Unbreakable Marriage

Introduction - There are few things as euphoric as a good marriage and painful as a poor marriage.

Cover Home Base

Ziklag experience - Building without making sure your foundation is secure. Success in career but failure at home.

1 Samuel 29:11–30:2 NKJV

So David and his men rose early to depart in the morning, to return to the land of the Philistines. And the Philistines went up to Jezreel. Now it happened, when David and his men came to Ziklag, on the third day, that the Amalekites had invaded the South and Ziklag, attacked Ziklag and burned it with fire, and had taken captive the women and those who were there, from small to great; they did not kill anyone, but carried them away and went their way.

Everyday “I Do”

Queen is happy there’s peace in the kingdom, mama isn’t happy nobody is, happy wife - happy life

Regular de-brief time daily

Prayer time - a family that stays together prays together

Weekly date -

Service in church together

Devotional time together

EVERY FLOOR BUILDS ON THE ONE BEFORE

Build A Community Around Your Marriage -

Matthew 7:24-25

Matthew 7:24–25 NKJV

“Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.

Build strong - get the people with best materials (word) speaking into your lives.

Wedding reception guests are witnesses to vows

Communication Is Key

Clear expectation (Psychic)

Invalidation (historical)

Practicing Empathy (look for win/win, Impt to you Impt to Me)

Two Becoming One

- Invest in your marriage

Matthew 6:21 NKJV

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Agree About ...

Amos 3:3 NKJV

Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?

Vision - Illustration - one wanted children and the other didn’t.

Finances - shared success and consequences

Children - disciplining them, when to help,