Rejection Must Fall: Week 3

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Dealing with Rejection

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Laying the foundation for a successful King

Rejection in today’s world is most commonly seen in
In-secruiting, self-worth,
Bullying
Being left out
Not being invited to the gathering
Being replaced by something new and different
Not being heard
Needing Approval
If you have had something said to you or about you. There could be a giant of rejection that is standing right in the middle of your life.
Rejection robs us of the joy that comes from God who loves us unconditionally.
You may think today Rejection is not something that you deal on a daily basis OR we might say absolutely this is a giant in my life that I face all the time.
There is an occupational hazard as a Pastor - People are a part of our church for a short time or a long time.
People move on and for what ever reason they as a Pastor we can feel a sense of rejections.
Remember I am a Pastor tending sheep,
Being a shepherd is part of being a Pastor.
When people leave for whatever reason there is a feeling of rejection one way or another.
That GIANT comes into my heart
Or I can allow the Giant to take over or I can ask Jesus to kill it.
Reading 1 Samuel 17:36
Bullying
28 When Eliab, David’s oldest brother, heard him speaking with the men, he burned with anger at him and asked, “Why have you come down here? And with whom did you leave those few sheep in the wilderness? I know how conceited you are and how wicked your heart is; you came down only to watch the battle.”
Naturally Eliab was the most qualified, he was a reasonable choice, and was brushed aside.
It just so happen that he was brushed aside for his brother.
Eliab new David was special even as a young kid
He new David had the gift and was unique.
Being left out
Not being invited to the gathering
Being replaced by something new and different
Not being heard
Needing Approval
If you have had something said to you or about you. There could be a giant of rejection that is standing right in the middle of your life.
Rejection robs us of the joy that comes from God who loves us unconditionally.
You may think today Rejection is not something that you deal on a daily basis OR we might say absolutely this is a giant in my life that I face all the time.
David tells his brothers that he wants to go out and fight this giant.
says,
33 Saul replied, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a young man, and he has been a warrior from his youth.”
Overcoming Rejection in todays world tends to focus on the self
This is your story
Take your life into your own hands and do something
TED talk said this - Rejection teaches what you don’t so you can figure out what you want.
LETS SET THE STAGE FOR THE NARRATIVE THIS MORNING IN .
Chapter 12 - Saul has become King
Chapter 13-15 Lead us through the accomplishments and Failures of Saul. Israels 1st King.
13:17- Philistines have superior numbers and superior technology.
The Israelites were weak and acted cowardly. When they answered the call of Saul they trembled.
At this point its interesting to note that the Spirit of God was probably not present.
We are not told that the spirit departed but something is not working right in Saul’s Israel.
The Israelites do not act like those who are allied with the spirit where in chapter 11 they did.
Something has gone wrong.
There needs to be new leadership.
No longer is Saul effective as King.
King Saul proved to be unworthy of the honor and responsibility of leading God’s people.
The people mourned as his leadership disintegrated before their eyes.
The prophet, Samuel, took a dangerous covert action by meeting with Jesse with the intention of finding and anointing a king to overthrow Saul.
Fortunately for Samuel and for David, God was fully involved in this political move.
To Samuel’s eyes, any of Jesse’s large and formidable-looking sons would have made wonderful leaders in place of Saul.
But God had other plans.
The smallest, youngest son, David, had the heart God was looking for.
The Lord said to Samuel, “How long will you grieve over Saul? I have rejected him from being king over Israel. Fill your horn with oil and set out; I will send you to Jesse the Bethlehemite, for I have provided for myself a king among his sons.” Samuel said, “How can I go? If Saul hears of it, he will kill me.” And the Lord said, “Take a heifer with you, and say, ‘I have come to sacrifice to the Lord.’ Invite Jesse to the sacrifice, and I will show you what you shall do; and you shall anoint for me the one whom I name to you.” Samuel did what the Lord commanded, and came to Bethlehem. The elders of the city came to meet him trembling, and said, “Do you come peaceably?” He said, “Peaceably; I have come to sacrifice to the Lord; sanctify yourselves and come with me to the sacrifice.” And he sanctified Jesse and his sons and invited them to the sacrifice.
When they came, he looked on Eliab and thought, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is now before the Lord.” But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for the Lord does not see as mortals see; they look on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” Then Jesse called Abinadab, and made him pass before Samuel. He said, “Neither has the Lord chosen this one.” Then Jesse made Shammah pass by. And he said, “Neither has the Lord chosen this one.” Jesse made seven of his sons pass before Samuel, and Samuel said to Jesse, “The Lord has not chosen any of these.” Samuel said to Jesse, “Are all your sons here?” And he said, “There remains yet the youngest, but he is keeping the sheep.” And Samuel said to Jesse, “Send and bring him; for we will not sit down until he comes here.” He sent and brought him in. Now he was ruddy, and had beautiful eyes, and was handsome. The Lord said, “Rise and anoint him; for this is the one.” Then Samuel took the horn of oil, and anointed him in the presence of his brothers; and the spirit of the Lord came mightily upon David from that day forward. Samuel then set out and went to Ramah.
Chapter 16- This is where David gets rejected by his own family. Here there is a shift in the narrative. Many say this is the rise of David.
Chapter 13-15 Lead us through the accomplishments and Failures of Saul. Israels 1st King.
`13:17- Philistines have superior numbers and superior technology. The Israelites were weak and acted cowardly. When they answered the call of Saul they trembled. At this point its interesting to note that the Spirit of God was probably not present. We are not told that the spirit departed but something is not working right in Saul’s Israel. The Israelites do not act like those who are allied with the spirit where in chapter 11 they did.
Something has gone wrong.
There needs to be new leadership. No longer is Saul effective as King.
Chapter 16- This is where David gets rejected by his own family. Here there is a shift in the narrative. Many say this is the rise of David.

1 Samuel 14:1–52

This complicated narrative presents three themes: (1) Israel continues to fight the Philistines, and Yahweh is present in the midst of the battle; (2) Jonathan is presented as a daring, winsome character, in contrast to his father, Saul; and (3) Saul is a well-intentioned, pious man who emerges as a pitiful, disappointing contrast to Jonathan.

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16 The Lord said to Samuel, “How long will you mourn for Saul, since I have rejected him as king over Israel? Fill your horn with oil and be on your way; I am sending you to Jesse of Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be king.”
But Samuel said, “How can I go? If Saul hears about it, he will kill me.”
The Lord said, “Take a heifer with you and say, ‘I have come to sacrifice to the Lord.’ Invite Jesse to the sacrifice, and I will show you what to do. You are to anoint for me the one I indicate.”
4 Samuel did what the Lord said. When he arrived at Bethlehem, the elders of the town trembled when they met him. They asked, “Do you come in peace?”
5 Samuel replied, “Yes, in peace; I have come to sacrifice to the Lord. Consecrate yourselves and come to the sacrifice with me.” Then he consecrated Jesse and his sons and invited them to the sacrifice.
First and Second Samuel 1 Samuel 16:1–13

The elders of Bethlehem are terrified at Samuel’s coming. Surely this is not trembling before the prophetic office but because of political risk. They know that Samuel is a kingmaker and a king breaker. Whenever the high officials of the court come to the village, there can be only trouble and risk. Such officials never come to give but always take. Either Samuel is Saul’s man, come to forage in the unclaimed south, or he is not Saul’s man, which puts them at risk with Saul. The elders assume themselves to be in a no-win situation

When they arrived, Samuel saw Eliab and thought, “Surely the Lord’s anointed stands here before the Lord.”
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
Then Jesse called Abinadab and had him pass in front of Samuel. But Samuel said, “The Lord has not chosen this one either.” Jesse then had Shammah pass by, but Samuel said, “Nor has the Lord chosen this one.” 10 Jesse had seven of his sons pass before Samuel, but Samuel said to him, “The Lord has not chosen these.” 11 So he asked Jesse, “Are these all the sons you have?”
“There is still the youngest,” Jesse answered. “He is tending the sheep.”
Samuel said, “Send for him; we will not sit down until he arrives.”
In this next section we see the drama intensify.
Jesse’s sons are paraded before Samuel the Kingmaker.
Yahweh speaks directly to Samuel and says to not be attracted to physical appearance.
Israel does not need another Saul.
vs. 7 - References that it needs to be someone with the “right heart”
We know the story as they are all rejected. All 8 Sons -
First and Second Samuel 1 Samuel 16:1–13

The drama intensifies. Jesse’s sons are paraded before Samuel. Only Samuel knows the reason for the parade of sons. Jesse and the elders do not know that they are witnesses of a decisive event in Israel’s life. The first son of Jesse, Eliab, is attractive and Samuel is drawn to him. Yahweh speaks directly to Samuel, however, and warns him not to be attracted to physical appearance (v. 7; cf. John 7:24; 2 Cor. 5:16). The explicit reference to height in this verse suggests that Yahweh can remember when they both were misled by the appearance of Saul (10:23), and Israel does not need another Saul. Verse 7 offers a clear theological premise: what counts is a “right heart” (cf. 13:14). Yahweh needs, wants, and will have a king with a rightly committed heart (cf. 1 Kings 3:9). As Eliab is rejected, so all of Jesse’s sons are found wanting. The first three are rejected by name, the others handled generically to fill out the number seven. This narrative begins with the rejection of Saul. Now we have a threefold use of the phrase “not choose.” The combination of “reject” and “not choose” builds the suspense of the narrative. We are waiting for a choice. We are, though we do not yet know it, waiting for David.

After the seven sons are rejected, the question about the eighth son is finally asked (v. 11a). The story draws our attention to the one outside the completed number, the one who surely is an outsider. The eighth son is the youngest, surely unimpressive, with no claim to make and no credentials to present (v. 11b).

First and Second Samuel 1 Samuel 16:1–13

After the seven sons are rejected, the question about the eighth son is finally asked (v. 11a). The story draws our attention to the one outside the completed number, the one who surely is an outsider. The eighth son is the youngest, surely unimpressive, with no claim to make and no credentials to present (v. 11b).

12 So he sent for him and had him brought in. He was glowing with health and had a fine appearance and handsome features.
Then the Lord said, “Rise and anoint him; this is the one.”
13 So Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the presence of his brothers, and from that day on the Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon David. Samuel then went to Ramah.,
This anointing of David was a private, even secret, matt. Now it is time for David to become pubilcly visible. At the ouset of his “reign,” David has only three constituents: yahweh and Samuel,
Chapter 12 - Saul has become King
Chapter 13-15 Lead us through the accomplishments and Failures of Saul. Israels 1st King.
`13:17- Philistines have superior numbers and superior technology. The Israelites were weak and acted cowardly. When they answered the call of Saul they trembled. At this point its interesting to note that the Spirit of God was probably not present. We are not told that the spirit departed but something is not working right in Saul’s Israel. The Israelites do not act like those who are allied with the spirit where in chapter 11 they did.
Something has gone wrong.
There needs to be new leadership. No longer is Saul effective as King.
Chapter 16- This is where David gets rejected by his own family. Here there is a shift in the narrative. Many say this is the rise of David.

Chapter 12 provides a moment of demanding theological reflection on the nature of power and leadership in Israel. That chapter, however, is something of an intrusion in the overall narrative, carefully positioned as it is for interpretive reasons. The first verse of chapter 13 seems to take up the narrative from 11:15. Saul has just become king. Now in chapters 13–15 the narrator leads us through the accomplishments (limited as they are) and failures (decisive as they are) of Israel’s first king.

13:1–7. These verses portray the Philistines as having superior numbers and superior technology. Conversely the Israelites are frightened and intimidated, and they behave in a cowardly way. When the Israelites answer Saul’s call to muster, they are “trembling” (v. 7). This is probably a descriptive account without any ideological intent. It is worth noting, however, that the “spirit” does not seem to be present. We are not told that the spirit had departed from Saul or from Saul’s troops. But something is not working right in Saul’s Israel. The Israelites do not act like those who are allied with the spirit.

The conduct of the Israelites in the face of the Philistine threat is a sharp contrast to their conduct when Saul fought the Ammonites (ch. 11). In that chapter the Israelites were bold, buoyant, and filled with energy. Here the Israelites are “in straits” (v. 6). They hid like cowards, and they trembled (v. 7). The contrast serves to demonstrate that Saul is no more on the ascendancy but is in fact moving toward his demise. Whereas the spirit empowered Saul in chapter 11 (v. 6), here there is no spirit, and so no freedom or success.

1 Samuel 14:1–52

This complicated narrative presents three themes: (1) Israel continues to fight the Philistines, and Yahweh is present in the midst of the battle; (2) Jonathan is presented as a daring, winsome character, in contrast to his father, Saul; and (3) Saul is a well-intentioned, pious man who emerges as a pitiful, disappointing contrast to Jonathan.

6:4–5. The elders of Bethlehem are terrified at Samuel’s coming. Surely this is not trembling before the prophetic office but because of political risk. They know that Samuel is a kingmaker and a king breaker. Whenever the high officials of the court come to the village, there can be only trouble and risk. Such officials never come to give but always take. Either Samuel is Saul’s man, come to forage in the unclaimed south, or he is not Saul’s man, which puts them at risk with Saul. The elders assume themselves to be in a no-win situation. Samuel is given access only because he repeats verbatim the deceptive words Yahweh has provided for him (v. 5). Only the most naïve could imagine this great one from the north came south for a mere sacrifice. Nonetheless, Jesse and his sons are consecrated and go to the sacrifice with Samuel (v. 5). The divinely authorized artifice works.

16:6–11. The drama intensifies. Jesse’s sons are paraded before Samuel. Only Samuel knows the reason for the parade of sons. Jesse and the elders do not know that they are witnesses of a decisive event in Israel’s life. The first son of Jesse, Eliab, is attractive and Samuel is drawn to him. Yahweh speaks directly to Samuel, however, and warns him not to be attracted to physical appearance (v. 7; cf. John 7:24; 2 Cor. 5:16). The explicit reference to height in this verse suggests that Yahweh can remember when they both were misled by the appearance of Saul (10:23), and Israel does not need another Saul. Verse 7 offers a clear theological premise: what counts is a “right heart” (cf. 13:14). Yahweh needs, wants, and will have a king with a rightly committed heart (cf. 1 Kings 3:9). As Eliab is rejected, so all of Jesse’s sons are found wanting. The first three are rejected by name, the others handled generically to fill out the number seven. This narrative begins with the rejection of Saul. Now we have a threefold use of the phrase “not choose.” The combination of “reject” and “not choose” builds the suspense of the narrative. We are waiting for a choice. We are, though we do not yet know it, waiting for David.

After the seven sons are rejected, the question about the eighth son is finally asked (v. 11a). The story draws our attention to the one outside the completed number, the one who surely is an outsider. The eighth son is the youngest, surely unimpressive, with no claim to make and no credentials to present (v. 11b).

Samuel announces that the whole process of review will be stopped until the eighth son appears (v. 11c). It is an awesome and unlikely scene, all the elders standing and waiting deferentially for this eighth son, the one whose name we are not even told. We do not know how long they waited, but it must have taken a while, for the eighth son was outside the house, tending the sheep. Verse 11 is a brilliant stroke of narrative strategy and design. The narrator makes Jesse’s household wait, and makes the reader wait, for the arrival of David. The story waits, just as Israel has waited.

16:12–13. Finally David comes. This is the one for whom Israel, Samuel, Yahweh, and the books of Samuel have been waiting. There is something wondrously ironic about the first words of the narrator upon the appearance of David. Samuel was under firm instruction from Yahweh not to pay any attention to David’s appearance (v. 7). What is valued and sought is a right heart, not appearance and stature. Yet David is handsome. His physical appearance may be irrelevant to the selection, but the narrator cannot restrain himself from commenting on it: “Now he was ruddy, and had beautiful eyes, and was handsome” (v. 12). Samuel and the narrator are dazzled. Yahweh does a quick heart examination and renders the verdict, “This is he” (cf. 9:17). Samuel must have been moved to sing with Simeon:

Lord, now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace,

according to thy word;

for mine eyes have seen thy salvation

which thou hast prepared in the presence of all peoples,

a light for revelation to the Gentiles,

and for glory to thy people Israel.

Luke 2:29–32

The anointing takes place (v. 13). The act is private and is not publicized; Israel and Yahweh now have a new king. David receives the anointing passively and silently. Nothing is said by David or to David. Samuel says nothing; the elders say nothing. The oil, however, does its work (v. 13). The oil binds Samuel (and Yahweh) in a firm loyalty to this shepherd boy who is to become king. The oil creates and identifies David as a proper subject for the “wind of God” (cf. 10:1, 10). Neither in terms of narrative presentation nor in terms of theological intention is there anything to distinguish the anointing of David from that of Saul. The spirit comes mightily and David is empowered (v. 13). The meeting is ended. The story is ended. Samuel returns home.

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