Getting through life’s toughest moments with God

Psalms 13:1-6: TOPIC: How Long, O LORD? To O My LORD

Theme: Getting through life's toughest moments with God

Introduction

How do we respond during very difficult times or situations? Can we learn from our past experiences or others' experiences about how to deal with tough moments? Is it possible to go through tough moments?

Psalm 13 is one of many lament psalms in the book of Psalms. Scholars attribute it to David before he became king, after the death of King Saul. Therefore, it is possible that David's struggle is associated with the time when he was fleeing from King Saul. This Psalm is a deeply personal expression of anguish and an appeal for Divine intervention. Such an experience of despair is common to all of us, though at different times and in different circumstances. The overarching question is, How do we respond to difficult circumstances?

David's went through three phases while responding to his situation.

David Moaning/murmuring (vs 1-2)

David is in very low spirits, with a loss of hope and courage.

What is the possible reason for such feelings and reaction?

1). David is impatient, like any of us would be during tough moments.

Due to his difficult situation, which he does not bring up, he asks five questions, four of which start with HOW LONG? He is pointing at God, “How long will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?”

Although he doesn't specify how long, the long here is the length of a tough experience that is both wearying and depressing.

Is God aware of the situation and the length of difficulties that David is going through? YES. That’s why David asks, "How Long, Lord?"

But David is not patient, possibly due to the length of his uncomfortable experience.

2). David's feelings of being alone are a sign of the possibility of losing hope and abandoning God.

David felt forgotten (13:1a); forsaken (13:1b). He felt frustrated (13:2a); he felt defeated (13:2b).

He inwardly isolates himself from God and those close to him, as we often do during tough moments. “I take counsel in myself.” “And have sorrow in myself all day.”

How long shall my enemy be exalted over me?

David Earnestly Communicates with God (13:3-4)

It's common for us, after moments of murmuring or complaining, to start trying to control uncomfortable feelings.

He makes a request to God instead of complaining (13:3)

1). Asks God to show He is concerned with what is happening to him: “Consider and answer me”

2). Invokes God’s presence/personal relationship. “Oh LORD my God”

3). Requests God to show His “Light.” He is asking for a change in him. Transform him to see situations from the right perspective. This change (transformation) is bigger than changing situations because difficult situations will often take place.

2. Why does David seek God’s Concern, and presence? (13:4)

Verse 4 completes verse 3, giving the reason why David is asking God to consider and answer him, and give his eyes light-a reflection of God’s presence and intervention.

Because David is concerned about God’s name (relationship with God-“Oh Lord MY God” he fears that his defeat and his enemy’s rejoicing over it will tarnish God’s reputation.

He is concerned about God’s name (beyond his situation to assurance of his relationship with God), a faith that is deeper than personal or individual concern. David considers his victory as God’s victory.

David’s results of Trusting God (13:5-6)

David remembers and trusts in God’s Abiding love (13:5a)

He realized that his impatience and questioning God’s trust and intervention is questioning His (God’s) faithfulness.

God’s love is firm and unchanging, and He does not forget.

How often do we impatiently take God’s faithfulness for granted during trial moments?

He acknowledges and rejoices in God’s deliverance (13:5b)

His earlier moaning/murmuring is transformed to praising God (13:6a)

Circumstances do not change God’s dealing with our situations (13:6b).

Untitled Bible Study (23)

1. What emotions do you feel when you are sick at home or discouraged and down?

2. In what ways have your friends or family helped you through a time of illness or discouragement?

3. Why did David cry out to the Lord? (13:1–6)

4. What questions went through David’s mind as he waited for the Lord’s answer to his prayer? (13:1–2)

5. What did David ask God to do? (13:3)

6. What impact did David think his death would have on his enemies? (13:4)

7. What two character traits of the Lord’s encouraged David in his despair? (13:5)

8. How did David’s memory of the past change his perspective on the present? (13:6)

9. How does your memory of the past change your perspective on the present and future?

10. In what specific ways do you think we should follow David’s example of questioning God about difficult circumstances?

11. What past acts of God’s goodness to you can you recall or write down as reminders to trust Him today?

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