The Abraham Story Part 25: Isaac’s Marriage to Rebekah

Isaac’s Marriage to Rebekah

This is the last stop before Abraham is sent the the grave.

Today we are going to be with Rivqah. Remember here name is the sounds of the work “blessing” in Hebrew, with the letters mixed up. And we're gonna follow her on her Abraham-like journey to the land of the new Eden. 

Genesis 24 is the story that we're looking at, and it's the longest chapter in the book of Genesis. It's the longest chapter in the Torah, 67 verses.

Part of what makes it long is that there is a moment in the story that happens, and then it's actually retold two times in almost the same amount of detail with little twists. And that actually is really on purpose. 

Seeing that it is so long I am going to read it all and then we are going to look at the themes, and and over view. If I miss the part you really want to talk about, because there is a lot here let me know.

So the opening movement Is going to begin with Avraham and just a figure called his servant.

The only servant that's been named in his house anywhere in the story was that guy named Eliezer back in chapter 15. So in Jewish tradition, this guy is just called Eliezer.

Though it doesn't say that, it's a fine inference.  What is interesting is, remember the ezer going all the way back to the garden is about the delivering help that is the provision of a wife, an other. And so the garden of Eden by the watery springs and the tree, and the provision of a wife for the seed of the woman so that the seed can continue, that's what this chapter's all about. Maybe it is this guy named My God is Ezer.

It could be that the narrator's just making you work for it, to recall the links. 

So it begins with Avraham and the servant. And the servant goes on a journey backtracking the actual path that Avraham took decades ago. And he goes to the land of two rivers, what it's called, Aram-Naharaim, the land of two rivers. And there, he meets a young woman at a well who's come to draw water. And he sets up this test.

God tested Avraham, the servant creates a test for God. He prays and he says, "Let's say I'll know that it's the right woman if I see her by this well and I ask her for a drink of water, and she says, 'I'll be happy to give you a drink of water and I will water your thirsty camels too.'" This is all what the servant says to God. And lo and behold, he sees a woman And, "May I have a drink?" "Absolutely, can I water your camels too?" And it's like, that's the whole scene. 

what's interesting is the woman goes back and tells her brother and her father. And then, when her brother comes out, his name is Lavan, and the guy says, "Hey, tell me your story." And he just retells verbatim the entire, like, the entire thing. And so you have the prayer version, you have what actually happened, and then you have the version that he retells to the father and the brother. 

So you just have to stop and say, somebody really wants to draw our attention to this sequence of events and why. And so we'll look at some things in the text for why that's significant. That's the reason why it's the longest chapter in the Torah, is because the same long event gets retold three times for an important purpose. 

Genesis 24 CSB

1 Abraham was now old, getting on in years, and the Lord had blessed him in everything. 2 Abraham said to his servant, the elder of his household who managed all he owned, “Place your hand under my thigh, 3 and I will have you swear by the Lord, God of heaven and God of earth, that you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites among whom I live, 4 but will go to my land and my family to take a wife for my son Isaac.” 5 The servant said to him, “Suppose the woman is unwilling to follow me to this land? Should I have your son go back to the land you came from?” 6 Abraham answered him, “Make sure that you don’t take my son back there. 7 The Lord, the God of heaven, who took me from my father’s house and from my native land, who spoke to me and swore to me, ‘I will give this land to your offspring’—he will send his angel before you, and you can take a wife for my son from there. 8 If the woman is unwilling to follow you, then you are free from this oath to me, but don’t let my son go back there.” 9 So the servant placed his hand under his master Abraham’s thigh and swore an oath to him concerning this matter. 10 The servant took ten of his master’s camels, and with all kinds of his master’s goods in hand, he went to Aram-naharaim, to Nahor’s town. 11 At evening, the time when women went out to draw water, he made the camels kneel beside a well outside the town. 12 “Lord, God of my master Abraham,” he prayed, “make this happen for me today, and show kindness to my master Abraham. 13 I am standing here at the spring where the daughters of the men of the town are coming out to draw water. 14 Let the girl to whom I say, ‘Please lower your water jug so that I may drink,’ and who responds, ‘Drink, and I’ll water your camels also’—let her be the one you have appointed for your servant Isaac. By this I will know that you have shown kindness to my master.” 15 Before he had finished speaking, there was Rebekah—daughter of Bethuel son of Milcah, the wife of Abraham’s brother Nahor—coming with a jug on her shoulder. 16 Now the girl was very beautiful, a virgin—no man had been intimate with her. She went down to the spring, filled her jug, and came up. 17 Then the servant ran to meet her and said, “Please let me have a little water from your jug.” 18 She replied, “Drink, my lord.” She quickly lowered her jug to her hand and gave him a drink. 19 When she had finished giving him a drink, she said, “I’ll also draw water for your camels until they have had enough to drink.” 20 She quickly emptied her jug into the trough and hurried to the well again to draw water. She drew water for all his camels 21 while the man silently watched her to see whether or not the Lord had made his journey a success. 22 As the camels finished drinking, the man took a gold ring weighing half a shekel, and for her wrists two bracelets weighing ten shekels of gold. 23 “Whose daughter are you?” he asked. “Please tell me, is there room in your father’s house for us to spend the night?” 24 She answered him, “I am the daughter of Bethuel son of Milcah, whom she bore to Nahor.” 25 She also said to him, “We have plenty of straw and feed and a place to spend the night.” 26 Then the man knelt low, worshiped the Lord, 27 and said, “Blessed be the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who has not withheld his kindness and faithfulness from my master. As for me, the Lord has led me on the journey to the house of my master’s relatives.” 28 The girl ran and told her mother’s household about these things. 29 Now Rebekah had a brother named Laban, and Laban ran out to the man at the spring. 30 As soon as he had seen the ring and the bracelets on his sister’s wrists, and when he had heard his sister Rebekah’s words—“The man said this to me!”—he went to the man. He was standing there by the camels at the spring. 31 Laban said, “Come, you who are blessed by the Lord. Why are you standing out here? I have prepared the house and a place for the camels.” 32 So the man came to the house, and the camels were unloaded. Straw and feed were given to the camels, and water was brought to wash his feet and the feet of the men with him. 33 A meal was set before him, but he said, “I will not eat until I have said what I have to say.” So Laban said, “Please speak.” 34 “I am Abraham’s servant,” he said. 35 “The Lord has greatly blessed my master, and he has become rich. He has given him flocks and herds, silver and gold, male and female slaves, and camels and donkeys. 36 Sarah, my master’s wife, bore a son to my master in her old age, and he has given him everything he owns. 37 My master put me under this oath: ‘You will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites in whose land I live 38 but will go to my father’s family and to my clan to take a wife for my son.’ 39 But I said to my master, ‘Suppose the woman will not come back with me?’ 40 He said to me, ‘The Lord before whom I have walked will send his angel with you and make your journey a success, and you will take a wife for my son from my clan and from my father’s family. 41 Then you will be free from my oath if you go to my family and they do not give her to you—you will be free from my oath.’ 42 “Today when I came to the spring, I prayed: Lord, God of my master Abraham, if only you will make my journey successful! 43 I am standing here at a spring. Let the young woman who comes out to draw water, and I say to her, ‘Please let me drink a little water from your jug,’ 44 and who responds to me, ‘Drink, and I’ll draw water for your camels also’—let her be the woman the Lord has appointed for my master’s son. 45 “Before I had finished praying silently, there was Rebekah coming with her jug on her shoulder, and she went down to the spring and drew water. So I said to her, ‘Please let me have a drink.’ 46 She quickly lowered her jug from her shoulder and said, ‘Drink, and I’ll water your camels also.’ So I drank, and she also watered the camels. 47 Then I asked her, ‘Whose daughter are you?’ She responded, ‘The daughter of Bethuel son of Nahor, whom Milcah bore to him.’ So I put the ring on her nose and the bracelets on her wrists. 48 Then I knelt low, worshiped the Lord, and blessed the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who guided me on the right way to take the granddaughter of my master’s brother for his son. 49 Now, if you are going to show kindness and faithfulness to my master, tell me; if not, tell me, and I will go elsewhere.” 50 Laban and Bethuel answered, “This is from the Lord; we have no choice in the matter. 51 Rebekah is here in front of you. Take her and go, and let her be a wife for your master’s son, just as the Lord has spoken.” 52 When Abraham’s servant heard their words, he bowed to the ground before the Lord. 53 Then he brought out objects of silver and gold, and garments, and gave them to Rebekah. He also gave precious gifts to her brother and her mother. 54 Then he and the men with him ate and drank and spent the night. When they got up in the morning, he said, “Send me to my master.” 55 But her brother and mother said, “Let the girl stay with us for about ten days. Then she can go.” 56 But he responded to them, “Do not delay me, since the Lord has made my journey a success. Send me away so that I may go to my master.” 57 So they said, “Let’s call the girl and ask her opinion.” 58 They called Rebekah and said to her, “Will you go with this man?” She replied, “I will go.” 59 So they sent away their sister Rebekah with the one who had nursed and raised her, and Abraham’s servant and his men. 60 They blessed Rebekah, saying to her: Our sister, may you become thousands upon ten thousands. May your offspring possess the city gates of their enemies. 61 Then Rebekah and her female servants got up, mounted the camels, and followed the man. So the servant took Rebekah and left. 62 Now Isaac was returning from Beer-lahai-roi, for he was living in the Negev region. 63 In the early evening Isaac went out to walk in the field, and looking up he saw camels coming. 64 Rebekah looked up, and when she saw Isaac, she got down from her camel 65 and asked the servant, “Who is that man in the field coming to meet us?” The servant answered, “It is my master.” So she took her veil and covered herself. 66 Then the servant told Isaac everything he had done. 67 And Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah and took Rebekah to be his wife. Isaac loved her, and he was comforted after his mother’s death.

Verses 1-4

"Now Avraham was old, going on in days, and Yahweh had blessed Avraham in everything.

Avraham said to his servant, that is the old one over his house, the one who ruled overall that belonged to him." In other words, his image or his representative.

"Place your hand under my thigh, so that I can make you swear an oath by Yahweh. Yahweh is the Elohim of the skies and the Elohim of the land. And here's what I make you swear.

Do not take a woman for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites in whose midst I am dwelling. Rather, to my land and to my family," you recognize those words, leave your land and leave your family, it's exactly the inverse, "back to my land and back to my family, you will go and you will take a wife or a woman for Yitskhaq."

So here's Avraham. He's sitting in the new Eden. He just got the sweet little cave of the naked pair. He's got his hilltop overlooking the field by Mamre. And he's blessed. So here is the new Adam with his recently deceased Eve, buried, right, just below the hill. And he's enjoying God's blessing.

And what he notices is that in the new Eden, there's some seed you don't want to be a part of. And so what he needs to do is to make sure that his son is going to have a wife who comes from the same seed that he does. That's the idea here. So just stop. He's in the new Eden and he looks at the inhabitants of Eden and he's like, yeah, this will not go well here.

The role of the Canaanites, think of the role that the Canaanites will come to play later in promised land.

And then there's also these tempting, that snake in the garden. And so the idea that there are enemies in the garden that need to be subdued, that comes to be the pattern or the template, so to speak, of how the Canaanites fit in. 

And the whole theme of don't intermarry and keep the seed within the chosen line, that's where all, this whole theme emerges. It often strikes modern readers as either antiquated or deeply offensive. and people have to process through all of those things. And it's one of those issues again, where I wanna first make sure I'm in tune with the value set and the story here and what it's trying to say. But at the same time, you can't ignore that when you read these stories in our context, the idea of the purity of the seed and the purity of the family line that can't be contaminated, these are very sensitive topics. And crucially important topics in our world.

So that's his, the motif of where we're at here is that the Canaanites are like the temptation in the garden, and he wants to provide for his future seed. 

Under the Thigh

The thigh was considered the source of posterity in the ancient world. Or, more properly, the “loins” or the testicles. The phrase “under the thigh” could be a euphemism for “on the loins.” There are two reasons why someone would take an oath in this manner: 1) Abraham had been promised a “seed” by God, and this covenantal blessing was passed on to his son and grandson. Abraham made his trusted servant swear “on the seed of Abraham” that he would find a wife for Isaac. 2) Abraham had received circumcision as the sign of the covenant (Genesis 17:10). Our custom is to swear on a Bible; the Hebrew custom was to swear on circumcision, the mark of God’s covenant. The idea of swearing on one’s loins is found in other cultures, as well. The English word testify is directly related to the word testicles. Jewish tradition also offers a different interpretation. According to Rabbi Ibn Ezra, the phrase “under the thigh” means literally that. For someone to allow his hand to be sat on was a sign of submission to authority. If this is the symbolism, then Joseph was showing his obedience to his father by placing his hand under Jacob’s thigh.

If it is about the seed and he places his hand near the seed, it does make since, even if it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Verses 5-9

So the servant said to him, "Okay, all right, it sounds like a good plan. But let's say the the woman that I meet won't be willing to go after me to this land. Should I return your son back to the land from which you came, take him out of Eden?"  

Avraham said, "Keep watch, don't return my son to there. Yahweh, the Elohim of the skies who took me from the house of my father and the land of my family," you see that language again? "He spoke to me and swore an oath saying, 'to your seed, I'll give this land.' He will send his messenger before you." So God's messenger will go with you.

Now this is interesting, because God's messengers played key roles in other stories, like showed up and hung out and had meals and so on.

And no messenger ever appears in the story.

Does that mean the messenger isn't there?

It's an interesting feature of the story.

Avraham's certain that God's guiding presence and messengers will be there, making sure the right things happen at the right time. But actually, this is the only time you hear about it.

"'So he'll send his messenger before you, so you can take a woman for my son from there. And if the woman doesn't wanna go, well, then you're innocent from the oath. Just don't take my son out of the land.'

Two Rivers

The servant goes and he had all this wealth, all this stuff. And he goes to the land of, most of our translations say Aram Naharaim.

"Naharaim" is the word "two rivers," two rivers. Now just stop and remember, there's that one odd little detail in Genesis 2 about how there was a river that flowed out of Eden. And then, once it left the borders of Eden, it separated and then became four.

Genesis 2:10–14 NASB95

10 Now a river flowed out of Eden to water the garden; and from there it divided and became four rivers. 11 The name of the first is Pishon; it flows around the whole land of Havilah, where there is gold. 12 The gold of that land is good; the bdellium and the onyx stone are there. 13 The name of the second river is Gihon; it flows around the whole land of Cush. 14 The name of the third river is Tigris; it flows east of Assyria. And the fourth river is the Euphrates.

The first name of the river was Gusher or Pishon, it means gusher in Hebrew. And it flows down to the realm of Egypt.

Great gold and beautiful stones in that land. The second river is the river of Gihon and it flows around the land of Kush, also associated with lower Egypt. But Gihon is the name of the spring that provides water to Jerusalem. That's interesting. Gihon also means like spurter or gusher, it's the word for "spurt and gush."

The name of the third river is the Tigris. It goes into Mesopotamia to Assyria. 

And the fourth river is the Euphrates.

There's two rivers that go towards Mesopotamia. In fact, the word "Mesopotamia" means between the rivers. So the two rivers, or the rivers Tigris and Euphrates, that lead to, one goes to Assyria, one goes to Babylon.

So where is this guy going? He's leaving Eden and he's following the two rivers,  That's the symbolic geography at work here.

Verses 10-28

So he goes outside the city. This is a long trip, and it's like he's just there in a narrative flash. And there at the well of water by the rivers of Eden, he meets a woman.

Genesis 24:12 CSB

12 “Lord, God of my master Abraham,” he prayed, “make this happen for me today, and show kindness to my master Abraham.

And look what he says. He kneels down at the well and he says, "Please make it happen today." This is a fascinating little word.

In English, we have vocabulary of chance or coincidence.

These are kind of our main words for when we talk about things we didn't plan and that were surprising, and that you look at with retrospect, and you're like, "Wow, that's really interesting." Or a coincidence or whatever. We have language for these kinds of things. 

So the word for that in Hebrew is "a happening." A happening. And so, what he says is "Make a happening happen today." You know, just one of those happenings.

And I'm right here by this wonderful spring, by the rivers of Eden. And what would be amazing is if I could meet the young woman right here who would become the wife. Could you make a happening happen?

Genesis 24:15 CSB

15 Before he had finished speaking, there was Rebekah—daughter of Bethuel son of Milcah, the wife of Abraham’s brother Nahor—coming with a jug on her shoulder.

"And it came about," verse 15, "before he even finished saying his words," ta-da, it's like big spotlight, Rivqah. 

Now, you need to remember, she was born to Bethuel, the son of Queen, the wife of Nahor. And if you're not getting it yet, it's the brother of Abraham's daughter.

Remember that was that little, those little notes right there. And on you go.

So where is, Avraham said, "the messenger of God, the angels will be with you." And the angels don't appear on the narrative foreground, but this is teaching us that even when you don't see visible presence of God's supernatural ordering of events, that doesn't mean God's not doing anything.

'Cause most of us don't ever see that stuff. What we see are happenings happening.

this is a really sophisticated way of exploring how we experience, or sometimes don't feel like we're experiencing, God's providence. Like in theory, you know that God's working things out and that there's some master plan. But most of the time, we're, like, operating in the dark, or feel like we are. And then you have, once in a while you have these happenings happen. And this is one of the happenings happening.

Ruth 2:1–4 CSB

1 Now Naomi had a relative on her husband’s side. He was a prominent man of noble character from Elimelech’s family. His name was Boaz. 2 Ruth the Moabitess asked Naomi, “Will you let me go into the fields and gather fallen grain behind someone with whom I find favor?” Naomi answered her, “Go ahead, my daughter.” 3 So Ruth left and entered the field to gather grain behind the harvesters. She happened to be in the portion of the field belonging to Boaz, who was from Elimelech’s family. 4 Later, when Boaz arrived from Bethlehem, he said to the harvesters, “The Lord be with you.” “The Lord bless you,” they replied.

The book of Ruth is all into Genesis 24, so many neat little hyperlinks where this particular moment about the happening happening is when Ruth and Naomi go back into the land and Ruth said to Naomi, "You know, we need food." We need to eat some food. And so she departed and went and gleaned in a field after the reapers. And it just so happened, it's that word, and a happening just happened, that she ended up in the field belonging to Boaz, who's of the family of her mother-in-law Naomi. Yeah, so it's the same thing except this time, it's the woman having the happening happening and she meets the man in the field, which is the inverse of this little scene here in Genesis 24.

So it's a meditation on God's providence, even when you don't see God at work. 

The book of Esther just goes full charge on this and just doesn't even mention God once in the whole story. God's not even talked about. But the subtext for everything in the story is these happenings keep happening.

And this is the seed bed, this story right here. That little scene is the seed bed of that motif.

So think of where, let's just back up and think of the previous story. The previous story was about the provision of a little Eden spot as a future possession for the promised seed. Next chapter, what happens after the land and the garden is planted? You've got a human in the land but no good, there's no counterpart for the seed.

And so God provides a ezer, a delivering help.

This whole long chapter is this meditation and development of the provision of the ezer by the rivers of Eden. So it's like 10 verses in the Eden story that turns into the longest chapter in the Torah. And it's what this whole thing is about, God's gracious provision of delivering help that Avraham and the servant can't do. They can't provide this. Only a happening happening will be able to make this come together.

Blessings From Beginning to End

Genesis 24:50–51 CSB

50 Laban and Bethuel answered, “This is from the Lord; we have no choice in the matter. 51 Rebekah is here in front of you. Take her and go, and let her be a wife for your master’s son, just as the Lord has spoken.”

She comes in onto the scene, "Can I give you some water? Let me water your camels." "Oh my God," he's just staring there going, like, "Oh, I can't believe it." And so he meets her father and her brother, and they say, "If you want to ask her to come marry Yitskhaq, go ahead and ask her." So okay. Verse 50.

"Lavan and Bethuel, brother and father said, 'Wow, wow.

Everything you just told us sounds like the word of Yahweh.'" That's what they say. "'This sounds like Yahweh has been at work. You know what, we can't say anything good or bad about this. Rivqah is before you. Take her. Go. And she can become a wife for the son of your master, just as Yahweh has spoken his word. Yahweh speaks a word and the ezer is provided.'

Genesis 24:52–67 NASB95

52 When Abraham’s servant heard their words, he bowed himself to the ground before the Lord. 53 The servant brought out articles of silver and articles of gold, and garments, and gave them to Rebekah; he also gave precious things to her brother and to her mother. 54 Then he and the men who were with him ate and drank and spent the night. When they arose in the morning, he said, “Send me away to my master.” 55 But her brother and her mother said, “Let the girl stay with us a few days, say ten; afterward she may go.” 56 He said to them, “Do not delay me, since the Lord has prospered my way. Send me away that I may go to my master.” 57 And they said, “We will call the girl and consult her wishes.” 58 Then they called Rebekah and said to her, “Will you go with this man?” And she said, “I will go.” 59 Thus they sent away their sister Rebekah and her nurse with Abraham’s servant and his men. 60 They blessed Rebekah and said to her, “May you, our sister, Become thousands of ten thousands, And may your descendants possess The gate of those who hate them.” 61 Then Rebekah arose with her maids, and they mounted the camels and followed the man. So the servant took Rebekah and departed. 62 Now Isaac had come from going to Beer-lahai-roi; for he was living in the Negev. 63 Isaac went out to meditate in the field toward evening; and he lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, camels were coming. 64 Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac she dismounted from the camel. 65 She said to the servant, “Who is that man walking in the field to meet us?” And the servant said, “He is my master.” Then she took her veil and covered herself. 66 The servant told Isaac all the things that he had done. 67 Then Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and he took Rebekah, and she became his wife, and he loved her; thus Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.

So it came about when the servant of Avraham heard their words, he bowed and worshiped Yahweh and he brought out all of these goodies, silver and gold," 'cause by the rivers of Eden, there's lots of jewels and gold, yeah?

"And he gave them to Rivqah, and he gave gifts to everybody. They had this Eden-like feast there.

They got up in the morning, and he said, 'Please send me off to my master.' And they said, that is her brother and mother, 'Oh, let the young woman dwell with us a few days or 10.

After that, she can go.'

And he said, 'Well, man, you're slowing me down here. Listen, Yahweh paved the way here. Can we please go back?' And they said, 'Well, let's call the young woman. Whatever she says, we'll ask her.'"

So this is the moment. This is Rivqah's moment. "They called Rivqah and they said to her, 'Will you go?' And she says, 'I will go.'"

Think back all the way back to the Avraham story. "Get yourself going." It's the first words that God said to Avraham, get yourself going from your land and family to a land and family. And it was very brief. It was just like this.

"And Avraham went, just as Yahweh had spoken." And so here, Yahweh has spoken and she just says, "Yeah, I'll go."

"So they sent Rivqah their sister, her nursemaid, the servant of Avraham, his men, and they blessed Rivqah." So the word for bless is "berakah," which is again, the letters of Rivqah,berakah, Rivqah. So they berakah Rivqah. 

And they say to her, "Oh, sister, may you become in 2 thousands of 10 thousands." 1,000 times 10,000 is a million. A lot. "Oh Rivqah, may you become revavah." May Rivqah become revavah, 10 thousands. "May your seed possess the gates of its enemies," of those who hate you.

Does that ring a bell?

That's almost exactly what God said to Avraham after he gave up, surrendered over Isaac, "Your seed will possess the gate of their enemies."

"So she got up, she rode," the word "ride" is also the letters of Rivqah's name and the letters of the word "blessing" mixed up. Just blessing. There's blessing oozing out of this chapter every way in the names. 

"And they went after the man and they took Rivqah and he went."

"Now, Yitskhaq, he was going from the entrance of Beer Lahai Roi." Anybody, do you remember? Do you remember that spot? It means the well of the living one who sees me. Do you remember? Do you remember that spot? 

That was where God met Hagar the first time.

"And he was dwelling in the land of the Negev. And well, he went out to urinate in the field right around evening." None of your English translations say urinate. What they say is he went out to meditate or walk in the field.

it's an odd Hebrew word. 

Gary Rendsburg, the Semitic scholar suggest. It means "urinate." It's used a couple other times, a cognate word in the Hebrew Bible for when Saul goes to relieve himself in the cave. When Elijah's poking fun at Baal and saying, well, maybe he's relieving himself. He'll come back later. In other forms it prayer or covering your feet.

"Yitskhaq went out to urinate, or meditate, or pray, or walk in the field."

"Yitskhaq went out to whatever in the field as it turned to evening, and he lifted his eyes and he saw camels." Camera shift, "Rivqah lifted her eyes and she saw Yitskhaq and she fell off her camel."

All our English translation say she got down from, it's the word "fall." So the whole point is like, it's a little comedy of errors here. He doesn't like going to the bathroom. And she is like, "What, wha, oh!"

"And so, she said to the servant, 'Who's that man walking to meet us in the field?' 'Oh, that's my master. That's the guy you're gonna marry.'" And so think Eden, "She took a veil and she covered herself." It's a positive sign. She's preparing herself for marriage. 

"So the servant told everything, all the things that he did. Yitskhaq brought her into the tent of Sarah, his mother. He took Rivqah, she became his wife, and he loved her."

The words "vayevi’eha," and "he brought her," and the words "he loved her," it's the same letters, different mark around. Vayevi’eha. He brought her. Vaye’ehaveha. And he loved her. "And he was comforted after the death of his mother." So it's a beautiful story. It's as beautiful as the provision of the ezer in in the garden of Eden.

Rivqah: Avraham’s Counterpart in the Next Generation

Rivqah is Abraham's counterpart. Everything that Avraham did to leave his land, the faith, the promise of blessing, it's all duplicated here in this story, down to the vocabulary.

the word "blessing" occurs five times in God's first speech to Avraham. The word "blessing" occurs seven times in this chapter, Genesis 24. She is the Avraham of the next generation. 

Sarah’s death signals the passing away of Avraham’s generation. How will the next generation participate in the ongoing coveant promises of Yahweh? For Avraham, the question of seed is paramount. The chosen son has no counterpart, even though Avraham finds himself in a state of blessing. This story foregrounds the miraculous nature of Rivqah’s entry into Avraham’s family, and it also highlights her own faithfulness by portraying her as a female counterpart to Avraham.

Lifted up the Eyes

"they lifted their eyes and they saw," you can do a lot of things. At the most basic, it's about highlighting a character's perception and what they think of it, which may not seem very interesting, but this whole story is gonna be how good are humans at truly perceiving reality? 

Think on all the way back to the tree. "And she saw that the tree was good." Well, good for what? Well, good for eating. No, it will kill you. It's not good for eating. It's desirable for gaining wisdom. No, real wisdom is fearing the Lord and doing what he said. 

So the whole premise of the Eden and the tree moment and the test is that humans have a problem perceiving reality.

And so, very often, this language will come in a Eden beat of a story where it's highlighting people's perception. And sometimes it's really charged. 

And then other times like this, I think it's a way of adding to narrative drama, of putting you in the perspective of the characters. 

Not Chosen But Blessed

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