PRAYER STARTS WITH WORSHIP

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INTRO

MAIN TEXT

Matthew 6:9–13 ESV

Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

HOOK

Think about the last time you had to walk into a room that mattered — a job interview, a meeting with somebody's boss, maybe the first time you met your future in-laws. You rehearsed. You thought through your opening line. You wanted to say the right thing, in the right order, in the right tone.

Now think about a toddler. A toddler doesn't rehearse anything before talking to their dad. They just walk up mid-thought and start talking — no introduction, no résumé, no performance. And somehow, that's closer to what God wants from us in prayer than the version we rehearse in our heads.

A lot of us treat prayer like the job interview. We worry about saying it right. We wonder if we're kneeling long enough or using the right words. But Jesus opens the Lord's Prayer with two words that change everything: "Our Father." Before we ever get to what we need, He teaches us who we're talking to. Over the next four weeks, as we walk through this prayer together and lean into 21 Days of Prayer as a church, we're going to keep coming back to that same starting point — prayer isn't a performance. It's a conversation with a Father who already knows your name.

MAIN IDEA

PRAYER DOESN’T START WITH WHAT YOU NEED, IT STARTS WITH WHO HE IS.

1. GOD IS OUR FATHER.

Matthew 6:9 ESV

Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.

Jesus could have taught us to open with "Almighty Creator" or "Righteous Judge." Instead, He hands us two words: Our Father. Romans 8:15 says we didn't receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but a Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry "Abba, Father." That's not formal language — that's family language. Prayer starts with relationship, not ritual.

A. WE’RE INVITED INTO RELATIONSHIP, NOT RITUAL.

Romans 8:15 NLT

So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.”

PRAYER STARTS WITH RELATIONSHIP.

YOU DON’T NEED THE RIGHT WORDS TO TALK TO YOUR FATHER.

GOD DIDN’T TEACH US TO SAY “JUDGE”, HE TAUGHT US TO SAY DAD.

B. A GOOD FATHER LISTENS.

YOU’RE NOT SHOUTING INTO A VOID, YOU’RE TALKING TO SOMEONE WHO’S LISTENING.

A FATHER DOESN’T NEED YOU TO PERFORM TO GET HIS ATTENTION.

HE KNEW YOUR WORDS BEFORE YOU FOUND THEM.

C. ADOPTION CHANGES HOW WE APPROACH THE THRONE.

ADOPTION MEANS YOU DON’T KNOCK, YOU WALK IN.

YOU’RE NOT A STRANGER ASKING FOR FAVORS, YOU’RE A CHILD COMING HOME.

EVERY PRAYER STARTS FROM A PLACE YOU ALREADY BELONG.

2. WORSHIP REALIGNS OUR HEART.

Matthew 6:9 ESV

Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.

"Hallowed be your name" means His name is holy, set apart, high above every other name we say all day. Isaiah got a glimpse of that holiness in a vision — God on a throne, angels calling out "holy, holy, holy," the whole room shaking. Isaiah's response wasn't a request. It was "Woe to me! I am ruined." Seeing God rightly has a way of putting everything else back in its place.

A. SEEING GOD RIGHTLY PUTS EVERYTHING ELSE IN PROPORTION.

Isaiah 6:1–5 NLT

It was in the year King Uzziah died that I saw the Lord. He was sitting on a lofty throne, and the train of his robe filled the Temple. Attending him were mighty seraphim, each having six wings. With two wings they covered their faces, with two they covered their feet, and with two they flew. They were calling out to each other, “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of Heaven’s Armies! The whole earth is filled with his glory!” Their voices shook the Temple to its foundations, and the entire building was filled with smoke. Then I said, “It’s all over! I am doomed, for I am a sinful man. I have filthy lips, and I live among a people with filthy lips. Yet I have seen the King, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies.”

YOU CAN’T SEE GOD CLEARLY AND STILL THINK YOU’RE THE MAIN CHARACTER.

ISAIAH DIDN’T FALL DOWN BECAUSE HE FELT SMALL, HE FELL DOWN BECAUSE GOD IS BIG.

WORSHIP STARTS THE MOMENT YOU STOP MEASURING YOURSELF AGAINST PEOPLE AND START MEASURING YOURSELF AGAINST HIM.

B. HOLINESS HUMBLES BEFORE IT HEALS.

YOU CAN’T STAY CASUAL ABOUT A NAME THAT MAKES ANGELS COVER THEIR FACES.

ISAIAH’S FIRST WORD IN GOD’S PRESENCE WASN’T A REQUEST, IT WAS A CONFESSION.

C. WHAT WE WORSHIP FIRST SHAPES WHAT WE ASK FOR NEXT.

HALLOWED BE YOUR NAME COMES BEFORE GIVE US, FORGIVE US, AND DELIVER US.

GET THE ORDER WRONG, AND PRAYER TURNS INTO A TRANSACTION.

WORSHIP ISN’T THE OPENING ACT, IT’S THE WHOLE ATMOSPHERE.

3. WORSHIP ANCHORS US IN TRUST.

A. WORSHIP IS THE DOORWAY INTO HIS PRESENCE.

Psalm 100:4 NLT

Enter his gates with thanksgiving; go into his courts with praise. Give thanks to him and praise his name.

Psalm 100:4 tells us how we come in: "Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise." Worship isn't just how we open a prayer — it's the doorway into trust. It's hard to stay anxious about your circumstances while you're actively praising the One who holds them.

YOU DON’T SNEAK INTO GOD’S PRESENCE, YOU ENTER IT WITH THANKSGIVING.

GRATITUDE IS THE GATE; PRAISE IS THE COURTYARD.

THE WAY IN IS THE SAME EVERY TIME, THANKSGIVING AND PRAISE.

B. PRAISE STEADIES US IN THE STORM.

IT’S HARD TO PANIC AND PRAISE AT THE SAME TIME.

WORSHIP DOESN’T WAIT FOR THE OUTCOME TO SAY GOD IS GOOD.

YOU CAN PRAISE HIM FOR WHO HE IS BEFORE YOU SEE WHAT HE’LL DO.

C. TRUST IS THE ECHO OF TRUE WORSHIP.

REAL WORSHIP ALWAYS LEAVES TRUST BEHIND.

YOU CAN’T TRULY PRAISE GOD AND STAY ANXIOUS FOR LONG.

WORSHIP SAYS, ‘I TRUST YOU’, BEFORE IT EVER SAYS, ‘I UNDERSTAND’.

CONCLUSION/CLOSE

Application: Try opening every prayer this week with sixty seconds of praise before a single request. Watch how it changes the rest of the conversation.

Close Loop Back

So stop rehearsing. You don't need the perfect opening line to talk to your Father — you just need to come as you are, say His name, and let worship lead the way. Over the next four weeks we're going to keep walking through this prayer Jesus gave us, but it all starts right here: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.

1 Corinthians 11:23–26 NLT

For I pass on to you what I received from the Lord himself. On the night when he was betrayed, the Lord Jesus took some bread and gave thanks to God for it. Then he broke it in pieces and said, “This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way, he took the cup of wine after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant between God and his people—an agreement confirmed with my blood. Do this in remembrance of me as often as you drink it.” For every time you eat this bread and drink this cup, you are announcing the Lord’s death until he comes again.