The Life of Stephen

The Faithful Witness: Discovering the Life of Stephen

Summary: The life of Stephen, the first Christian martyr, is a powerful testament to faith and courage in the face of persecution. His unwavering commitment to proclaiming the gospel and embodying Christ's love inspires believers to stand firm in their faith.

Big Idea: Being a faithful witness for Christ means standing firm in the face of adversity and demonstrating love and forgiveness, just as Stephen did.

1. Stephen Selected for Service

Acts 6:5 ESV

And what they said pleased the whole gathering, and they chose Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit, and Philip, and Prochorus, and Nicanor, and Timon, and Parmenas, and Nicolaus, a proselyte of Antioch.

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Stephen’s description as “full of faith,” and filled with the Holy Spirit (Acts 6:5, 8) paints a portrait of someone whose entire character and capacity were shaped by God’s presence. Being filled with the Spirit meant Stephen embodied a combination of qualities—wisdom, faith, grace, and power—that gave people an impression of spiritual abundance.

Ephesians 5:18 “And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,”

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Colossians 3:16 “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.”

You could highlight how Stephen was chosen because he was full of faith and the Holy Spirit, setting an example for us to seek God's empowerment in service. His selection underlines how God equips those who are called according to His purposes, affirming the importance of seeking spiritual attributes like wisdom and faithfulness in every situation.

Stephen was chosen because he was “full of faith and of the Holy Spirit.” What do you think it actually looks like for someone your age to be Spirit-filled in everyday life?

Colossians 3:16 connects being filled with the Spirit to letting the Word of Christ dwell in us richly. How does spending time in God’s Word shape the way we live, speak, and treat people?

Stephen wasn’t chosen because he had a big platform—he was chosen because of his character. What kind of character do you think God wants to develop in you before He uses you?

2. Spirit-Filled Actions and Words

Acts 6:8–15 ESV

And Stephen, full of grace and power, was doing great wonders and signs among the people. Then some of those who belonged to the synagogue of the Freedmen (as it was called), and of the Cyrenians, and of the Alexandrians, and of those from Cilicia and Asia, rose up and disputed with Stephen. But they could not withstand the wisdom and the Spirit with which he was speaking. Then they secretly instigated men who said, “We have heard him speak blasphemous words against Moses and God.” And they stirred up the people and the elders and the scribes, and they came upon him and seized him and brought him before the council, and they set up false witnesses who said, “This man never ceases to speak words against this holy place and the law, for we have heard him say that this Jesus of Nazareth will destroy this place and will change the customs that Moses delivered to us.” And gazing at him, all who sat in the council saw that his face was like the face of an angel.

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Perhaps focus on Stephen's miraculous works and his unwavering wisdom when challenged. His confidence in the Holy Spirit is crucial for us today as we face spiritual battles. This point suggests that believers, like Stephen, can rely on divine wisdom and power, which transforms their witness even amid adversities.

This “grace and power” represented both “sweetness and strength” in one person: a gracious, Christ-like character alongside the ability to perform miraculous signs among the people.[1] His power manifested in tangible ways through great wonders and signs (Acts 6:8), demonstrating that the Spirit’s work moved beyond internal character into external, visible ministry.

1 Peter 3:15–16 “but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame.”

Stephen had both “grace and power.” Why do you think it’s important for Christians to have both truth and kindness when representing Jesus?

When people challenged Stephen, he responded with wisdom through the Spirit instead of fear. What usually makes us afraid to speak up about our faith, and how can we depend on the Holy Spirit in those moments?

1 Peter 3:15–16 tells us to be ready to give a reason for our hope “with gentleness and respect.” What would that look like in a conversation with a friend who disagrees with your faith?

3. Stephen's Bold Declaration

Acts 7:1-53

Maybe explore how Stephen boldly recounts Israel's history, emphasizing God's faithfulness and the people's repetitive disobedience. His sermon points us to God's ongoing work in our lives despite challenges, motivating us to remain faithful and share this story, believing in God's plan and eternal purposes.

When opponents debated Stephen, they couldn’t withstand the wisdom and Spirit evident in his speech (Acts 6:10)—his words carried authority because they flowed from genuine spiritual depth.

Stephen used Israel’s history to show God’s faithfulness and the people’s repeated disobedience. Why is it important for us to remember what God has done in the past when we’re going through difficult seasons?

Stephen boldly spoke the truth even though he knew it could cost him. What keeps us from being bold about our faith, and what can we learn from Stephen’s courage?

Stephen’s words had authority because they came from a life genuinely shaped by God. How can we make sure that what we say about Jesus is backed up by the way we actually live?

4. Stephen's Martyrdom of Love

Acts 7:54-60

You could conclude with Stephen's death, focusing on his vision of Jesus and his prayer of forgiveness for his persecutors. This is a powerful reminder of Jesus' dying words, encouraging us to embody genuine forgiveness even in suffering, ultimately reflecting a profound Christ-centered love.

Even in his final moments, facing execution, Stephen remained “full of the Holy Spirit,” gazing into heaven and seeing God’s glory with Jesus at God’s right hand. (Acts 7:55)

Stephen was being attacked and killed, yet he prayed for the people hurting him. Why do you think forgiveness is so difficult, and what does Stephen teach us about forgiving others?

Stephen looked to Jesus in his final moments instead of focusing only on his suffering. What does it look like for us to keep our eyes on Jesus when life gets painful or unfair?

Stephen’s final words reflected the love and forgiveness of Jesus. If someone watched the way you handled conflict, hurt, or betrayal, would they see Jesus in you? Why or why not?