remind you that with God, you are more than enough.

To the moms tonight—biological, adoptive, step, spiritual, grand, foster, and everything in between—you are seen. God is not overlooking your quiet sacrifices. You may feel unnoticed—but you are essential. You are the engine of your family. You are the glue holding generations together.

To the rest of us: let’s not just thank these women—let’s honor them. Not just with words—but with our actions, our support, our gratitude.

Let’s be people of virtue—people who rise early, love deeply, give freely, and live courageously.

Let’s build communities and churches where the strength of women is celebrated—not silenced. Where their wisdom is welcomed—not dismissed.

Let’s ride out of here not just moved—but mobilized.

Because a Proverbs 31 mom? She’s more than a motorcycle mechanic.

She’s a warrior. She’s a disciple. She’s a world-changer. She’s a reflection of God’s love on wheels.

Amen—and ride on!

Prayer

Father God, we thank you for the incredible women in our lives. For their strength, their love, their wisdom. Bless them, protect them, and guide them. Help us to honor them not just today, but every day. And help us all to live lives that are pleasing in your sight. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Final thought

Ride safe, love hard, and remember: the best journeys are always taken with a strong woman by your side. God bless!