Flawed Heroes: Jacob

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Despite Jacob’s failures, he is included in the Hall of Faith highlighting the faithfulness of God in spite of our sin.

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Wrestling with Our Flaws: The Story of Jacob

Bible Passage: Genesis 25:19–34, Genesis 32:22–32, Hebrews 11:21

Introduction:

Today we get to talk about my favorite character and favorite story in the Bible, other than Jesus dying on the cross and resurrecting on the third day, adopting all those who believe into God’s family. Today we talk about the life of one of my heroes of the Bible, Jacob. His story is a tremendous depiction of God bringing someone home a great comeback story. I thought it would be fitting to tell you one of the greatest comeback stories I have witnessed. For the record, it doesn’t involve me. My freshman year of high school I had the pleasure of having my older brother as a teammate. We were both captains, which was even more fun. Through out the season we would lead the team in in wins, pins, and placing in tournaments. Then came the sectional tournament where we both made the finals, a very fun experience. I would face off against my rival from Moeller and he his rival from Hamilton, Danikos Allen. Allen was a beast among men. As a Junior in high school he looked like he had a mortgage and a family waiting for him at home. He was also just jacked beyond belief. He would become a starting linebacker for Michigan St in about three years after this. Kevin’s match did not fair very well. I think he lost by a 15 point technical fall. I remember my dad helping him over to the bleachers and telling him, “Don’t worry, we’ll get him next week.”
Fast forward one week at the District tournament, Kevin lost in an early round but battled back to what is known as the blood round. The round where if you win you get to go to the state tournament, if you lose, you take 5th or 6th place. Kevin had to go up against none other than Danikos Allen. Kevin was losing halfway through the second period when something changed. Allen’s eyes started to roll in the back of his head. He started to take more time to get back to the middle when the went out of bounds. Allen was tired. I still remember, Kevin needing one more takedown to take the lead, standing in the middle of the mat, doing the ole Rocky. Kevin would get the takedown, beat Allen, secure his spot in the state tournament, and shock the entire gymnasium.
As we consider Jacob’s life. We will see that he struggled and loss through out his entire life. In this series, Flawed, we will see how flawed Jacob was. No matter how hard he struggled his flaws kept him from actually winning. Jacob’s life gives us Four Facts For Flawed People.

Four Facts For Flawed People

1. Flawed People can be Chosen

Genesis 25:19–26

19 These are the family records of Isaac son of Abraham. Abraham fathered Isaac. 20 Isaac was forty years old when he took as his wife Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan-aram and sister of Laban the Aramean. 21 Isaac prayed to the LORD on behalf of his wife because she was childless. The LORD was receptive to his prayer, and his wife Rebekah conceived. 22 But the children inside her struggled with each other, and she said, “Why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the LORD. 23 And the LORD said to her:

Two nations are in your womb;

two peoples will come from you and be separated.

One people will be stronger than the other,

and the older will serve the younger.

24 When her time came to give birth, there were indeed twins in her womb. 25 The first one came out red-looking, covered with hair like a fur coat, and they named him Esau. 26 After this, his brother came out grasping Esau’s heel with his hand. So he was named Jacob., Isaac was sixty years old when they were born.

A. The birth of Jacob and Esau was somewhat miraculous and yet very foreboding
After 20 years of marriage, Rebekah was barren
Isaac prayed to God for her to have children, something he probably heard about his story
Rebekah became pregnant with twins
The twins fought each other in their mother’s womb, so much so Rebekah thought she was going to die
God told her that her two twin sons would become two different nations:
One would be stronger
The older would serve the younger
Esau was born first and he was hairy
His name means red, probably for red hair
Jacob was born second grasping his heel, showing they may have been fighting at the time of birth about who would come out first
Jacob name is a play on words in Hebrew for the word heel. Jacob’s name is likely an abbreviation translated: May God Protect or God will Protect
Grabbing the heel in this culture was an idiom for a supplanter
A supplanter is someone who takes the place of another, often through force, scheming, and strategy.
B. Jacob is the flawed choice according to the culture of the time
There are high expectations for both children.
Isaac’s half brother, Ishmael, had 12 sons who started 12 different tribes. Isaac, the promised son, who had no sons yet, just had 2.
In this culture:
Ishmael > Isaac
Esau > Jacob
C. God doesn’t care what the culture thinks of you. He wants His glory to shine through you.
I don’t know why God chose Jacob over Esau to be His chosen people. I do know that in this time God was overturning cultural and physical norms.
I tend to believe that God likes the underdog.
Moses couldn’t talk
David was a little shepherd boy
Jesus grew up in Galilee, a nothing town
D. You might feel like you are not good enough to be used by God, but that just simply isn’t true. God is often most glorified showing off in our inability.
God is always capable even when we aren’t.
You, too, are flawed but chosen.

2. Flawed Plans lead to Flawed Results

Genesis 25:27–34

27 When the boys grew up, Esau became an expert hunter, an outdoorsman, but Jacob was a quiet man who stayed at home. 28 Isaac loved Esau because he had a taste for wild game, but Rebekah loved Jacob.

29 Once when Jacob was cooking a stew, Esau came in from the field exhausted. 30 He said to Jacob, “Let me eat some of that red stuff, because I’m exhausted.” That is why he was also named Edom.

31 Jacob replied, “First sell me your birthright.”

32 “Look,” said Esau, “I’m about to die, so what good is a birthright to me?”

33 Jacob said, “Swear to me first.” So he swore to Jacob and sold his birthright to him. 34 Then Jacob gave bread and lentil stew to Esau; he ate, drank, got up, and went away. So Esau despised his birthright.

A. Esau became a “Man’s Man,” and outdoorsy kinda guy, which drew attention from his father Isaac.
Jacob was more domesticated. He most likely spent a lot of time indoors with his mom and became her favorite
One day Jacob cooks a stew
Esau comes in from working in the field
Esau wants some stew from Jacob
I’m sure Esau walked in and was so exhausted from work, maybe he skipped breakfast and was so hungry he was starving. I am sure the smell of the stew filled the room. It was probably like when my mom made stew when I was growing up. I would come home from school and walk in the front door, now my mom is a great cook and I always appreciate what she would make for us, but I didn’t like stew. Not just her stew, I don’t like anyone’s stew. But I would come in the front door and literally that is all you could smell. It hit you hard in the nose. I am sure Esau felt the same. After working hard in the field all day, coming home, smelt the stew being made, and probably had no escape from it.
I feel for Esau here, he was hungry and just like Snickers has taught us, you aren’t you when you’re hungry. So he was not thinking straight and traded his birthright for a bowl of stew. Esau didn’t even know exactly what it was. He calls it “red stuff.” Well the “red stuff” was lentil stew (no meat). This story would get around and Esau got the nickname, Edom, which means red.
A birthright was like an inheritance for the first born. Culturally the first born would get a double inheritance. In Esau’s case he would have received 2/3 of what Isaac owned. This is also the birthright of God’s promise to Abraham. The firstborn would be carrying on that legacy and as we see here, Esau was not so keen on that. He holds his birthright in low esteem Enough about Esau.
Jacob tricked Esau in a moment of weakness to get the birthright. Notice how he was calculated and lawyer-like. He made Esau swear before handing him the bowl.
Rather than trust God’s plan, Jacob felt he needed to take the reigns to get what he wanted. This will set a precedent the rest of his life. Jacob will struggle with anyone around him to get what he wants.
Later he will swindle Esau out of his father’s blessing. If you want to more on that story Pastor David preached on it just a few weeks ago, on June 8th. This would break the brothers and the family apart.
Jacob would go to Rebekah’s family to stay and deal with Laban. Laban like Jacob was a schemer. They go back and forth on all these deals, leaving Jacob with two wives- one he wanted and the other Hackneyed. Jacob and Laban’s relationship is one of distrust and backstabbing. Jacob is blessed and prospers at Laban’s expense. God is faithful in this time even though Jacob is not. Jacob may be growing in wealth, all of his relationships are broken.
B. Jacob struggles with trusting God
Genesis 27:20

20 But Isaac said to his son, “How did you ever find it so quickly, my son?”

He replied, “Because the LORD

Genesis 28:20-22

20 Then Jacob made a vow: “If God will be with me and watch over me during this journey I’m making, if he provides me with food to eat and clothing to wear, 21 and if I return safely to my father’s family, then the LORD will be my God. 22 This stone that I have set up as a marker will be God’s house, and I will give to you a tenth of all that you give me.”

After a tumultuous life with Laban, Jacob listens to God and returns home. He is confident in the Lord until he hears from his messengers that his brother Esau is on the way.
C. Trusting in our own strength and wisdom is flawed. Flawed plans will always lead to brokenness.
While Jacob was rich with material wealth, he was rich with broken relationships.
D. Trust in the Lord, His plan is good
Proverbs 3:5-6

5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart,

and do not rely on your own understanding;

6 in all your ways know him,

and he will make your paths straight.

3. Flaws can be Redeemed

Jacob calls out to God in humility. Not to make a deal with him, but in dependence on Him.
Genesis 32:9-12

9 Then Jacob said, “God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, the LORD who said to me, ‘Go back to your land and to your family, and I will cause you to prosper,’ 10 I am unworthy of all the kindness and faithfulness you have shown your servant. Indeed, I crossed over the Jordan with my staff, and now I have become two camps. 11 Please rescue me from my brother Esau, for I am afraid of him; otherwise, he may come and attack me, the mothers, and their children. 12 You have said, ‘I will cause you to prosper, and I will make your offspring like the sand of the sea, too numerous to be counted.’ ”

Genesis 32:22–31

22 During the night Jacob got up and took his two wives, his two slave women, and his eleven sons, and crossed the ford of Jabbok. 23 He took them and sent them across the stream, along with all his possessions.

24 Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. 25 When the man saw that he could not defeat him, he struck Jacob’s hip socket as they wrestled and dislocated his hip. 26 Then he said to Jacob, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.”

But Jacob said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.”

27 “What is your name?” the man asked.

“Jacob,” he replied.

28 “Your name will no longer be Jacob,” he said. “It will be Israel because you have struggled with God and with men and have prevailed.”

29 Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.”

But he answered, “Why do you ask my name?” And he blessed him there.

30 Jacob then named the place Peniel, “For I have seen God face to face,” he said, “yet my life has been spared.” 31 The sun shone on him as he passed by Penuel,—limping because of his hip.

A. Jacob has everything he owns or love between him and Esau. He sends everything ahead as a gift for Esau to appease him after all these years. He even instructed his servants to say they were bringing gifts and Jacob was behind him. I guess if Esau was still mad Jacob could get away easily.
Since he sends everyone ahead of him, Jacob is left alone on a river bank. Then a man comes and wrestles Jacob. Jacob would not give up against the man, even after the man tells him to let him go.
Jacob begs for a blessing from the man. The man changes his name to Israel because he struggled against God and man and prevailed, then blessed him.
Jacob asking for the blessing was his way of saying the man was superior to him. He needed the man’s blessing to continue on his mission. Jacob recognized the man he was struggling against was at least from God. He needed God’s favor to succeed and receive the promises of God. Jacob’s whole life was spent doing things his way but now he sees he needs to do things God’s way. He needed to accept HIs destiny. Jacob’s name and self had been redeemed. He was no longer the deceiver but now the one who struggles with God and man and prevails.
B. When we let God take control, He can redeem any situation, resolve any conflict, restore any loss.
This year has been a struggle for me personally. Honestly, this January I felt powerless, because there was nothing I could do. Cydney was 23 weeks pregnant and we found out that unless the doctors intervened, the baby was going to come extremely early. Every Monday I remember looking up the survival statistics and seeing what might happen if our baby came that week. But God had His hand on our little baby. I am thankful for all of the support and prayers from this church. I truly felt powerless but at peace in this time. God allowed Saoirse to stay in the womb for 8 more weeks. She was born at 31 weeks and two days. She weighed 2 pounds and 14 ounces. She looked so skinny and so frail. We weren’t allowed to hold her for a couple of days and when we did, I have never been more scared in my life.
Saoirse Brielle would spend the next 31 days in the NICU. I remember on day 30 they asked if we wanted to take her home the next morning which was a surprise to us. I didn’t know the car seat could go that tight when I put her in it. Through Saoirse’s first 5 months of life I have learned to trust God even more.

4. Flawed Lives can become Faithful Legacies

Hebrews 11:21

21 By faith Jacob, when he was dying, blessed each of the sons of Joseph, and he worshiped, leaning on the top of his staff.

A. Jacob blesses his grandsons in Egypt, putting his right hand on the younger-favoring the younger. He blesses them in the name of his God, his Shepherd. He passes the promise of God onto them, that they too would become numerous in the promised land.
B. Your testimony of what God has done in your life is the best thing you can pass down to your children and grandchildren. Jacob may have rejected the promises of God in his early life but fully accepted the responsibility of being a patriarch and passing on God’s promise to his grandchildren.
C. You don’t have to be perfect to be used by God, you just have to trust Him.
-Serving
-Giving
-Education
-Occupation
-Parenting
-Sharing your faith
D. Trust God’s plan and not your own. He is the one that will make it work out in the end.
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