Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father?
Help Your Sons Become Warriors
Help Your Sons Become Priest
Practice Discipline
Hebrews 12:9 NIV84
Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live!
Expect Resistance
Hebrews 12:11 NIV84
No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.