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Scripture

Psalm 34:17–19 ESV

When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.

Psalm 34:22 ESV

The Lord redeems the life of his servants; none of those who take refuge in him will be condemned.

Isaiah 57:1–2 ESV

The righteous man perishes, and no one lays it to heart; devout men are taken away, while no one understands. For the righteous man is taken away from calamity; he enters into peace; they rest in their beds who walk in their uprightness.

And then finally John 14:

John 14:1–6 ESV

“Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also. And you know the way to where I am going.” Thomas said to him, “Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?” Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

John 14:18–19 ESV

“I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. Yet a little while and the world will see me no more, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live.

Remembering Luke

We gather today in a moment that none of us ever wanted to walk through. This room’s filled with people who loved Luke deeply—family members, close friends, people who watched him grow, and laugh, and learn, and become the remarkable young man that he was.

Today we stand in the tension between heartbreak and gratitude—heartbreak because his life here ended far too soon; but gratitude because his life, though it was short, it was full of meaning, full of love, full of impact.

It’s important, before we do anything else, to honor who Luke was.

The family described Luke to me with words that tell a whole story: kind, soft-hearted, tender, gentle, good, smart.

Luke wasn’t loud about who he was. He didn’t need to be. He carried a quiet strength and a calmness beyond his years.

He loved to hunt—not just because it was a hobby, but because it connected him to the people he loved most.

His father, Koy, said something I believe will stay with me for a long time: He said, “He made me a better dad.”

It’s one thing to have a child you love; it’s another thing to have a child who shapes you, who teaches you, who brings the very best out of you. Luke did that. He made his dad gentler. He made him patient. He made him proud. He made him better.

His mother shared memories that spoke of a unique, irreplaceable bond—a closeness that doesn’t fade. A mother knows her child in a way no one else possibly can. And Luke brought a tenderness out of his mom that was mutual, that flowed both ways.

Every person I’ve spoken to has said, in one form or another, “Luke made my life better.”

For a 16-year-old to leave that kind of imprint is very rare. And it tells us something powerful: Luke lived his life well, even if it was tragically cut short.

Message

Listen, when tragedy happens, especially one as sudden as this, we’re left with questions—questions that no parent, or friend, or even pastors can fully answer.

It’s okay to feel confusion. It’s okay to feel anger. It’s okay to feel the world’s not as it should be. Because it isn’t.

The Bible doesn’t shy away from these emotions. In fact, it meets us right in the middle of them. “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.” He isn’t distant. He isn’t unmoved. He draws near to our brokenness.

And in Scripture, we hear again and again this promise: This world we live in, its not the end of the story.

Jesus looked at His closest friends—friends who were afraid of losing Him—and said, “Don’t let your hearts be troubled… I go to prepare a place for you.”

He didn’t pretend life was easy. He didn’t pretend there wouldn’t be pain. He simply promised that pain doesn’t get the last word.

God created every person with eternity in mind. Every single one of us is made for something beyond this world. The love we feel for Luke, it doesn’t end today because love is eternal.

And listen, that’s exactly the Christian’s hope. It’s that God, seeing our broken world, sent His Son Jesus not to condemn us, but to save us—to heal what’s broken, to comfort what’s hurting, to bring a kind of life that death can’t destroy.

Jesus’ message was never about being religious or perfect. It was about being loved.

He said, “I won’t leave you as orphans… Because I live, you also will live.”

When Jesus spoke about eternity, He spoke as someone offering a home—a place prepared, a place safe, a place where every tear’s wiped away.

And the most amazing part of this promise, its that God’s arms are open to every person. His comfort is for every heart. His hope’s for every family.

Especially those grieving—especially those with unanswered questions—He invites us to find rest in Him. Not pressure. Not force. Just rest… and hope… and peace.

Jesus says in Matthew chapter 11:

Matthew 11:28–30 ESV

Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

Closing

And so, how do we move on? How do we get pass this? We honor Luke. We remember him. We carry his kindness forward. We remember how his heart softened ours, right?

Honoring Luke means allowing his life to shape yours…just as his dad said: Luke made me a better dad.

If Luke could speak to us today, I believe he would want his family to hold onto hope. He would want ‘em to cling tightly to each other. And I believe—with all my heart—that he would want ‘em to know God’s comfort, and God’s nearness, and God’s love.

This isn’t the end of Luke’s story. And because of God’s promise, this isn’t the end of your connection with him.

Cling to that! Hold on to God’s promises!

Revelation 21 says:

Revelation 21:1–7 ESV

Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” Also he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” And he said to me, “It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. To the thirsty I will give from the spring of the water of life without payment. The one who conquers will have this heritage, and I will be his God and he will be my son.

As we hear those words, we’re reminded that the God who made Luke, the God who saw his kindness and his tender heart…that God, He’s promised something greater than what we know today. A world where heartbreak doesn’t exist. A world without tragedy. A world without fear.

The Scripture says, “He will wipe every tear from their eyes.” Not just comfort us—but personally tend to our sorrow. It says, “He’s making all things new.” Not some things… all things. God’s promise isn’t to erase Luke’s story—it’s to complete it. To bring him into a place where there is no more danger, where there is no darkness, no pain. A place where the gentleness Luke lived with is fully at home.

And for all of us who remain, the passage says God Himself will be with us. He’ll be our strength, our refuge, our hope in the days ahead. These words—“trustworthy and true”—are God’s way of saying: You’re not alone. Your grief isn’t unnoticed. Your tears are seen, and they matter.

Today, as we entrust Luke to the One who makes all things new, we also bring Him our pain, our questions, our hopes. And we ask for His strength to carry this family in the days ahead.

Let’s turn to Him together in prayer.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts that are heavy and tender. We thank You for the promise we just heard—Your promise that You are making all things new. We cling to that today.

Lord, You said You would wipe every tear from our eyes. And so, here and now, we ask You to draw close to Luke’s family—surround them with Your comfort, Your gentleness, Your peace. Hold them when the waves of grief feel overwhelming. Whisper hope into their hearts when the silence of this loss feels too loud.

We thank You for Luke— for his kindness, for his soft heart, for his love of the outdoors, for the joy he brought to his parents, …for the way he changed the lives around him.

His life was a gift, and we honor that gift today.

God, You are the Beginning and the End— and so we trust Luke into Your hands. Hands that are stronger than our tragedy. Hands that are more tender than ours. Hands that heal what we can’t.

We ask that You be close to this family. Strengthen them. Carry them. Help them feel Luke’s impact even now, in the love and memories that remain. Be close to Luke’s father and mother in a special way—bring peace to their hearts, comfort to their spirit, give ‘em a sense of Your nearness.

And for every person in this room, give courage for the road ahead. Give rest where there’s exhaustion, mercy where there’s confusion, and Lord hope where the future feels uncertain.

Thank You, God, that Your words are trustworthy and true. Thank You that Luke is safe with You. And thank You that we don’t walk these days alone.

Father, we pray these things in Your Son’s holy and mighty name.

Amen.

Sharing of Memories

At this time, if anyone would like to share a story, or a memory, or something uplifting about Luke, we welcome you to do that at this time. Understand that your words are apart of the healing process and so don’t be afraid to come and share those memories everyone.

Closing

God, thank You for the memories that were shared today. Again, thank you for the life of Luke that touched so many.

As we step out of this place, walk with this family. Carry them. Comfort them. And let Your hope guide them each and every day.

We pray this in Jesus’s name. Amen!