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Introduction: As teenagers the days of adulthood are quickly approaching.

Inevitably, one day, you will all become adults.

It would actually be weird if you didn’t.

However, there are some adults (legal adults anyway) who never seemed to get the memo and they are stuck in a state of perpetual dependence on others.

We call this the Peter Pan Syndrome.

Peter Pan Syndrome refers to the condition of an adult who simply does not want to grow up.

One of the symptoms of Peter Pan Syndrome is the fear of making responsible decisions.

Are decisions something that we should be afraid of?

I certainly hope not.

Columbia University estimates that the average adult makes around 35,000 decisions every single day.

Imagine the pressure of life if decisions were something to be feared.

I mean, think about it.

When your alarm goes off in the morning you are faced with a decision: should I get out of bed?

When you get out of bed (hopefully) you are faced with another series of decisions: what should I wear, should I eat breakfast, what should I eat for breakfast, should I shower, should I brush my teeth, which should I do first?

As your day goes on you make decision after decision after decision, and you reach these decision points throughout your day around 35,000 times.

Since decisions are such a huge part of our lives we must ask this question: does the Bible teach us how to make wise decisions?

We must ask this question because decisions are often personal.

There are some decisions that you will face in life that no one can make for you and it is up to you to cultivate the skill necessary in order to make those decisions.

For this study we are going to call the skill of decision-making discernment.

The Definition of Discernment

As we consider discernment we will first need to define what we mean when we say discernment.

As with anything the definition of discernment that the world gives is vastly different from the definition that the Bible gives, and as Christians we are not really concerned with the worldview of men since we know that the wisdom of man is foolishness.

Since we want to be Biblically discerning, let us consider

In its simplest definition discernment is the skill of understanding and applying God’s Word with the purpose of separating good from evil and right from wrong.

The ability to living a life of integrity is dependent on one’s ability to be discerning in every area of life.

John says that a Christians failure to be discerning leaves him open to all kinds of false teaching.

Unfortunately, discernment is an area where many Christians stumble.

Because many are unable to make decisions based on the unfailing wisdom of God’s Word, they unknowingly make unbiblical decisions.

Fortunately God has given us everything we need to live a discerning and successful Christian life.

So, since we desire to live a life of integrity we must develop the skill of discernment.

The Source of Discernment

Discernment is a gift from God.

Example: Solomon

As a result of asking for discernment, God gave Solomon both wisdom and discernment.

Solomon went on to write many proverbs, the purpose of which he wrote is

Solomon knew that God was the source of all good gifts and so he asked Gd for what he knew he needed.

God is still willing, ready, and able to give us this good gift today

This good gift is then available for Christians

The Power for Discernment

Discernment is not only a gift from God but it is also continually empowered by God.

God gives us His Spirit who leads us as we live our lives and encounter truth and error.

Solomon writes:

Paul writes:

True spiritual discernment is only available to those who have the indwelling Holy Spirit.

The Process of Obtaining Discernment

While the source of discernment is God and the power for discernment is the Holy Spirit, obtaining discernment is still a process.

Sometimes when faced with a decision point, the answer will be immediately obvious while at other times we will need to carefully think about what decision we should make.

The Bible tells us that God gifts us discernment by giving us the Holy Spirit who guides us in truth.

So part of the process for obtaining discernment is giving ourselves over to the careful study of God’s Word so that the Spirit can guide us in the truths of Scripture.

The End of Discernment

For now discernment is necessary because we live in a fallen world where we are constantly faced with decisions between right and wrong.

Because Adam and Eve failed to exercise good discernment in the garden we now must be watchful and discerning.

When Christ returns discernment will no longer be needed because there will be no more wrong and no more error for us to separate from.

So, discernment begins as a gift from God and ends with the hope of seeing God.

For today, as we long for the hope of living with God in eternity forever we must be discerning so that we can walk with Him today.