Living Out Genuine Christian Love
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Hebrews 13:1-8
When you read through the book of Hebrews, it’s like climbing this great mountain.
Each chapter takes you higher in your understanding of who Jesus is.
By the time you reach chapter 12, you’re standing on the peak — and you can see the greatness of Christ, our High Priest, our Mediator, and the Author and Finisher of our faith.
But now, in chapter 13, the writer turns from the mountain peak of theology to the plain path of daily living.
He reminds us that what we believe should affect how we behave.
You could say that Hebrews 13 is where doctrine puts on work boots.
The Christian life is not just about knowing Christ — it’s about showing Christ.
After twelve chapters of deep teaching, the writer closes by giving a list of practical instructions — not as random commands, but as a portrait of a life shaped by love.
It’s interesting that the very first command in this section is about love.
He doesn’t begin by telling us to preach, serve, or sacrifice — but to love.
Verse 1 says, “Let brotherly love continue.”
Why start there?
Because love is the foundation of every other Christian virtue.
Jesus said in John 13:35,
35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
If we fail to love, we fail to represent Christ.
This passage shows that genuine love isn’t just an emotion; it’s a daily expression of faith in action.
It affects our relationships, our morality, our contentment, and our trust in Christ.
Warren Wiersbe once said, “Faith in God’s Word ought to make us faithful to God’s work.”
When our hearts are right with Christ, our behavior will reflect His character.
That’s what this passage is all about — controlling our personal behavior by living out genuine Christian love.
This kind of love is active, not abstract.
It’s visible in how we treat others, how we guard our purity, and how we rest in the unchanging presence of Jesus Christ.
Love is the evidence that our faith is real.
As we walk through these verses, we’ll see four ways genuine Christian love is to be lived out in the believer’s life.
I. Love Expressed Toward the Brethren
I. Love Expressed Toward the Brethren
1 Let brotherly love continue.
2 Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
3 Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body.
The first expression of genuine Christian love is directed toward those that are within the family of God.
The writer begins with a simple but profound command: “Let brotherly love continue.”
That word “brotherly” comes from the Greek *philadelphia* — affection among members of the same spiritual family.
This love is not a one-time act; it’s an ongoing attitude.
The word “continue” means to keep it alive, to maintain it.
Love among believers doesn’t happen by accident — it must be intentional.
It’s the kind of love that forgives quickly, serves willingly, and prays faithfully.
Jesus said in John 13:34,
34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
That means our love for others is measured by Christ’s love for us.
A. Love That Endures
A. Love That Endures
Love that endures stays steady even when people disappoint us.
Every church family faces misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
We can’t control how others act, but we can control how we respond.
Enduring love refuses to give up on people.
Romans 12:10 says,
10 Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;
That verse reminds us that love chooses to honor others above ourselves.
It doesn’t insist on being right — it insists on doing right.
Enduring love is patient with people who are still growing.
It overlooks small offenses and keeps the focus on unity in Christ.
Proverbs 10:12 says,
12 Hatred stirreth up strifes: But love covereth all sins.
If you want to keep peace in the church, keep love alive.
When brotherly love endures, it creates a spiritual environment where the Holy Spirit can freely work.
A church that loves one another will be a church that God blesses.
B. Love That Extends
B. Love That Extends
Verse 2 says, “Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.”
So now we see that love extended outside the bounds of the church family.
True Love doesn’t stop with familiar faces.
It reaches beyond our comfort zones to those who need a friend.
Just speaking of the early church, hospitality was not just polite — it was necessary.
Traveling believers often depended on the kindness of other Christians for food and lodging.
To “entertain strangers” literally means to show love to the unknown.
It’s the same spirit seen in Abraham when he welcomed three visitors who turned out to be heavenly messengers (Genesis 18:1–3).
1 And the Lord appeared unto him in the plains of Mamre: and he sat in the tent door in the heat of the day;
2 And he lift up his eyes and looked, and, lo, three men stood by him: and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent door, and bowed himself toward the ground,
3 And said, My Lord, if now I have found favour in thy sight, pass not away, I pray thee, from thy servant:
That’s why the writer adds, “for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.”
When we show kindness, we never know how far that act of love might reach.
Matthew 25:35 records Jesus saying,
35 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
Hospitality isn’t just opening your home; it’s opening your heart.
Every act of love extended toward others is an act of love offered to Christ.
The writer continues in verse 3, “Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body.”
Love that extends also reaches the hurting.
The word “remember” means more than “think about” — it means “identify with.”
It’s the kind of love that enters into someone’s pain.
When a brother or sister is suffering, love says, “I’m here with you.”
Galatians 6:2 says,
2 Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
When we share in the burdens of others, we display the compassion of Jesus.
In the first century, many believers were imprisoned or persecuted for their faith.
Those on the outside risked their own safety to care for them.
That’s the kind of love that costs something — the kind that reflects Calvary’s love.
In 1555, two English reformers, Hugh Latimer and Nicholas Ridley, were burned at the stake for preaching the gospel.
As the flames were being lit, Latimer turned to Ridley and said, “Be of good comfort, Master Ridley, and play the man. We shall this day light such a candle, by God’s grace, in England as I trust shall never be put out.”
That was love that endured persecution and extended courage to a suffering brother, even in the midst of pain.
Genuine Christian love stands together, serves together, and suffers together.
Love that is real always shows itself in relationships.
But it doesn’t stop there.
The writer moves next to our personal purity — because genuine love not only governs how we treat others, it also shapes how we live before God.
II. Love Exhibited Through Personal Purity
II. Love Exhibited Through Personal Purity
4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
After speaking of brotherly love within the body, the writer now addresses love within the home.
He moves from the fellowship of believers to the faithfulness of marriage.
In a culture that mocks purity and cheapens commitment, this verse stands as a timeless reminder that love must be holy.
If we truly love others as Christ commands, that love will show itself in moral integrity.
A. A Sacred Covenant
A. A Sacred Covenant
Marriage is not a social contract — it is a sacred covenant designed by God Himself.
From the very beginning, God said, Genesis 2:18
18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
He then joined Adam and Eve together and declared, Genesis 2:24
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
That union is honorable — worthy of respect, dignity, and protection.
The phrase “in all” means in every way and for all people.
God designed marriage for all, not just for the religiously elite.
It is a picture of Christ and the church, as Ephesians 5:25 reminds us:
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
That’s not romantic sentiment — that’s sacrificial service.
When we honor marriage, we are honoring the gospel itself.
Love that is genuine seeks to protect, not exploit.
It builds trust instead of breaking hearts.
It guards purity because it values people as God’s creation, not as objects for pleasure.
In a world of broken vows, the believer’s marriage should stand as a testimony that God’s design still works.
B. A Serious Consequence
B. A Serious Consequence
The verse continues with a sober warning: “but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”
Those who treat God’s design lightly will face His discipline.
Love that defiles is not love at all — it’s selfishness disguised as affection.
1 Thessalonians 4:3–4 says,
3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;
God’s will for His children is holiness.
True love never leads to impurity; it always leads to holiness.
When someone says, “If you love me, you’ll do this,” that’s not love — that’s manipulation.
Love respects boundaries because it respects the One who set them.
Sin promises pleasure, but it always delivers pain.
Proverbs 6:32 warns,
32 But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: He that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
The destruction may not happen overnight, but it always comes.
Sexual sin robs us of joy, breaks relationships, and clouds fellowship with God.
That’s why the writer ties personal purity directly to genuine love.
You cannot love God and live contrary to His design for purity.
In the days of the Roman Empire, marriage was treated with contempt.
Men changed wives as easily as changing clothes, and immorality was celebrated as freedom.
Yet the early Christians, guided by the Word of God, lived differently.
They viewed marriage as sacred, and their purity became a powerful testimony in a corrupt world.
Historians record that the moral integrity of believers was one of the strongest factors that drew others to Christ.
In the same way, our purity today is one of the clearest proofs of genuine Christian love.
Love that is pure in heart will also be peaceful in spirit.
When we keep our relationships right and our morals clean, contentment follows.
That’s why the writer now turns from purity to peace — from honoring marriage to finding satisfaction in God’s faithful provision.
III. Love Evidenced by Peaceful Contentment
III. Love Evidenced by Peaceful Contentment
5 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
6 So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.
When love governs our lives, it not only affects how we treat others and guard our purity — it also changes how we view our possessions.
The writer continues, “Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have.”
That word “conversation” means your manner of life — your conduct, your daily way of living.
He’s saying, “Don’t let greed control your behavior.”
Covetousness is simply the desire for more — more money, more things, more status.
But when love fills the heart, greed loses its grip.
Because love and covetousness cannot coexist.
If we love people, we’ll use things.
If we love things, we’ll use people.
The Christian who truly trusts God learns that peace comes from contentment, not accumulation.
So then you will see…
A. A Contented Spirit
A. A Contented Spirit
Contentment is not natural — it must be learned.
The apostle Paul testified in Philippians 4:11,
11 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.
That means contentment doesn’t depend on circumstances but on confidence in Christ.
It is the quiet satisfaction that says, “God has given me all I need for today.”
A contented spirit sees everything as a gift, not a right.
1 Timothy 6:6–8 says,
6 But godliness with contentment is great gain.
7 For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.
8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.
True wealth is not measured by what we possess but by what we can live without.
When we rest in God’s provision, we find peace in His presence.
The secret to contentment is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.
When love fills the heart, gratitude follows.
Greed grows in a loveless heart, but gratitude grows in a loving one.
A person who loves God will thank Him for what He’s given rather than complain about what He hasn’t.
Secondly you will see…
B. A Confident Security
B. A Confident Security
The writer gives the reason for our contentment: “For he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”
This is one of the most comforting promises in all of Scripture.
The Greek structure here includes five negatives — literally, “I will never, never, never, never, never leave thee.”
It’s as if the Holy Spirit wants to drive the point home.
God’s presence is permanent.
When you belong to Him, you will never be abandoned.
That’s why verse 6 declares, “The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.”
Love that rests in God’s presence is free from the fear of loss.
If God is with us, then what can man really take away?
Romans 8:31 says,
31 What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
That doesn’t mean life will always be easy, but it does mean we will never be alone.
Spurgeon once said, “The promises of God are like stars; the darker the night, the brighter they shine.”
In dark days of uncertainty, we can rest securely knowing that Christ remains faithful.
Love trusts His care and therefore finds peace in His presence.
During the Great Depression, a poor widow faithfully gave to her church, even though she had almost nothing.
One day, someone asked her how she could give when she had so little.
She smiled and said, “Because the Lord promised He would never leave me nor forsake me — and He never has.”
Her contentment didn’t come from a full wallet but from a full heart.
That’s the kind of peaceful confidence that only love can produce — love for God that believes His promises and trusts His provision.
Love that is content rests secure because it knows God is faithful.
And that leads naturally into the final truth of this passage.
Genuine Christian love finds its stability in the unchanging Christ.
When the world shifts, Christ stays the same — and that’s why our love can remain constant too.
IV. Love Established on a Permanent Christ
IV. Love Established on a Permanent Christ
7 And of the angels he saith, Who maketh his angels spirits, and his ministers a flame of fire.
8 But unto the Son he saith, Thy throne, O God, is for ever and ever: a sceptre of righteousness is the sceptre of thy kingdom.
At the heart of genuine Christian love is a steady focus on Jesus Christ.
If our love for others or our obedience to God depends on our feelings, it will waver.
But if it rests on the unchanging character of Christ, it will endure.
In verse 7, The writer reminds believers to remember and imitate the faith of their spiritual leaders.
These were men who had taught them the Word and lived out that faith before them — many of whom may have already died for their testimony.
Their “end” refers to the outcome of their life — faithfulness to the very end.
Love that is genuine respects and remembers those who modeled faith before us.
We are not called to worship our leaders, but to walk in the same faith they lived.
Their example points us to the One who never fails — Jesus Christ Himself.
A. A Faithful Example
A. A Faithful Example
God places leaders in the church not to be idols but to be illustrations.
Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 11:1,
1 Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.
When leaders live with integrity and teach with conviction, they help anchor our faith.
Hebrews 6:12 says,
12 That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises.
The example of faithful men and women through history reminds us that love and faithfulness go hand in hand.
Consider men like Hudson Taylor, who trusted God’s provision without ever making his needs known to anyone but the Lord.
His life testified that Jesus Christ was sufficient.
When we follow godly examples, we strengthen our own resolve to remain faithful.
True leadership inspires imitation, not admiration.
We should thank God for those who have lived the faith before us and left us a pattern to follow.
B. A Firm Foundation
B. A Firm Foundation
Then comes one of the most comforting verses in the Bible: “Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and today, and for ever.”
The writer shifts our attention from human examples — who eventually pass away — to the eternal Savior who never changes.
Everything else in life is temporary.
Leaders come and go.
Circumstances rise and fall.
But Jesus remains the same.
Malachi 3:6 says,
6 For I am the Lord, I change not; Therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed.
Because Christ never changes, His love remains constant.
The same Christ who saved you yesterday sustains you today and will secure you forever.
Our faith, our peace, and our love must rest on that unchanging foundation.
When we realize that Jesus never changes, we will find the strength to keep loving people who do change.
When our emotions shift, our Savior stands firm.
When our hearts grow weary, His love renews our own.
That’s why the key to living out genuine love is staying anchored to an unchanging Christ.
In 1834, a hymn writer named Edward Mote penned words that perfectly express this truth:
My hope is built on nothing less
than Jesus’ blood and righteousness.
I dare not trust the sweetest frame,
but wholly lean on Jesus’ name.
On Christ the solid Rock I stand;
all other ground is sinking sand.
That hymn was born from Hebrews 13:8 — the unchanging Christ.
When your love grows cold, remember He still loves you the same.
When the world around you falls apart, His faithfulness remains your foundation.
Because Jesus never changes, our love doesn’t have to either.
The constancy of Christ gives consistency to our conduct.
Conclusion
Conclusion
The writer of Hebrews ends this section reminding us that love is the mark of mature faith.
Genuine Christian love shows up in our relationships, our purity, our contentment, and our devotion to Christ.
It’s not about emotion — it’s about obedience.
When we love others, guard our hearts, live with contentment, and stay anchored to the unchanging Christ, we show the world what real faith looks like.
The world doesn’t need more religious talk — it needs more Christlike love.
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Let His unchanging love control your personal behavior and shape how you live every day.
