Living with Expectancy

1 Peter 4:7-11

I recall growing up, when my parents would leave the house for a while and they would leave certain responsibilities for me and my siblings, to be done by the time they returned. How cognizant I was to make certain that everything they asked me to do was done by the time they returned. However; every so often I would go to the front door or window and see if they were near, because we did not want to be caught with our duties undone.

When Peter mentions, “…the end of all times is at hand…” he is saying get your house in order because the Master is on His way back. He is calling for us to be on the lookout for the returning Christ.

To live with expectancy, is to prepare for the day we will stand before Christ. Most importantly, it is knowing that how we serve Him and live today, is the determining factor of how we are judged and rewarded when we meet Him.

Peter gives us some hints and keys necessary to glorify the Master as we live expecting His return. Vs7 of the text teaches us to:

Live Deliberately

Three words stand out in verse 7 which guide us in understanding Peter’s exhortation. Sober, Watch and Prayer. Peter says, be sober and watch unto prayer.

This word sober in the original language means to be clear minded. The thought then is of one who is focused and uneasily distracted. What was there to be distracted by you ask? There was some disruptive behavior going on at this time by Nero and persecutors of the church. Nero was burning Rome and anyone found displaying faith in Christ. See, satan has a tendency to disrupt the lives of many believers and he doesn’t always make it obvious. His methods are not always the same. There are moments he is quite subtle and discreet with his ploys sometimes he will use fear. So Peter suggests we be clear minded and focused. He says watch unto prayer.

That word watch in the Greek is nēphō which means to be self-controlled. The lesson is that regardless of how difficult life gets or how painful our suffering, we are required to live faithfully and submissive to the will of God. And if that isn’t enough he throws another requirement at us by saying, unto prayer. He tells us to make it a point to be serious about your walk with Christ. The call is for an intentional and continuous prayer life. He is telling us to live deliberately to avoid any interruption to our prayer life. Let nothing hinder you from communicating daily with the Savior. Let nothing interfere with your worship. Watch- (control yourself) knowing the Savior desires to hear your prayers. Watch (control yourself) knowing Satan desires to interrupt your prayers. Worship knowing Jesus answers your prayers.

Transition: Living with expectancy goes further than us just waiting on the return of the Lord. It is living by outwardly displaying our trust in the Savior.

Application: Go out of your way to pray in spite of your circumstances. Plan your prayer life. Schedule moments to just sit down and talk to God. Instead of searching Facebook, search the Faith Book . . .

Transition: Peter admonishes that even under stress and suffering that we are also obligated, Love Demonstratively:

Love Demonstratively (Vs. 8)

“And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.”

Can I just be honest for a moment? There are some folk who make loving them very difficult. I mean it becomes hard to hold my peace, my patience is tried, my nerves get short, because they know how to push buttons. I don’t enjoy being pushed. But you know what I have found out is that the more I love them in spite of their actions the better I feel. It is when I snap off or become abrasive and combative when I feel the worse. Why, you ask? Because I realize that the ultimate responsibility is to love and show love is on me. Peter says “above all things have fervent charity among yourselves”

This word fervent is ĕktĕnēs, (ek-ten-ace´): without ceasing, more vividly it means to stretch out. It is strong and bonded love that cannot be broken. Love, the Agape, compels us to do the opposite of those things we want to do. Love, the Agape, keeps us stretching even when it hurts. Does that remind you of something? It reminds us of the love of Christ on Calvary as He stretched for you and me. Christian love, my friends never reaches a breaking point. (we stretch and never break) Jesus said, by this will others know that you are my disciple that you love one another ().

Wait a minute, look at what Peter says, he says that charity, Agape, shall cover a multitude of sins. It is bad enough when the world points the finger and tears us down. Oh but how horrible it is when the Saints gather and ridicule, accuse and alienate each other. The lesson is not that we condone sin but that we see beyond it and see our fallen brother and aide them back into the fold. “We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.” ()

Illustration: Jesus loved us so much that He stretched on Calvary . . .The Rubber-band

Application: Demonstrate your love for others by exercising patience. Go beyond expectations and kindness. When people hurt you love them with forgiveness. When people overlook you love them by embracing them. When people lie on you love them by praying for them.

Transition: Living with expectancy is reminding ourselves that we represent Christ and all we do should illuminate Him. Peter says that because we represent Christ, He requires that we Share Significantly

Share Significantly (Vs.9)

“Use hospitality one to another without grudging.”

Peter exhorts the church to open their homes as well as their hearts. He says, “…Use hospitality one to another without grudging…” share without holding back. We must be loving and serious enough to put away our egos and share with others. One of the pillars of Christianity is in the area of relationships. In order to build relationships that are meaningful we must be willing to open up our lives and our possessions, willing to have the Lord use us and our possessions to enrich the lives of others. We need not live by the worlds mantra, “I got mine, you get yours” or “it’s a dog eat dog world” No, our song must be, “I need you, you need me. We’re all a part of God’s body”

Illustration: Every Thanksgiving and Christmas we hear the statement that it is the time for giving. We notice people sharing and giving to the less fortunate and often moved to do things they wouldn’t ordinarily do for others. All because it is the season of giving.

Transition: We as believers are called to share daily. We should not wait until the season changes.

Illustration: Jesus Shared His Life with us . . .

Application: Don’t wait until the holiday, to share do it now. Go in your closet and share the blessings of God with someone else. Pay for somebody else's gas. Cook a meal for somebody. Look for moments to share . . .

Transition: Others will be drawn to Christ when we show our hearts are pure through significant sharing. Peter reminds us that as believers we must also Serve Selflessly

Serve Selflessly (Vs. 10)

“As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God”

It is clear! It is definite if we are going to be effective in our kingdom assignments. We must use what God has given us as gifts to serve Him. And everything God has given us and left within our possession we are obligated to serve Him with. The kicker in this passage is this; Peter says we serve Christ regardless of the struggles in our lives. He challenges us to serve with the right motives. You see it, “As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.” There it is, as good stewards of the manifold of Grace of God. We serve Him by serving others.

But when we feel used and abused, hurt and hindered, busted and disgusted, frustrated and forgotten. We are not to worry, because we have His grace. A manifold of grace, which means various kinds, all kinds, every color.

You remember earlier when he mentioned that love covers all. Well, it is evident that Peter is up to something here. As our love covers others, His grace covers us!

Anybody know anything about His Grace?

Paul says, “It’s sufficient”()

Luke Says, “It’s great” ()

“It’s Sovereign” ()

“It’s Glorious” ()

Big Mama Said, “It’s Amazing”

“Amazing Grace, How sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me…”

Serving the Lord will pay off