Real Relationship Goals, Part 2

Ephesians 5:18–31 ESV

18 And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, 19 addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, 20 giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21 submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

Marriage is an exclusive heterosexual covenant between one man and one woman, ordained and sealed by God, preceded by the leaving of parents, consummated in sexual union, issuing in a permanent mutually supportive partnership, and normally crowned with the gift of children. “(Involvement,163)

PAST: YOU MOVE WITH POWER

Ephesians 5:18–21 ESV

And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.

PRESENT: YOU MOVE LIKE YOU ARE ONE PERSON

vs. 28 — One Body

SUBMISSION/RESPECT 5:22, 31

LOVE Ephesians 5:25

FUTURE: YOU MOVE LIKE THE GOAL IS HOLINESS IN CHRIST AND NOT MERE HAPPINESS IN YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES

Ephesians 5:26–27 ESV

that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.

What does Ephesians 5:18-21 teach about the importance of being filled with the Spirit compared to being drunk with wine?

How can singing psalms and hymns help you in your daily life, as suggested by the sermon?

What are some practical ways you can show love and respect to your parents and peers based on the message of submission and love?

How can couples today strive for mutual respect and love in their marriage according to the principles laid out in the sermon?