Building Relationships that Last
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Lot’s of things in Life Change
Lot’s of things in Life Change
One Thing Never Changes - God’s Everlasting Love for YOU
One Thing Never Changes - God’s Everlasting Love for YOU
Long ago the LORD said to Israel:
“I have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love.
With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself.
The Message Chapter 31
“I’ve never quit loving you and never will.
This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you.
How Do You Practice Everlasting Love - Is it Possible?
How Do You Practice Everlasting Love - Is it Possible?
Love is a Choice
Love is a Choice
4 Choices that Lead to Everlasting Love
4 Choices that Lead to Everlasting Love
Love never stops being patient, never stops believing, never stops hoping, never gives up.
1. LASTING LOVE EXTENDS GRACE
1. LASTING LOVE EXTENDS GRACE
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
We Need to Extend Grace to People When Their FLAWS AND FAULTS IRRITATE ME
We Need to Extend Grace to People When Their FLAWS AND FAULTS IRRITATE ME
Love forgets mistakes; nagging about them parts the best of friends.
If you want people to like you, forgive them when they wrong you. Remembering wrongs can break up a friendship.
Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.
We need to Extend Grace to People WHEN THEIR WORDS HURT ME
We need to Extend Grace to People WHEN THEIR WORDS HURT ME
GRACE LISTENS
GRACE LISTENS
Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.
Lasting Love Does NOT Hold onto Anger
Lasting Love Does NOT Hold onto Anger
Love forgets mistakes; nagging about them parts the best of friends.
Hatred stirs up trouble,
but love forgives all wrongs.
If you are sensible, you will control your temper. When someone wrongs you, it is a great virtue to ignore it.
We Need to Extend Grace to People WHEN THEY SIN
We Need to Extend Grace to People WHEN THEY SIN
Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins.
Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.
I MUST CHOOSE TO EXTEND GRACE OVER AND OVER
I MUST CHOOSE TO EXTEND GRACE OVER AND OVER
2. LASTING LOVE EXPRESSES FAITH
2. LASTING LOVE EXPRESSES FAITH
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
Studies Show that it’s better to be trusting than Not.
Studies Show that it’s better to be trusting than Not.
If you want a Love that Lasts, Trust Your Spouse
If you want a Love that Lasts, Trust Your Spouse
So then, let us aim for harmony in the church and try to build each other up.
Constantly Cheer Each Other On
Constantly Cheer Each Other On
What Do You Do When You Can’t Trust Your Spouse?
What Do You Do When You Can’t Trust Your Spouse?
You Trust the Lord
You Trust the Lord
O my people, trust in him at all times.
Pour out your heart to him,
for God is our refuge.
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Whoever Loves, believes the impossible - Elizabeth Barrett Browning
I MUST CHOOSE TO EXPRESS FAITH IN PEOPLE EVERY DAY
I MUST CHOOSE TO EXPRESS FAITH IN PEOPLE EVERY DAY
3. LASTING LOVE EXPECTS THE BEST
3. LASTING LOVE EXPECTS THE BEST
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
You don’t change bad behavior into good behavior by telling people they are bad. You change bad behavior into good behavior by helping them see wha they could become
Treat People Like You Want Them to Become
Treat People Like You Want Them to Become
If you love someone, you will be loyal to him no matter what the cost. You will always believe in him, always expect the best of him, and always stand your ground in defending him.
So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing.
Do You Know the Number 1 Killer of Marriages?
Do You Know the Number 1 Killer of Marriages?
It’s NEGLECT
It’s NEGLECT
I MUST CHOOSE TO EXPECT THE BEST FROM THEM EVERY DAY
I MUST CHOOSE TO EXPECT THE BEST FROM THEM EVERY DAY
4. LASTING LOVE ENDURES THE WORST
4. LASTING LOVE ENDURES THE WORST
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
“A despairing man should have the devotion of his friends,
even though he forsakes the fear of the Almighty.
“When desperate people give up on God Almighty,
their friends, at least, should stick with them.