A growing number of us run to social media as the first step to healing from the wrong we've suffered at the hand of another. We want others to know our pain because we think it'll make us feel better. The reality is, it adds fuel to the fire. It opens the door for the enemy to chime in on your post and attempt to influence you to harbor hatred. We think, "If I don't blame them, I have to blame myself—and if not me—then God is to blame". How about we follow God and do what He did with His hurt?