Marriage Q&A

Communication

How do you get your spouse to actually hear you when you talk?

(e.g. convincing them to ditch their phone to communicate)

Why is communication between husband and wife still so hard after so many years?

What practical steps can spouses take to prioritize communication and resolve conflicts in a way that honors God?

Finances

Who has the final say on budget and spending? Does each partner have their own money??

(fun)

How do I convince my spouse to let me spend $1200 on new golf clubs, a new computer etc.?

How do I handle my spouse when they don't want a van but we need one?

What’s the best way to confess you “accidentally” spent the grocery budget on takeout without sparking a financial feud?

Conflict Resolution

How do you handle disagreements between your spouse and parents, in-laws, & family?

How do you handle Hot button topics, like politics, that both partners get heated immediately about?

(fun)

When you disagree on something trivial, like who gets the armrest during movie night, what's your go-to tiebreaker method—rock-paper-scissors, a staring contest, or just letting the wife win?"

(quick)

When we have small argument, why I always have to apologize even when I didn't start the argument. Is this wrong of me to feel this way?

Spiritual Walk

Did you ever struggle with you and your spouse being in different stages of your walk with Christ?

If so, how do you move forward to grow in togetherness?

How can a wife not feel so hopeless when the husband isn't following the Lord?

Can you give some tips on doing devotions and reading the Bible together when both partners have different learning styles?

Forgiveness

Have you ever gotten to the point where you were just done? If so, how did you get past it?

If it happens or has happened, how do you get over infidelity?

Relationship

Are sex toys ok?

How do you survive assembling IKEA furniture with your spouse without turning the living room into a battlefield or losing the tiny wrench thingy forever?

What practical steps do you both take daily to nurture your relationship and keep your marriage strong, especially during challenging times