When Jesus Invites You to Dinner
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When one of those reclining with Him heard this, he said to Jesus, “Blessed is everyone who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God.”
But Jesus replied, “A certain man prepared a great banquet and invited many guests.
When it was time for the banquet, he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’
But one after another they all began to make excuses. The first one said, ‘I have bought a field, and I need to go see it. Please excuse me.’
Another said, ‘I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I am going to try them out. Please excuse me.’
Still another said, ‘I have married a wife, so I cannot come.’
The servant returned and reported all this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and said to his servant, ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the city, and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’
‘Sir,’ the servant replied, ‘what you ordered has been done, and there is still room.’
So the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the highways and hedges and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full.
For I tell you, not one of those men who were invited will taste my banquet.’ ”
Jesus was in the middle of a Sabbath dinner that had grown more and more tense.
The tension had grown from the moment that Jesus had entered the room.
The tension had escalated when he had healed a man suffering from a physical ailment, then silenced his critics by exposing their tendency toward judgmentalism, pride and selfishness.
By now the tension must have been almost unbearable. It was then that someone in the room blurted out, Luke 14:15
“Blessed is everyone who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God.”
He tells the man who posed the question and all who were listening, “If you do not accept the invitation that is being given to you right now, you may find the door to kingdom shut in your face.”
Jesus now delivers “The Parable of the Great Banquet” to expose the true motivation and the desires of those who thought they had it made.
Note with me three things about this wonderful invitation of God.
1. GOD IS THE ONE EXTENDING THE INVITATION
(vv.16-17)
But Jesus replied, “A certain man prepared a great banquet and invited many guests.
When it was time for the banquet, he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’
The “certain man” of this story represents God.
It is interesting that this man representing God is preparing a great banquet or party.
God many times is presented as a tyrant who is stern and demanding, and that following God means a joyless existence.
If you look at many believers, you would think that the Christian life was a fast, a funeral, or a famine. Yet if you consider how God is constantly presented in the Bible, we come to understand that this is a false view, a distortion of the truth.
In Isaiah 55 God invites his people to not seek that, which does not satisfy but come to His table and “eat what is good, And let your soul delight in abundance” (v. 2).Isaiah 55:2
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Listen carefully to Me, and eat what is good, and your soul will delight in the richest of foods.
In the story of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32), God is the father who throws a party to celebrate the return of his son.
In the book of Revelation John tells us of the great party that God has waiting for his people called the “The Marriage Supper of the Lamb” (Revelation 19:9-10).
The “great supper” of this parable is a lavish, spectacular image of life in the kingdom of heaven.
It is not just a meal it is described as a “great” or “mega” banquet.
“Jesus called it a ‘great supper’ because it was planned and executed out of great love, it met a great need and it cost a great price.”
In this time period, two invitations were usually given to a party or a banquet.
The first was given well in advance, telling the date and time so that people could make plans to attend and then when everything was ready for the party to begin the servants were again sent out telling everyone, “come for all things are now ready” (v. 17).
This custom made perfect sense in the days when there were no telephones, no watches, or even the conveniences for preparing a huge meal.
In Israel’s history God’s first invitation came through Moses and the prophets and the second came through His son (Hebrews 1:1-2).
We are still proclaiming today that the party is ready. Now is the time to come, for soon the doors will be shut.
God Is The One Extending the Invitation but
2. GOD’S INVITATION CAN BE REFUSED
(vv. 18-20)
Since the invitation has “come” (v.17) it is suggestive of the responsibility a person has to act on God’s gracious invitation.
You might expect that everyone would enthusiastically respond to the invitation. But that is not the case.
Three of those who had previously accepted opted out of coming to the banquet.
Each of these individuals considers that he has a good excuse. These people do not reject the invitation because they were involved in bad activities.
These people simply thought they had other more important things to do.
Most of the people today who reject God’s gracious invitation do not do so because they are involved in some kind of gross immorality. They are just too involved in the everyday affairs of life and too busy to think seriously about spiritual things.
The excuses are given beginning in verse eighteen, Luke 14:18-20
But one after another they all began to make excuses. The first one said, ‘I have bought a field, and I need to go see it. Please excuse me.’
Another said, ‘I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I am going to try them out. Please excuse me.’
Still another said, ‘I have married a wife, so I cannot come.’
The text says, “they all began to make excuses.” That is, “They were one in the excuse they made,” which is to say that all three excuses were of the same spirit and essence.
All three excuses were pretexts. With a little effort each person could have made arrangements that would have enabled him to attend if he so desired.
What does that say about most of the times church members miss services?
Let’s take the time to examine each of the excuses, for that is what they are, excuses.
First, WE MAKE EXCUSES BECAUSE WE ARE PREOCCUPIED WITH THINGS!
(v. 18)
The first one said, ‘I have bought a field, and I need to go see it. Please excuse me.’
If the man had not previously seen this piece of land, how could he see what is like after dark? Seeing that he was invited to supper, which was the evening meal, it seems unlikely that he could see it now.
The man with the land did not say that he had not already seen it, he just was more concerned about his investments than his invitation to supper.
This man reminds us of the individuals in our day whose possessions demand all their attention, robbing them of spiritual wealth. The excuse makers were considered successful people in the eyes of their friends and associates but God considered them miserable failures.
Secondly, WE MAKE EXCUSES BECAUSE WE PUT MAKING A LIVING BEFORE GOD!
(v. 19) "I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I am going to test them. I ask you to have me excused.”
The ox purchase suggests that the man was wealthy, holding two to five times the amount of land of an average landowner.
This man represents all men who are so absorbed in their occupations that they leave leisure and spiritual pursuits completely out of their lives.
I know many of us know people who are married to their jobs and their family suffers for it.
The first two excuses had to do with material possessions and the third has to do with affections.
Third, WE MAKE EXCUSES BECAUSE WE CHOSE TO PUT OTHERS BEFORE GOD.
Still another said, ‘I have married a wife, so I cannot come.’
This man represents for those whose domestic cares and responsibilities control so much of their time as to rob them of any other pursuits or interests.
Family obligations, if rightfully undertaken and scripturally balanced, never keep us from God or fellowship with the church.
Many in our world today are invited to the gospel feast, but respond in much the same way as those described by Jesus over two thousand years ago.
In each case it was self-interest that prevented men from coming to Christ.
Our society is perhaps more permeated by self-interest than any other people who have ever lived.
People today make the same mistake that these people in the parable did; they delay in responding to the invitation because they settled for second best.
The point that Jesus is making is not that God will not accept lame excuses for rejecting His offer of celebration and abundant life, the point is that God will not accept any excuses, whether they are legitimate or not.
GOD’S INVITATION CAN BE REFUSED BUT
3. GOD IS ANGERED WITH OUR EXCUSES
(vv. 21-24)
No doubt each of those who declined thought only to delay the response and anticipated that there would be ample time for them to enjoy the benefits of the banquet at a latter time.
These three guests expected to get another invitation in the future, but invitation was never to come.
The parable continues by answering just such a thought in verse twenty-one and following. Luke 14:21
The servant returned and reported all this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry …
The master of the house, which represented God, became angry.
The truth is that we do not think often about the anger of God. But this parable tells how God feels about our excuses for rejecting his wonderful and costly offer of life. (Hebrews 2:3)
How did the host show his anger? He sent his servants to invite other guests.
He did not plead with the guests who had insulted him; he simply found others to take their place.
In the last part of verse twenty-one the host tells his servants, Luke 14:21
… ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the city, and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’
Those first invited (in v. 17) who refused to come, represented the general rejection of gospel by the nation of Israel.
It is a reminder to his audience that those are striving for first place in the kingdom better be certain that they are even going to make it at all.
The good news of verses 21-23 is that we are on the guest list.
No matter what you may have done, where you have done it or how many times you may have failed. You have been invited.
The blessing offered to the Jews can be experienced by the Gentiles and how the majority of the Jews can fail to grasp what God is doing and accept it is hard to fathom.
“Tony Campolo tells the story of a trip which he took to Hawaii. Jet lag kept him awake late into night and he went for a walk on the streets of Honolulu. At 2 in the morning, he found himself in a doughnut shop. Sitting at the counter, he overheard several prostitutes who were sharing a booth. One of the girls whose name was Agnes mentioned that it was her birthday.
After she had left, Tony turned to the cook and the other prostitutes and said, “Let’s throw a party for Agnes.” The other girls agreed to bring decorations and the cook said that he would bake a cake.
The next night, they all gathered at the shop and when Agnes walked in, they brought out the cake and began to sing, “Happy Birthday.” Tears streamed down Agnes’s face and, when it came time to cut the cake, she just stood there. Finally, she said, “Could I buy another cake and we eat that one? I want to take this one home and show it to my mother.”
With that, she took the cake and left. In the sudden silence that filled the shop after she left, Tony bowed his head and began to pray. “Lord, we thank you for Agnes and for your love for her. You loved her enough to send Your Son to die for her on the cross. We thank you for the best present of all - the present of your own Son. Amen.” When he raised his head, he saw that all of the prostitutes had their heads bowed and had been praying with him.
The cook looked at him and said, “You’re a preacher!” When Tony admitted that he was, the cook asked, “What kind of church do you have?” In a sudden flash of insight, Tony replied, “The kind that throws parties for prostitutes and gives invitations to sinners.”
Church what if we all got off our spiritual high horses and actually went to where the people needed us the most and we were to share the love of God? What would this world look like? What would our church look like?
In the parable the less desirable people are invited and still there is room, verse twenty-two,
‘Sir,’ the servant replied, ‘what you ordered has been done, and there is still room.’
So the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the highways and hedges and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full.
It is interesting to note that the first invitation in verse 17 was “come,” but when these refused the Master sent his servants out with the admonition in verse 21 to “bring in” the poor and the blind and the halt.
Not just the rejected lower classes of Israel were invited, for when there is still was room in verse 23, the servants are told to “go out into the highways and hedges and compel them to come in”.
Conclusion
Jesus’ closing words in verse twenty-four, Luke 14:24
For I tell you, not one of those men who were invited will taste my banquet.’ ”
most certainly must have settled a dark cloud of gloom over the guests.
This was a extremely personal confrontation.
Those present were portrayed in the parable as being originally invited to the banquet and the implication is that unless they repented they would not make into the kingdom.
It is sobering to consider that at that moment the only saved person in the room was Jesus.
They had received their two invitations, the first through the law and the prophets and the second in the person and message of Jesus and they would not accept it.
The message must be that we must not let anything stand in the way of responding to the invitation of Jesus. We must be careful not to presume that we will be given another opportunity. There are many excuses given for not responding to the gospel but the bottom-line is that they are just that, excuses.
So before we close today, make sure you have accepted your invitation to dinner.
PRAY
