living the Authentic life
impression: True religion listens first and the responds to others. It is slowly angered... because it comes not from us but from the implanted word... produces righteousness.. it leads to action taking care of widows and orphans True religion derived from the right motive and listens and acts acccordingly. Big idea Authentic faith is derived from God’s word and goes beyond mere talking.
1. Mastering the Art of Good Communication.
The maxim or saying is to be “slow to anger.” A huge part of communication is conflict resolution… when there is more than you in the room… conflict is going to happen… this is a fact of life… should be taught from a young age… We are going to miss understand each other or say something that can cause problems.
The Roman poet Ovid encourages people to be slow to punish, but swift to reward. The Jewish writer Philo tells them to be swift to benefit others and slow to harm them.
a. RESIST THE TEMPTATION TO MONOPOLIZE CONVERSATION.
b. AVOID JUDGING TOO SOON.
c. DON'T FAKE ATTENTION.
d. LISTEN FOR IDEAS AS WELL AS FACTS.
The third step in preparation to be “slow to anger.” The ability to defeat anger allows us to listen to unpleasant truths. When we are angry, our thinking is out of balance; our reasoning is undependable
2. Learn to put your practice your Faith.
2. Find ways and places toActivateyour Faith.
A real spiritual life … makes us so alert and aware of the world around us, that all that is and happens becomes part of our contemplation and meditation and invites us to a free and fearless response.
—Henri Nouwen, Reaching Out
3. Finds the Sweet Spot of Authentic Faith.
Knowledge is important, but it’s not enough in and of itself. James makes clear that acting on what we have heard is what matters, not just hearing it. What is meaningful to God, what really counts in his eyes? Looking after the marginalized, who have always been dear to him. We need to make sure our priorities match up with his.
The choice we face every day and every hour is how we respond to the influences around us. When we embrace and cozy up to them, we’re very likely to get stained. Allowing God’s implanted Word and freely given wisdom to shape us and to guard our hearts and minds is the very best way we can avoid those staining influences.