The Problem with Self-Deception
self-deception is not the worst thing we do, but it’s the reason we can do the worst things. Self-deception is not the worst thing we do, but it is the reason why we so easily miss God.
Let me go up one more step. Here’s a lady. She’s a talented musician, and she was sort of raised in a kind of religious home. She moves to New York, and now she wants to break into the rock music era.
The truth is she knows down underneath there is a God and there is a right and wrong and there are moral absolutes, but it’s very painful for somebody who desperately wants to be accepted, to be seen as cool, to get the gig she wants, to hang out, to be accepted, and she certainly wants to keep the boyfriend she has, and he wants to sleep with her.
There’s plenty of evidence she does believe there’s a God. She talks as if racism is wrong. That shows you believe there’s a God because you know there are moral absolutes, just not for you. And she hides it with a technique. She says, “Most of the Christians I know are all kind of hypocrites anyway.” And on we go. Let me get just one more. It gets worse.