Sample Log list for husband and wives

Log list: husband and father

Go over this list and personalize it. Make your own list, using this as a guideline. Be honest and objective and specific. Pull no punches. Be sure to add things that you see wrong in your life that are not mentioned on this list. Specifically confess your sins to God and those whom you have wronged. Seek God's help to change. Bring this list back and we will discuss it.

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I do not lead family devotions regularly.

I failed to realize why… Is so important to her.

I failed to realize why… Is so important to her. I did not show enough concern in her interest in painting or…? I do not give enough assistance with her… (Examples).

I did not show enough concern in her interest in painting or…?

I do not give enough assistance with her… (Examples).

For too long I have taken her love too much for granted I have often been irritable with her about… (Examples).

I have been lazy in doing yard work.

I have been selfish sexually. In what ways?

I often expect her to drop housework and give me attention.

I become irritated when she is not ready to leave on time, but expect her to be patient when I am not ready on time.

I have not been giving her enough candy, flowers, gifts, and surprises.

I have not been keeping my desk neat and orderly.

I failed to realize why… Is so important to her. I did not show enough concern in her interest in painting or…? I do not give enough assistance with her… (Examples).

For too long I have taken her love too much for granted I have often been irritable with her about… (Examples).

I have been lazy in doing yard work.

I have been selfish sexually. In what ways?

I often expect her to drop housework and give me attention.

I become irritated when she is not ready to leave on time, but expect her to be patient when I am not ready on time.

I have not been giving her enough candy, flowers, gifts, and surprises.

I have not been keeping my desk neat and orderly.

I feel to express myself clearly and fully. I expect her to know.

I have been backward about showing any affection to my wife in public. In what ways?

My attention often wanders when she's talking to me.

I spend too much time away from home and I am not available to her or the children many nights out of the week.

Sometimes days go by without any significant communication between us. I refuse to help her with the housework or dishes.

Sometimes days go by without any significant communication between us.

Sometimes I have a tendency to ask too many questions about the matter, wanting to know details out of foolish curiosity.

I refuse to help her with the housework or dishes.

Sometimes I have a tendency to ask too many questions about the matter, wanting to know details out of foolish curiosity.

I have not helped enough with… (Give examples).

I sometimes initiate plans without her counsel (give examples).

I neglect our jobs around the house. What odd jobs?

I sometimes tease her too much when we are around others. Examples?

I leave shoes, clothing, and other things lying around the house.

I selfishly play music too loudly.

Log list: wife and mother

Read ; ; ; ; ; . Go over this list and personalize it where ever it fits your sins and faults. Add others to it as you examine your own life.

I seldom pray. My prayer life is very sporadic. When do you pray?

I do not enjoy reading the Bible as I used to. How much do you read?

I make excuses for not attending church. Why?

I resent the fact that we live where we do. Why?

I demand too much of my husbands…. What? How?

I am jealous and suspicious of… About what?

I am too critical of… About what?

I am bossy. With whom? About what?

I am too concerned with outward appearances. Examples?

I have bestowed too much time, money, attention to…

I am not as happy as I pretend to be. I put on a false front. About what?

I am too moody. About what? When? Examples.

I resent being tied down by the children or having no children.

I have been too insensitive to my husband's problems and concerns. Which?

I am too concerned about money. How is this manifested?

I am too worldly and carnal in my thinking, actions, and dress.

I am too much of a perfectionist in my housekeeping. How is this manifested?

I have not been willing to go camping or bowling or… With… Or to work on our cabin.

I have never liked his parents or his older brother (etc. etc.).

I have tried to please my parents too much when I should have been more concerned about pleasing my husband. Examples.

I was more concerned about a new career in… When I should've been concerned about motherhood as being the most important thing to me.

I have not sufficiently appreciated what his parents have done for us.

I argue with him about… When I should be submissive. Examples?

I am too outspoken at times when others are around. Examples?

Sample Log list for husband and wives

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