Lose it to Save it
introduction
Deny yourself
The attitude called for is one in which self-interest and personal desires are no longer central.
The attitude called for is one in which self-interest and personal desires are no longer central.
To deny oneself is to accept God’s point of view about life, which has implications not just for the Son of Man, but for everyone who is drawn to him.
To deny oneself is not to do without something or even many things. It is not asceticism, not self-rejection or self-hatred, nor is it even the disowning of particular sins. It is to renounce the self as the dominant element in life. It is to replace the self with God-in-Christ as the object of affections. It is to place the divine will before self-will.
Jesus Foretells His Death and Resurrection
Self-denial takes shape in many ways. For some, it may mean leaving job and family as the disciples have done. For the proud, it means renouncing the desire for status and honor. For the greedy, it means renouncing an appetite for wealth. The complacent will have to renounce the love of ease. The fainthearted will have to abandon the craving for security. The violent will have to repudiate the desire for revenge. On it goes. Individuals know best what hinders them from giving their lives over to God.
Take up your Cross
The attitude called for is one in which self-interest and personal desires are no longer central.
This is not a matter of austere living, but of persevering in pressing the claims of the kingdom of God.
The concept should never be cheapened by applying it to enduring some irritation or even a major burden. It is closely related to self-denial, involving a willingness to give up everything dear in life and even life itself for the sake of Jesus. It is a willingness to suffer for Jesus and for others. Such a concept of discipleship is so radical that many contemporary Christians in the West have difficulty relating to it.
By requiring disciples to carry their cross, Jesus expects them to be willing to join the ranks of the despised and doomed. They must be ready to deny themselves even to the point of giving their lives.
Cross-bearing refers to self-sacrifice, even to the point of giving one’s life.
The cross represents the oppression caused by humans who oppose the faith and witness of Christians. It does not refer to bearing patiently the aches and pains of life.
Follow Me
In these parables Jesus invites us to look at human life from God’s point of view. We take a step forward if we admit that life belongs to God.